It took me a year to realize someone who i thought was a friend turned out to be someone i actually decided i didnt like! She only talked about herself and the people she had fallen out with a long time previously (2 years!) I cooled the friendship, she took offence and bombared me with visits/calls. She even got her husband to harass mine to make me change my mind. Last week she pushed me in a shop and told me she knows all about me ( i never got the chance to tell her anything much about my life) she was aggressive harassing me. I rang the police later. I have since found out she is constantly talking to others about me! asking probing questions. Warning others not to be friends with me. She can't accept that i have moved on. She has threatened that my 11yr son will come to harm. Next time she harasses me the Police will issue her with a formal warning. I am very together but i am full of anxiety as kids are back to school i have a younger child too so will be seeing her everyday at school picking up time. She is a real bunny boiler and i cant see an end to this. I have also had harassing texts in the last few days. What would you do?
I have a best friend who has HORRIBLE luck with guys. She just picks the worst ones everytime. In any case her most recent ex was a real scum bag. Treated her horrible, sex was bad, no drive or ambition, all that good stuff. When it ended she was heartbroken. She was really in love with him, why I dont know, but she was. He tells her he wants to see other people and thats why hes ending it. So she comes back home (she had moved 500 miles away for this guy) and tried to get over it, but when she talks to him next he tells her that he knocked this new girl up (he told her he never wanted to have kids or get married and she very much wants to someday) and was now living with this new girl and her 3 other kids (I know, hes a real wimmer). So now my friend is even more devistated, and still trying to get over it, and wondering what is wrong with her. Last night I find out that he married this new girl he knocked up. Do I tell her that he married her or do I just let her stay in the dark about it? I dont know if it might help her get over him quicker or if it would just hurt her more????
Side note: My friend is hot as all hell, I promise. She has no trouble at all getting guys, she just chooses the worst of the bunch every time. I know, its her problem and she needs to just quit it.
I am a 18 year old female with the username Dragonfly303 and I want to say ...
It started a long time ago, I guess. I started to feel like my freinds were just using me. Eventually they started complaining to me about each other and I didnt want to be in the middle of any fights so I kept my mouth shut. I realize it probably wasn't the best idea now, but there is nothing I can do to change it.
Up until last Friday it was something I could handle. I decided to throw a sweet 16 instead of December when my actual birthday was because I could not have it any other day as I am pretty busy. Well, at the last minute, almost everyone i had called and invited up and bailed on me. Now my freinds are inviting me to parties they are throwing for no particular reason and I dont want to go. They are calling me childish and apologizing about my party.
I go to everyone of their meaningless parties but they had to ruin the only one that I have thrown and the only thing that actually meant anything to me. I know they are not good freinds, but everytime I talk to them they make me feel like crap so I cannot say no to them without feeling guilty.
Part of me tells me to ditch them and find new freinds but, I dont know how. Can somebody please help me?
I am a 18 year old female with the username rydagirlx and I want to say ...
alright so i had a best friend for about five years then my s4econd best friend i had been friends with for about a year. my first best friend i had known from my old school and my other best friend i knew from my highschoool. i introduced the two and it was all gravy. then they jut started hanging out more and more without me and i was jsut like wtf until one night i exploded now my first best friend of 5 years doesnt give a crap about me and the otehr is starting to ... fall back away from me.
There is this boy I have known for about 3 years now! We dated in the past and I even took his virginity! We dated for like maybe 4 months but it really didn't work out so we became best friends while still having sex! I would talk to him hour after hour every night (he goes to school about 2 hours away) I even drove to his school 3 times to see him! Well that was about a year ago and for some reason we just stopped talking. I haven't talked or seen him since! Well here lately I have been thinking about him and how much I wan't him back into my life. I mean he was really the one person I could talk to about anything and I knew he would back me up and not judge me! But the only thing is I don't know how to like let him know that I still really care for him! I haven't talked to him in so long and I would just feel really weird picking up the phone and calling after so long! Should I just give up on any friendship with him and just accept that we aren't and never will be friends or do I pursue this thought! Any advice would help thanks! TOODLES!
well i quess to start off im 13 and i really need some advice..I dont know if i should tell my best friend that i had sex with her ex boyfriend twice. i didnt mean for it to happen,but it just happen. both times we were drinking but we both knew what we were doing.i told him to stop because she was my best friend but he just kept kissing me and i ended up kissing him back and that leaded to us having sex. She doesn't go with him anymore because he cheated on her and she doesnt know about me and him doing something together. at first she thought we did because when we were doing something my sister,her and my friend was looking for me and i didnt answer my phone.when we got back they seperated us and we kind of had the same story but didnt. But my best friend beleived me. i really dont know if i should tell her or not... so please help me!!!
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