I have been friends with this girl my entire life.
Since we've grown apart, she's become completely wild...
I hate that I'm speaking so badly about her, but she's turned into a SLUT!!! She's with a new guy or in the process of hooking up with a new guy every time I talk to her!!! When she is supposedly "with" someone, she still talks and flirts with other men...
when she is "with" someone, she claims that she loves them, how she thinks that "this could be the one", she "doesn't want to hurt them"...but she ends up doing that anyway!
she broke up with this one guy because he wasn't ready to get intimate with her....they'd only been dating for TWO WEEKS!!!!
a lot of people have told her to her face that she needs to stop screwing every man that she sees! the thing is, this has been going on for at least 3 years now...and it's like noone can reach her...she just keeps going after these guys, getting what she realllllly wants, and throwing them to the side like they don't matter, or their feelings don't matter! it's driving me crazy to talk to her everyday, just to hear about the latest man she's trying to get the pants off of!
Has it ever happened to you, u have a crush on a guy and your best friend knows about it, and she starts flurting with him, supostly her, she don't realize it. Well it happened to me, i told my best friend about a guy i liked, but he didn't know,and the next day she was all over him, to make it worse he started flurting with her to, and she knew it made me mad, because the guy didn't even look at me cuz now my best friend was all over him, he even touched her body. Like a year later somehow he found out what my feelings were for him, and he started flurting even more with my best friend, that made me feel like crab, i remember i would cry everyday. I confronted my "friend" about the situation, and all she said was that she was just playing with him, and that she wouldn't do it again. That didn't happen. It's been two years since that happened. I am way more happy now that i don't like him and i see my "friend"(we are still friends)looking like a fool flurting with him thinking that i still like him, Now if i like a guy i never tell her.
I have a friend that I have known for all of her life and most of mine. Recently she has gotten WAY out of hand when it comes to her sexual exploits. For instance...she is only 23 and, at last count, she could REMEMBER 27 men that she has slept with. Half of those are one night stands. That is only counting PENETRATION and doesn't include females that she has slept with. Recently she got "drunk" (2 drinks) and let 2 of my friends double-team her while she beckoned a 3rd friend to join in. What sickens me is that I had slept w/ one of those 2 guys just a few weeks before that.
Compared to my friend I guess I am a prude. I have only slept w/ 3 men in my entire life and 2 of those I knew for at least 2 years before I took that step. To know that I have slept w/ the same guy she has sickens me. Although we did use condoms for the intercourse there was unprotected oral sex.
Ok I have this one older friend and he is REALLY conseeded. Everything he does has to be right, almost everything he talks about is himself, and he always has to put people down, I guess to make his self feel better then everyone. He used to be a friend that I would only see everyonce in a while because he works an stuff an has another life but now hes always with one of my best friends in the world. Now my conseeded friend is always talking **** like hes all big and bad, an hes always putting my other friend down calling him ugly an stuff (which he soo isnt)An then he'll speak his mind, which is a good thing to tell people how your feeling ,but im sorry he just does it way to much. Hell say hes just telling the truth which can be brutally ohnist (Ex: He'll call me childish, and that I play to many games to be chillin with)But then If anyone else tries to say something about how there feeling about him he'll get all in your face like he's about to beat your *** or something. Dont get me wrong im not scared of him but he thinks i am Ill tell him like it is to its just when hes not in your face or eritated about something like he didnt get his way hes cool as **** I can tell him anything and not have to worry about it slipping out somewhere. My other friend sometimes messes around to be silly and will be like 'so whos getting naked first?'But then my conseeded friend will eaither be like man im not even gonna mess with her she plays games blah blah blah or hell tri to get me naked thinking hes cute and he can get anything he wants, and then if i push him away or tell him to stop hell say 'you know you like it when i do that so why are you playin games' sorry but i dont like it whatever he does and i never do. Sorry but i dont I just never wanna get nasty with him maybe my other friend but not him.ha! really though its so annoying I know this sounds like its nothing but if your with him for more that an hour youll see what im talking about. theres so much I cant even say it all.
i'm so pissed off right now. i'm dwelling on these thoughts i can't get out of my head. first of all, i know this girl who's been acting like everything is cool between us except from what i see her doing makes me think otherwise. she may talk all her nice **** but what she represents is a bunch of bullshit. she been resentful, hateful, jealous and a total drag for years. i keep telling her to do what she needs to do but this concept isn't getting through to her. she's completely boastful. she's been a pain in the *** to be around. i tell her i just want to chill at home but she'll call me anyway talking about some bullshit i don't want to hear. **** it. i'm just going to tell this ***** how i really feel so she can get my point of view. i'm just mad and i need to vent because she doesn't understand how much it's affecting other people. what an *******.
We met in middle school... became the best of friends. Even though we went to different high schools, that didn't stop us for always being there.
It's hard when you finally see a person for who they really are. Half way through high school is when I figured it out. I had been there for her when she was trying to be with an older guy and the family didn't approve. I helped her see him in fact. I cared for her and I knew she wanted so much to be happy. I talked her out of some stupid things when they broke up. Then i went through something that crushes all of that down to barely anything. My dad died. I spent a month "living" at the hospital...she never visited me once. She was always busy. I found out wome of the lies she told and things like that. I mean, she said things to my boyfriend that I can even type on here. I knew it would never be the same. I forgave her but I knew what kind of a person she was now.
I can never get those moments back. Those moments where if she was just there to talk to, there to sit with me ..it would have made it a little easier. And now... I am on her website as one of her top friends. I am confused.. we haven't really been friends for 4 years. I can't be. Not after the things she has said and the things she has done...
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