One night my brother and I fooled around when we were drunk. I know we sould haven't and that its wrong but it just happen and there nothing I can do to change it. It all started because we were kidding around with each other and started to tickle each other and the next thing I knew is that we slept together. Yhe probem is that he got me pregnet and I don't know what to do and don't want to tell anyone ,not even him, what shoud I do? I don't what to have an obortion but i don't think it's right to have the baby either. my parents will demand that I tell them who the father is. I'm only 16 and I've just messed up my life because of one stupid night, I don't know what I was thinkin. Please help me, what shoud I do?
I am a single mom and one day my sister called me at the beginning of the week and told me she had some hand-me downs for my 7 year old son. She knows I don’t work on Friday and if I wanted them her husband could come by on Friday to drop them off after lunch. I said ok but by Friday I totally forgot he would be coming over. It was a nice sunny day and I have a very secluded back yard and I like to lay out with no cloths on to get a nice even tan. Well I must have dosed off because I woke to find him standing next to me jerking off. I screamed as I covered myself up and yell what the hell are you doing? He laughed at me and said he was enjoying the view. I called him a pervert and said I was going to tell my sister about it. He laughed again and said here’s the cloth you want and turned and left. I called my sister but apparently he got a hold of her first. She said he was pissed off and that I was a sexually disturb women. He told her that when he got here the door was locked but he heard music out back. He said he went to go out back calling my name and that I said I was out back and to come on back. He told her that I took my bathing suit off right in front of him and asked if he want to go skinny dippin in the pool with me and that I haven’t had a man in a long time. He told her he left right away and called her about it. She doesn’t believe my side of the story of what really happened. She has always been paranoid that I have always been trying to split them up or something because I was jealous of there relationship. Whatever, she has issue she needs to get over. The problem is that anytime were alone for any family gathering he tells me that he took pictures of me with his phone and that he loves to jerk off all the time looking at them. He also says that he thinks of me every time he is having sex with my sister and that he would love to **** me. I don’t know what to do because my sister refuses to believe it, that I’m trying to get back at him for rejecting me that Friday. Part of me just wants to have sex with him and tape it to show her, but I can’t bear the thought of that pig in me or the fact that my sister will probably think I seduce him to prove I was right.
Help me, what should I do?
I am a 17 year old female named rachel and I want to say ...
my mom is going through hard times (my dad cheated, they seperated, my moms mom just died, etc.). shes in the other room right now crying and all i want if for her to shutup about her problems. i dont feel bad for her, though i feel like i should. is that wrong? another thing is that i love my dad dearly yet since i moved with my mom 2 states away, i dont miss him very much. i love him to death though, yet i dont feel like talking to him. this is a very dramatic situation in which i feel nothing. shouldnt someone in this situation feel depressed or highly upset? i feel neutral/numb. why do i feel this way? please help me out guys
I Dont Know what to do.
My faimily just found out that were going to have a baby.baby #5
Im the oldest and every thing falls on me.If im watching the kids and something happens its MY fault.If any thing happens its MY fault.My parrents just told me we were moving,and just three days after they told me were having a baby.I have to do everything(not everything,but alot)Im so far behind with school and I dont have any time to do anything fun.I hardly have time to do this.My parents dont care about any thing that I want,need and enjoy they treat me like a dumb @$$.There good parents when they take out time for me,there not abusive or anything.Anyway with the moving the baby school and me,I dont think there's any time for me just every thing else.Please if you have any good advice give it PLEASE.
I had a rough time over the holidays last year, and I'm afraid things will spiral back out of my control.
See, a few of my family members are overweight. My mother and my grandfather are clinically obese, while my grandmother is simply slightly plump.
I am in the range of ideal weight for my height.
Last year my grandparents and my mother started bringing my weight up and commenting, and it started when my grandmother first came over for the holidays.
"You certainly ate well over the vacation, didn't you?"
"You're well-rounded, aren't you?"
"You don't need to eat that."
"Suck in your stomach."
I started developing a slight form of depression, and my self-image plummeted. At one point I stopped eating for three days, and it's because of my friend that I began eating again.
Since then I've been picking up the pieces and pulling myself together, but several times this year, I've found the old hatred coming back. My grandmother's coming again this year, and my she and my mom usually take this time to gang up and pick at what I need to change.
I'm afraid of how I'll react if they start back up about the way I look, and I'm not sure how best to handle it. Talking about it to my parents is out of the question; I've spoken to my mom, and it never changed anything, and my parents already had a huge fight about it. (My father was sick of her making me feel like ****.)
Hello, I havent been on this page in a while but I have a problem. My ex and I have been divorced for 5 months. My 7 year old son Anthony hasnt had a problem too much with us being seperated and living apart until lately. This is because when we first divorced my ex would come by almost everyday and see the kids. He used to love playing with them and taking them to the park. He had a job here in town driving 18 wheelers around town or at least close to it. He was at least home (not mine but his) each night.
Recently he decided he wanted to work over the road again. Now he's gone Monday thru friday and the kids miss him so much. My daughter doesnt really mind because she's only 3 but my son is the one who's taking it the hardest. What makes it worse is that he has his new girlfriend traveling with him. I hate seeing my son like this because I know there is really nothing I can do. Anthony has told me that he hates his daddy's new girlfriend because he is always with her and never plays with him anymore. He also trys to tell me that daddy doesnt love him. To make matters worse he just found out that Tony is getting married again. Keep in mind that we've only been divorced 5 months to the day!!!
How can I help my son with everything he's going thru? I try to tell him that his daddy still loves him and he has to work so that's why he cant be here. My ex hardly ever answers my phone calls anymore because he says I ***** at him too much. The reason I get that way though is BECAUSE he doesnt answer. I am trying to call him so that my kids can talk to him, they want to hear from him. He doesnt understand that they cry when he doesnt answer. My son has even left him messages saying "daddy I wish you would answer the phone. I wanted to talk to you". I have to deal with the tears afterwards, not him, and there comes a point where I cant take it anymore.
It breaks my heart to see my son like this. Anthony's dad was the world to him and since he hooked up with his new girlfriend the WEEK after we got divorced he's hardly what I would call father material anymore. He'll see the kids once a week and even when he comes over here to visit them he'll sit and watch tv or play on the computer when he should be actually spending time with THEM!
Anyway, I just want to know if anyone out there has any advice on what to do or SAY to my son to help him? I tell him even if his daddy's not around like he used to be that I love him and his sister SO much and I will always be there for them. What else can I say? I want to help him and say the right thing but I just dont know what that is.
Well, if you can help I'd really appreciate it. Thanks for taking the time to hear me out. Sorry if I rambled on a bit too much! I just REALLY need some help with this.
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