I am currently involved in with a married man and have been for many years and recently I hacked his wife’s email. Beyond the fact that I think she is a total flake and judgemental as ****. At first it was fun just to read all her little emails and read how totally bent out of shape she got at the smallest details and how totally selfish she was with her friends. There were tinges of guilt here and there seeing pictures of them together but **** I’m a sadist ***** so it was bearable.
After a while it got a little boring and instead of just letting it be, I started ******* with her. She has no clue who I am or that anything is going on, but knowing everything that is going in her life and her friends it is easy to **** her around. Cancel reservations, get her hopes up about things and then let her down (oh, yeah she can’t handle not having everything the way she wants it), cancelling registration in courses. Generally being a totally fuckwad.
I have no idea why I am enjoying this so much but I am. Oh and to add icing to the cake I plan on breaking up with him in the next couple of months by sending a mass email to all her friends and family of us together. **** I’m a *****, why am I enjoying this so much.
Ok.. So I am a new mother.. my son is one.. And i have to confess that i have really been struggling lately with the fact that i am a mother now.. I'm no longer the baby.. For the past 22 years i have been spoiled and now i cant take it that i'm no longer getting spoiled that my parent's baby has a baby so he gets all of the attention.. I'm spoiled.. and i"m a brat.. and i know that.. but that doesnt make it any easier to not be hurt by this.. I feel really bad for feeling like this though. I love my son to death. But there are times that i regret having him at such a young age.. But I love him none the same.. DOES THIS MAKE ME A BAD MOM??
Im in college and have a significant other, Im supposed to be engaged but I cheat on a daily basis. Not to mention the fact that Im currently holding 2 relationships and I am never satisfied. I want what I cant have and what I have I dont want anymore. Im superficial and I lie constantly. They each know about one another and they both said if I was dating or still messing around that they would leave me. So neither knows. As this goes on I feel worse but I dont know how to stop. I want both in my life but not the way that I have them. Both are entirely too needy and yet I dont know how to break it off. I just need advice on how to let someone off softly with out feeling so bad that I stay in a relationship that I dont want.
I'm 25, been married for almost seven years, and am completely ******* bored with my marriage and my life. What the **** was I thinking when I got married? To make a long story short, she's a gorgeous, loving woman, caring, etc. and so forth - but we now have nothing in common and simply annoy each other 24/7. She's not outgoing, and she's very cheap.
Guys - don't marry the first girl you sleep with who loves you - not a good idea no matter how in love you think you are and how smart you think you might be.
I put my own *** through school, have two degrees, graduated at the top of my class, and make good money (not great money - just good money). I make more than anyone else I know my age - but I don't know that many successful people. I just daydream about leaving my job, wife, and taking off and back-packing across Europe and getting all the ***** I can get my hands on. Is that so wrong? Of course it is - I made a promise to myself, my wife, society, and yes - God (haven't said the G-word in years...).
She feeds me, cleans my clothes, and I feel indebted to her. She's older (7 years) and helped me grow up and loved me a lot when I was young and vulnerable - well, we both were vulnerable. But I was inexperienced, she wasn't, and I was under a lot of pressure for no good reason to get married. My parents were happy to get rid of me - and I was happy to get rid of them. Our sex life is now pathetic - I get laid once a month on average, and we argue constantly. Aside from her caregiving, she's actually quite a strange person - often very angry and impatient (not just recently because of our shitty marriage either - she was like this since day one - even her mother would admit how difficult she is...). I lost all my friends and she killed my social life (I sat back and let her do it).
I've been trying to find a girlfriend on the side for about half a year with no success. I'm too timid, shy, and insecure. Internet dating is pretty much bullshit - the only real prospects I've been able to scoop have been unattractive and unappealing (to me). I know that's not the answer anyway, but I simply need that romance (not just sex). I was so hard up a couple months back I got a prostitute and hated every second of it. Worst sex I ever had - even though she was so hot. Not the same when you're paying for it - felt very low, and not in a kinky/sexy way. She was very nice, complimented my looks, said she was surprised I didn't have a girlfriend. But - it was clear she was doing a job and not particularly into it. I could barely get it up - that was the surprising part for me. As much as I need more *****, I doubt I'll got back to another prostitute. I realize I need to feel wanted and desirable to have good sex. Before you stone me for ******* a prostitute (she wasn't cheap BTW), I should confess that I told my wife for months that I was going to get sex elsewhere and she didn't give a ****. She honestly encouraged me and said she didn't care - it was only sex. But it's not only sex... I feel empty. I now know that her solution to our marriage seems to be for me to find a girlfriend - but that's not what I want. If I find a girlfriend who keeps me happy, why the **** would I stay with my wife? We have no kids - just a mortgage and a BBQ...
I need a companion, and I need to be intrigued and kept interested. This marriage isn't going anywhere.
Anyways - I feel guilty for wanting more in life - for wanting true love - and for wanting regular *****. I feel guilty for wanting to leave my wife. She's gotten used to my paycheques by now and I'm apprehensive about living by myself (never done it - am afrid of being alone).
Life's getting depressing - but I still feel like I'm doing OK because worst case scenario, I can walk out of this life at any time and just start over. I've got my health, am not the ugliest dude in town, and can earn a decent living. I'm just really ******* unhappy to the point where I annoy myself everytime I start daydreaming about this "other life" I envision for myself - why don't I just ******* do it! My unhappiness is so persistent I've started to tell my close clients about it, hinting to friends/family, and am generally a shell of the fun person I used to be.
The other reason I don't leave is because it would be an admission of defeat to all the people who told me I was nuts to get married at 19. I'd be labelled as a divorcee - a failure. I'd be alone and tainted. Well I wouldn't be completely alone - I'd have my insecurities and bad habits to keep me company...
Anyways - back to the same bullshit tomorrow morning. Drown myself in work, and continue to sit idly as my life flys by...
I want to runaway from everything and its so selfish of me. Because all this time I knew my family loved me and I stayed around and did all I had to do to keep them happy. I just want to free.
i found out that i was pregnant and i was scared outta my mind...the first thing i tought of doing was have an abortion and i did but now i regret it i wish i could hva a second chance but i looked at as if my life was going to end nomore fun and everything in between and i was being selfish or was i not?
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