My husband have two best friends. They are a couple and we have been best friends for 15 years. My problem is I cannot have kids with my husband and my friends husband can not have kids with her. I have a child from a previous marriage but I am not able to have anymore children. My husband wants a child of his own very much and my girlfriend wants a child very much. We have talked about letting them have a child together, but I am afraid I will lose him. what do ya'll think?
O.k I know other have really issues they need to address.. maybe I'm just crazy.. but there are somthings I need to get off my chest, and I need maybe a little 3rd party advice. Where to start.Well am I 26 yr old single women no children I have been a productive member of society all my life ( worked since I was 14yrs old. I have been on my own since I was 18yrs old. Due to alot of drama in my family I will not really get inot at intro.
Recently ( year ago) I left a bad relationship the guy was abusive .. on the day he was to move out of our home he had two of his friends come and attack me as he called me out of my house to obtain the keys to the home. Needless to say I had no family in area and I live in a big town and took public transportaion and with all of that ..and his threats my parents came from anothor town and informed me they thought it best i move away.. because of the danger i was really in. Long story short i listen to them. They dropped me off in a town with some realtives i barely knew and i had to start my life over. And try I did, I enrolled in school obtained a job actual finshed school too. By they way had already finshed high school some collage and was making already about 3o a yr at job I left. Things just didn't go well there it was a small town not alot of chance for advancement at hospital were I worked and pay was horriably my aunt i as staying with had gotten a boyfriend and no longer wanted me to stay with her. So i packed up again and moved back to town where i had came from but far on other side.. with my parent who had moved back to that area as well.Since the move i have applied honestly to over 160 jobs with no job offers. Before I left I worked for a great company had worked my way to the top ..and now i can't even get a job. i can't go back to my old job becuse they consider what i did Walk off from the job even though i have the police reports proving the abuse.Since i moved in with my parent .. I can't even lie. it been hell they read my mail go into my email answer phone calls pretending to be me..and i know this sounds crazy..but sad part is i'm really not lieing. Of course they have there excuse oh i didn't see you name on mail. oh ?I thought that call was about a job so i just wanted to set up appt if necc. oh i just wanted to check your email to make sure know one had contacted u. of course I have started to become a little upset because they treat me as if i am a child and don't seem to understand what a violation there actions are. When i address them I am told i am over reacting and they are only doing what they do out of concern. To be honest guys ..I just stopped fighting them on it.THEN TODAY HAPPENED. someone broke my computer the only thing i have left when I left the abusive realtionship. My mother looked me dead in the eye and was like it's not a big deal.. it is really broken! I am like yes it is and she just dismmissed me as if i wasn't there. I know u must respect ur parents and all of that stuff but they are really making me feel like i was better of getting my *** kicked by guy I was with. At least i could hollar and scream back and least i had bruise on my body that said -hey he is doing something wrong. And most of all at least I had a job were i could at least know i had a paycheck every week. i am in tears now as i write this because i truely feel like they are my family so why are they doing this and how can they disregard my feelings as if am not a person. With that guy i had a home and a job and i atleast looked normal even if there was hell inside my home. Now someone else sorta takes care of me and now I don't have even respect ..is that wrong i want to know to have someone respect u even if they are your parents. P.s we all know who broke the computer.. and know one won't even offer to pay to get it fixed and honestly that was they ONLY thing i had left during this whole mess. And again its not the fact that soemone broke it.. they won't even acknowledge the fact that yea that was wrong and I'll get it fixed. I know being with who I was with was wrong i should never let someone beat me..but it like you have hell on one side water on other and damn i can't swim.. trying to be independent find a job..but no job.. what do i do other than pray which I do everyday..but no answer.
Not sure what the point is of being anonymous here. I life my life anonymously. My last name is Smith. Yeah I'll give that out because there are millions of Smiths just like me. Thats the problem. I have no identity. No heritage. I think my family is just plain English no one knows. I care, no one else does. I specifically went to an HBC so I could be different so I could be special. because while white people are common elsewhere, at an HBC you are special.
I've thought of changing my name to something sexier or more distinctive. Look up Smith in the phonebook one time to see how unique we are. Just another Smith. I want a good last name. Does anyone have any ideas? I've never even had a nickname. I feel so left out by society at large, condemned to be just another average Joe Smith. I don't know why my parents did this to me.
Well Im 18 years old and my parents do not let me go out has much has i want to I go to college and work and have prove to them that Im a responsible woman. I love dancing and all I want to do is go out and dance not deink or smoke just dance! its that so bad? they dont let me date they dont even like me having male friends. I do all the house chores around the house and I take care of my brother and sister I think Im old enough to go out and have fun dnt u? But if I touch on the topic they are going to tell me if u think ur old enough to go out then ur old enough to be on ur own! and i dnt want it to go that extreme they are just so strict. My dad is so sexes he lets my brother who is only 14 go out and he even takes him to his girlfriends house and buys her little gifts he doesnt knw I knw for my brother told me in confidence & if I confront my dad my brother may not trust to tell me other things ehat should I do?
One night my brother and I fooled around when we were drunk. I know we sould haven't and that its wrong but it just happen and there nothing I can do to change it. It all started because we were kidding around with each other and started to tickle each other and the next thing I knew is that we slept together. Yhe probem is that he got me pregnet and I don't know what to do and don't want to tell anyone ,not even him, what shoud I do? I don't what to have an obortion but i don't think it's right to have the baby either. my parents will demand that I tell them who the father is. I'm only 16 and I've just messed up my life because of one stupid night, I don't know what I was thinkin. Please help me, what shoud I do?
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