Ok, I am trying to date a 22 year old single mother. I have had some dates set up with her only to have her back out at the last second. She has told me that she wants to "take it slow." I've respected that and I let her come to me when she wants to spend time together. She's told others that I'm the only guy willing to hold and play with her son, even more the the Bio-dad. We get along great and flirt when we're together. Its been 3 months sence we started "seeing" eachother and it hasn't progressed any. So my main question would be: Am I wasting my time? I don't want to be the fall back guy and have told her as much. Single Moms out there give me some pointers!
I am a guy who has a female friend that I am very interested in. She is a very outgoing person. She talks to everyone she sees whether she knows them or not, or at least it seems that way to me. I am not quite as outgoing as her, but am pretty well known where we live and do talk to a good amount of people that I don't know or don't know that well. We talk almost everyday via the phone, text messaging, or instant messaging (which she usually initiates the conversation) for decently long periods of time and sometimes for extremely long periods of time, but rarely do we talk for long periods of time face to face. I have asked her to go places and to hang out with me, and she has a couple of times, but a lot of the time she gives me a "maybe" or "we'll see" answer and nothing happens. She tells me and talks to me about a lot of different things. I can't understand why she will rarely talk to me in person, but makes sure she talks to me everyday over the internet, through text messaging, or on the phone. If anyone can answer this question for me and could maybe offer me some advice on how I can fix this problem I have I would appreciate it very much. Thanks.
i've been working with this girl since i've been hired. i would think we have a good relationship as friends - we talk at work, outside of work, she's online and i talk with her and sometimes on the phone. she would always ask me to take her out on dates and movies but i just playfully say no, but what i really say is "i don't think your boyfriend would like that," again in a playful tone. i know she has a boyfriend, but she denies it just to get me to take her out, but in reality she does have a boyfriend. i think it's wrong to go after his girl, unless i know the boyfriend is not worth her time, and plus i don't want to relive past experiences i've had with girl and their boyfriends - i just stay away from that. as time progresses, i secretly have a crush on her. no one from work knows about my crush and only my close friends know about her.
here is the problem i am conflicted with: the girl i have a crush on is 17 and i am 22. i know it sounds and looks sickening. i have advice from friends telling me to take her out and see what she is like outside of work and the cliche quote "age ain't nothing but a number." on the other hand, some of my friends bring up "17 will get you 20" and they tell me to keep what i am doing now, say no to the dates and always mention her boyfriend whenever she bring up dates.
in my mind, i think she is just playing around and i might end up a fool, so i stay guarded. then again, she might be serious about this. this could be just an innocent little gathering and we will just hang out like always friends do and nothing will happen in the end. i was always the 17-will-get-you-20 person, but this girl has gotten me conflicted.
i think i know the answer all ready, but help me out to be sure.
Ok so here is the story. There is a girl that I really like, but she has a boyfriend. I do not know if she is in love with him or not. They just started to go out. I have been away from my home state to go to school and me and this girl have kept in contact with each other off and on. I have never told her how I feel because i am afraid that she does not feel the same way and also when I do not want to lose her friendship. I will be moving back to my home state soon, and I really want us to be friends and hang out all the time, but also I want there to be move. Give me some advise as to what I should do about all of this.
I'm a 13 year old guy and i need help. I'm happily in love but yet theres other girls. And i love the girl I'm with now but I've gotten "other" stuff from this other girl. But tis other girl is taken. And i love them both so very much. But ones an emo and one just normal. Me myself am an emo but.....i don't know. please people help me please!
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