I will say firstly that I am married, and for the past 2 years i've had this major crush on this guy I know. Two years ago, at same time my crush started, my hubby started to get to know a woman and was going to move on with her, when I found out about her, I gave him a choice between me or her, was up to him.
He chose me, although it took him a couple of months to get back to normal after some marriage counselling.
With me, everytime I see this guy, I want to be with him, and it hurts cause I do love my hubby. I know I sound kind of mixed up and all, I dont like "want my cake and eat it too"....I just have never said anything to this guy, and I know he'd hurt me, cause in his line of work, he could have almost any girl or guy he wanted, and believe me I know factually he's into both. How do I get over this guy, being in my head or seeing him, and just be happy. It does at times make me very depressed. I did think of throwing myself at this guy just for a "one night" with him and then be over it, then I thought, after one night I know I'd want more.
I'm 44 been married for a few years now, its been up and down, never always happy, on either side, in 2006 hubby met up with a lady while away on work started getting involved with her. Continued on the conversation on the phone over a 2 week period after getting back. I ended up finding out about it, after him asking me one night to sign in and check his emails, there was one from her. At the time I'd signed in on msn to get the emails and she started chatting thinking it was him and not me. In the end afer one hour of her telling me about things, as she realised who I was, he was in background telling me what to tell her, his mobile rang, it was her, in the end I made him chose her or me, he couldn't have both. In the end he chose me. It took some marriage counselling and some time to heal the wound. Since then I keep wondering with late nights he works of recent times, is he back cheating again or is he actually working. I cannot go to the area where he is supposedly working as it is high security zone and where they park is nowhere near where you can see. How can I believe him, when he was only supposedly working 2 nights late now its into its 4th week of late nights. I need advice. What would you do in my shoes?
So I'm a male, late twenties. There is this girl that I work with... We are both in relationships. In less than 2 months she will be moving and we will probably never see each other again. We both have feelings for each other, yet I think mine may be a little stronger than hers. We've only hung out once outside of work, and even that was a work function. We don't speak too much at work, nothing that would lead anyone on. Yet when we get home we text message back and forth all night long. This was initiated by me a few months back. Finally, tomorrow night we are getting together and taking a trip out of town, just the two of us. I know it's wrong since we are both involved with other people. But.... there is just something about this girl. It's absolutely insatiable. I need this. Even if it's for just a short while until she's gone. I may never meet another person like this and feel this way again. She does something that I can't explain.
Is this so wrong? Life is short and this feels real...
Hi, I'm 18, I'm a girl. I am asking for advice because I am in the most crap situation I could think of. The short of it is, my mum was sleeping with my boyfriend. As f*ed up as that sounds, it's worse. He was a decent friend of mine for years and about 6 months ago, I realised I quite fancied him. I invited him round to mine quite a few times, and somehow he and my mum started their affair. After 6 or 7 weeks of trying to get him to ask me out and nothing happening, I gave up. Then he asked me out, while he was STILL FU*ING MY MUM.
About a month ago me and my dad found out, and of course I split up with my boyfriend, and my dad is divorcing my mum. Only problem is, I don't know how I feel about my mum. My parents marriage had issues, and yes I am angry at my mum for cheating on my dad, but I want to eventually be able to forgive her.
My mum's side of the story is that she started sleeping with my boyfriend, when me and him were just friends. Then he asked me out, and she had no idea we were a couple, as I did take a couple of weeks to tell my parents. When she found out, she said she was going to break up with him, but if she did that he was going to tell me what happened and essentially blackmailed her.
My exboyfriends side of the story is, that he was at first interested in me, then he started seeing my mum. When I was losing interest in him and started asking him around less, my mum was worried about my dad getting suspicious and he says he was coerced into asking me out, so that he'd have an excuse to see my mum more.
I don't really know what to believe, it all sounds so unbelievable and I'm not sure what to do. What's worse is my brother I think blames me somewhat for the situation. Aside from my immediate family and my ex-boyfriend, no one else knows about all this, because I think it's too messed up to tell anyone. please, if you have any advice. thanks.
From dating a pothead
to a romantic turned total liar fakeass jerk
to dating my current b/f, i keep getting better and better in my choices... so now my standards are at a high new record level... and my luck is that my b/f is leaving for college. Its a drive of about 10 hours... we're just teens... so we agree its not going to b easy so we plan to break up when he leaves and b friends.
Deep down i wish there was a way to stay together... but its not fair to either of us... and one of us will only get hurt or we'll both b stressed and i dont want to end up fighting.
I'm just bummed cuz honestly i nvr could see us arguing to the pt of hating each other... and he actually respects me and asks me upfront if he senses im uncomfortable... and he's a gentleman [who knew they still existed?!?]... and not to mention he's nice on the eyes haha...
I remember the reason why i decided to date him...
at prom his school played a lot of country and i like it but idk that much so he'd ask me if i knew certain songs and the first time he ended up singing one of the songs to me in my ear as we slow danced... and then i knew that i was won over. it was perfect to me [he's a decent singer too].
i just need advice on how to get over it when we end up apart w/o growing too far apart...cuz i really really would like to date him again someday as long as we can still b on the same page and what not.
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