James and I have known each other for almost a year now. He's always had feelings for me, but I was still inlove with my ex so no other guy really mattered. My ex and I later got back together and we broke up again after 3 months, I was really hurt!! After my ex, I found it hard getting feelings for anyone, including James. Not because I was still inlove with my ex, but only for the simple fact that I was fed up with guys and I wanted to concentrate on school and myself. After all those rejections towards James, He still cared about me. He and I decided to go see a movie and he ended up kissing me, but I still couldn't give in, because..well I don't know. I guess I didn't feel the same way. He stopped talking to me because he really cared about me and he couldn't handle it anymore. Two weeks later, he called me and told me that he was sorry and that he missed me and that he still wanted to be friends. We stared talking again for a few weeks and we decided to finally see each other again, but instead of the movies or eating out, I suggested we go for a walk at night time because I really love going for walks at night time. I saw a different side of James and for some reason he became the sweetest, cutest guy I'd ever met. We ended up on a football field kissing for a really long time and we ended up having the best sex I've ever had. He told me that he really cares about me and I'm starting to find myself caring about him too. I think about him constantly. I even blush when he sends me text messages. The thing is, well, I'm really scared of getting hurt. I don't want to fall really hard for this guy and end up getting really hurt. I know...I know..you're thinking "he seems like a really sweet guy and blah blah blah" but sweet guys can be very hurtful too...trust me. So what do I do? Should I just give in and let what ever happens happen? I'M REALLY REALLY scared of getting hurt. I can only take so much!! I DON'T THINK I COULD LOVE AGAIN!! I don't know. HELP!!
Even though my ex and I broke up a month ago I still can't get him out of my mind. It's not that I'm still in love with him. It's just simple the fact that I feel as though we have an unfinished business. He never gave me a particular reason for why he didn't want to be with me anymore. We were together for a year and the half and for the very first time we had sex. we were both virgins. After we had sex he totally changed. He never called, but he would still send me a text daily saying " I LOVE YOU" I thought, well, if you love me why are yo avoiding me. I called be never called me back and when he finally called a week after we had sex he said he didn't think we should see each other any more, I was completely shock. I wasn't sure I knew how to live with out him. I didn't know what to say. And when he told me that he didn't want us to be together there was no sympathy in his voice, kinda like he didn't care if I was hurt. I couldn't believe this was the same guy I knew for a year and the half. He seemed like a complete stranger. This heartless person was not the person I fell in love with. He didn't call, I didn't call and that was that. But my curiosity would not let me let him go, I needed to know why, so I text him asking him what I did wrong and the least he could do was tell me the truth and he told me he stopped loving me over night. I don't get it, is that even possibly. That was then I decided he wasn't worth my time so I moved on, even though I still shed a tear once in a while because he was my first love. How do I forget about him?
I had an unusual experience with a 47 year old person. I'm 42. just as we hit the 6 month mark, he told me that he needed to talk to me face to face. He started by saying how things were great between us, including our similar sense of humor,loyalty,how I was ACES in his book and neither one of us had done anything wrong. He said I was beautiful and liked that I was commited to my mother and my live in family which consisted of a 23 yr. old daughter, her boyfriend, and 4 children. 3 on a daily basis and the other on the weekends as visitation. He had always been very Gentlemen like, honest,proud,hardworking in the court system. His living situation consisted of him living with his 2 roommates, who were getting married in September and selling the house they all resided in. We talked calmly like adults and decided to stop being cosidered as a couple.( Especially in the town we live in, everyone knows us, as a couple.) NOT ANYMORE I GUESS. My feelings were hurt, and he said his were also. Could it be that living situations on the brink of change in both directions be too much for him? Or something else. I've gone over 100 different scenerios. When he says that's the reason, I really tend to believe him because we've always been open & brutally honest with each other. I still have me daughter, her boyfriend and 4 children in my home. He says he feels uncomfortable comming to my house, and I feel uncomfortable going to his because of the engaged roommates. One of the last things I said to him was that " Maybe this wasen't the right time for us." Any advise.? Please remember that he has always considered my feelings and genually felt as sad as I was.(AM)
I like this guy and I think he likes me but I'm afraid to say something. We used to work together and we flirted all the time but now that we don't work together I still come up to the job to visit. But recently he was fired. Do I give up or keep hope alive?
I was kinda 'set up' on a date with a guy by mutual friends of ours. He wasn't a stranger but I didn't know him that well. We went to dinner- held hands almost the whole time, not initiated by me, and talked alot, I won't get into details but future plans and how we could work well together- and then went to the movies, where his arm was around me the whole time. After the movies, we made out in his car for a while- it was hot. Then the action moved to his backseat, things got even hotter, lol, when I put my hand on his knee. Is that a non-verbal way of telling a guy I wanna touch/suck your dick? Ha, sorry. But I went with it, and played with him for a while and then gave him head for a while- yep, my first time- but we got interrupted because the parking lot isn't very private, there's a 24-hour store there, too... The next day, he invited me to go with him to the mutual friends' party, which I did. It was an all day thing and it went well- until at the end of the night he tells me that because he got out of a relationship recently (like 2 months ago), etc etc, he's nervous, blah blah, and just wants to be friends for now, but still wants to do stuff together... I was totally flabbergasted after all the stuff that was said the day before and being there all day to just hear this, I could just say 'yeah, yeah...' I then got a couple kisses 'goodnight' and he said he'd call me. I did get a couple calls from him and texts and he'd come see me at work but we never 'did anything' again- going places or fooling around- and then he eventually stopped returning my texts. What a 'friend'. And apparently now he's seeing someone else. So I'm wondering if he used me- mr. nice guy??- or just all of a sudden decided I wasn't 'right' for him but didn't have the balls to tell me? One thing i know for sure is little boy needs to grow up the way he's been acting... Thanks.
There is this guy i work with He just has a way of looking at u with his piercing eyes. We talked and tallked finally he asked me how I felt about him and if I liked him I said yes. He said okay and then he told me that he wanted to mess around with me but nothing else and that it would only be a one time thing. So one day it was late most of the coworkers were gone so we were sitting around when he just kissed me it was weird but we continue doing it he sticked his tongue in my mouth and I just started sucking it and kissing him. THe next day we did not speak I guess it was ackward. Then the day after that we talked and he said that he wanted to do it again and that I can really work my mouth and he wondered what else I can do with it I just said will c what happens. Then were once again just sitting around he hugged me brushed my hair of my face and started kissing my cheek and neck moving on to my lips he kissed me stopped looked at me for a couple of seconds & continued we had to go back to work he stopped me press me against his body and we started kissing intensely and it started getting steamy he was getting hard. I stopped him and he said why? Isaid someone can c us so we went back to work. He is younger than me and I normally date older guys but he is different or so I think. He quit his job recently and I really want to c him and just **** around. what if he doesnt want what I want should I just leave it alone and wait for him to tell something because he does have my number wht should I do?
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