My husband and I separated for a few days. During this separation he had an affair with a friend of my neighbors. He has since came back and we are going through counseling. I am very angry with him. However the girl he had an affair with now goes to my neighbors house everyday and parks in front of my house. What can I do and how can I get past this constant reminder when I see her everyday. I said something to my neighbor and her response was for me to close my blinds and not look out the window. I am more angry with her as she has done this to several other people I know. She is filthy and makes a career out of breaking up marriages. Please help!
My husband works abroad. Everyday we communicate by phone. Or should i say i do the majority of the calling. I love too hear his voice and to reassure him of my love. He has had his heart broken before,well we all have. But i feel like you should always let someone who you love know it by saying it not just in deeds. He came home from work late. As usual i told him I love him. He was like I love you too. Then I asked him how he feels to know his wife love him. He said baby right now my feet hurt and I have to go and cook. I realised something tonite. My husband has a hard time verbalising(if that is a word) his feelings. He is a great guy and he shows me lots of love. But I just need to hear those words especially when he is away. I felt like not pouring and showering or i feel like I am overshowering him with affection. Should i pull back a bit and tune it down?
over this past summer, i was trying to hook my friend up with this adorable, 6"0 tall, bleach blonde haired boy. he was hilareous,cute, and smart. everything perfect for her. well i started to get him to talk about her (we started texting in like, april;he went to her school and i went to a different school) well, in may, he randomly asked me out. i didnt see it coming at all. i had only met him once, with my friend. i wanted to say no-she was my best friend in the whole world...and he was just a boy. he had gotten his heart broken a few months before,by his first GF ever. i felt too horrible saying no to him...i even tried talking him out of it by insulting myself. all the dates we went on, my friend was there. she never knew (im the worlds lamest friend, right?). we never broke up, but we knew nothing was happening, so we just drifted apart, and now were insanely good friends.
So now, all 3 of us graduated, and are in high school. My friend says she doesnt like him anymore (we all go to diff schools), but its obvious she does. i dont like him like that anymore, i personally didnt think he was mature enough to handle a relationship, but hes an amazing friend because you can never be sad around him :) anyways, now he had a new gf, and my friend is very upset by that...i just want her to get over him.
now i have a new problem. Two, actually. there are these two guys at my school (we'll call them ....latroy and...nick.) well, latroy is a good friend of my cousin, and i have a few classes with him. hes really shy, but really sweet and cute :) yet, i have barely talked to him.we just give eachother looks in some of our classes...and hope that the otehr doesnt see us doing it. Im not sure what to do about him...i want to talk to him, but i dont want to be too strong (im a very fun loving, exciting, occacionally loud person) and hes very quiet and shy, but he can get hyper too ha. Then theres 'nick'...hes only in one of my classes. hes tall..like my last BF, 6"0-ish. well..yesterday in my science class, me and one of my friends (we'll call her Hayley) were working on a project with him and one of his friends (i sit next to him in this class) we barely ever talk, he's really shy too. but funny, when he does talk. well, we all hit it off and were having a great time. well 'hayley' drew on his arm (shes WAYYYY open and not afraid to do like..anything haha) and she refused to let go of his arm. well, he leaned forward and whispered 'if you dont let go, im gonna kiss you!' and she screamed and let go haha. well later he ended up admitting he liked one of the sluttiest girls at our school...and hayley was very upset by this. well i had to wipe pen off of his face haha (even though i had only known him for like, 2 classes haha) and when we left the classroom, i REALLY wanted to tell hayley i thought he was cute. of course, as soon as we leave, she whispers to me 'i kinda like nick...hes funny!' and i was like 'yea, and hes cute :)' but i didnt say it serisouly. i dont want to bet on anything happenening between me and latroy, but i dont want to screw around with my friends realtionships again....is it too late to admit i like nick? i sit next to him in class...what am i going to do?! what should i do about latroy?? and...should i still try to hook my best friend and my ex up?? if you answer any of these questions it would be great :)
and for any rude commenters: i KNOW WHAT I DID WAS WRONG. and i already admitted it to another one of my friends (also my bestie's close friend). i dont EVER want that happeneding again, i want to start fresh in high school.
For a long time I've gotten a kick from being a kinda cuckold because my Gf flirts with other guys. If you read my other posting Cuckold Wannabe you can get more info.
But for now just think about what happened tonight. We were all out with friends at a bar listening to a band. Even though it was dark I could see her slapping his inner thigh as she tried to keep time to the music.
She just did it without being asked and he just spread his legs wider, lay back and enjoyed it.
Surprising thing was that when it was time to go, he just said something ordinary like "see ya" and walk away. No kissing but I have seen them kiss before.
I recently hooked back up with my ex that I've been seeing off and on for the past six years. He told me that he missed me so much, and that I'm still the best he's ever had.
He and I have had issues with commitment before. I'm still not quite sure if he even wants to become serious with me. I guess my question is: " Does he want to be with me?"
One more thing.... he also told me that he needed me like oxygen! Also, I just got out of a five year relationship with someone else. He has no idea that I've gone back to my ex, and I don't want him to know.
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