A few years ago I had two smuts over my dads house 4 some drinks. So we were all up in my room together getting it on and my stepdad is out in the hall wacking his bird. A few months ago me and my girl had fall asleep and when we opened our eye he was in front of us playing with his self. after that my girl left me and wont return my calls. This really fucked up my head and I think I need some one to talk to.
I am a 23 yr old single mom. I have the most gorgeous daughter EVER! Shes smart and beautiful. Her father was not too involved with her for a few months. After time things go a lil better but he still didnt even come close to father of the year. Ever since i filed for child support he refuses to talk to me or help me and his family seems to be angry also.. His family helped only at thier convience which isnt too often. I am at the point where i just dont care if they are ever in her life. I mean her dad does NOT call ta see if shes ok nor does his family. I have found an awesome guy that is willing to step up n take her in as his own. He wants her to call him daddy. He wants me to have his child and start our own lil family and all that stuff. I dunno what i should do! I mean i want her to know her real father but how can it be possible if he obviously doesnt care about her! He says he loves her more than anything... how can you ignore n' blow off your child??!?!?!??! I need help with what i should do. Should i still wait around for her biological father n' his family to be involved or should i move on n' let her call my bf daddy and finish the family n leave them all behind? please help
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My 11 year old son masturbates. I don't mean in his room, I mean in front of me.
I suppose it could have a couple of months ago, when he bought me some Victoria's Secret underwear for my birthday. I found it flattering that my young man could think I would look good in such young things, so I immediately put them on and wore them (and nothing else) for the entire day - I thought nothing of it, since we're always casual about clothes around the house.
I enjoyed my son's comments about me being a "milf" (I had to look it up) and how sexy I looked. I even struck poses and didn't comment while he played with himself. When he got off, I was sure he was embarassed and didn't want him to feel bad, so I just told him to be sure to clean it up. I did the same thing the other two times he did it that day (I admit, I had had a couple of glasses of wine.)
Since then, it's become a three- or four-times-a-day habit for him. Sometimes he uses my underwear. I tried spanking him, only to have him shoot on my legs. I considered getting him counseling, but I'm afraid of getting into legal trouble and losing him. And I'm ashamed to admit it, but I like watching him do it, especially when he ejaculates.
A friend of mine commented that her son did something similar for a while. She says it's just a boy trying to test boundaries and get a shock-reaction out of his mother, and that it will pass if I ignore it. I'm not sure what to do.
My 11 year old son masturbates. I don't mean in his room, I mean in front of me.
I suppose it could have a couple of months ago, when he bought me some Victoria's Secret underwear for my birthday. I found it flattering that my young man could think I would look good in such young things, so I immediately put them on and wore them (and nothing else) for the entire day - I thought nothing of it, since we're always casual about clothes around the house.
I enjoyed my son's comments about me being a "milf" (I had to look it up) and how sexy I looked. I even struck poses and didn't comment while he played with himself. When he got off, I was sure he was embarassed and didn't want him to feel bad, so I just told him to be sure to clean it up. I did the same thing the other two times he did it that day (I admit, I had had a couple of glasses of wine.)
Since then, it's become a three- or four-times-a-day habit for him. Sometimes he uses my underwear. I tried spanking him, only to have him shoot on my legs. I considered getting him counseling, but I'm afraid of getting into legal trouble and losing him. And I'm ashamed to admit it, but I like watching him do it, especially when he ejaculates.
A friend of mine commented that her son did something similar for a while. She says it's just a boy trying to test boundaries and get a shock-reaction out of his mother, and that it will pass if I ignore it. I'm not sure what to do.
Ok well let me start at the beginning. I have been married for the past 7 1/2 years. I have 2 beautiful children. My husband and I have been having problems with our marriage since about the 2nd year. Well about 4 yrs ago we had decided to seperate and see how that went. In that time I met a guy and yes...I found myself pregnant by him. It obviously wasn't my husbands because we weren't living together much less having sex. Well I, of course told my husband and by all rights he was pissed. The guy that got me pregnant, I'll call him John Doe, was happy about it but hated the fact that I was married. We had a disaggreement and he went to go visit his family in a town about 5 hours away from my town. Unfortunately for him, he was arrested on an outstanding warrant for previous hot checks while he was gone. He did some time in jail and in the meantime my husband and I decided to try to work things out. He helped me while I was pregnant and was even there for the birth of my daughter. She is now almost 3 years old and he loves that little girl to death. He is completely wrapped around her finger. She calls him daddy because he has been there for her more than 'John' ever has. When 'John' got out of jail he came to see her and spent time with her. He understood that while he was gone my husband was her father and was always there for her. She was 8 months old by the time he finally got out of jail. John is now there for her whenever it's convenient for him. And I assure you it's not very much. She calls him by his first name and my husband by daddy. My problem is that my husband and I are having problems again (this time it's him cheating) and we're getting divorced. I know that as far as a father goes he is the perfect one for her and I had even gone as far as trying to get 'John' to give up his rights so that my husband could adopt her. He, being an ***, refused my offer flat out. He said he loves her and will not give her up because she is his daughter. Despite the fact that he'll maybe see her once a month. I love my daughter so much but how am I going to tell her that my husband is not her real dad? She loves him so much, but as far as he and I are concerned, there's no hope of us working it out. Can someone please give me advice? Our divorce will be coming up very soon and I don't want her to lose the one true 'daddy' she has ever had. I have already filed for child support from her real father but how and when do I tell my baby girl that the one father she really loves isn't her real one, but the lousy excuse for one who hardly ever sees her IS?
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