O.K., this is the thing, I've been dating and living with this guy for almost 3 years, but the relationship has been going sour for about a 1 1/2, during the mist of craziness in the relationship, I suggest we start either dating or having sex with other people, mainly because I was his first everything and he was talking about marrying me one day, so I wanted him to be sure this was what he wanted. This was suggested a few months back, at first he said no, but later changed his mind. At first I did this for him, but sense he was acting like a baby about talking to other girls, I started talking to this guy I really liked, and we've been together like boyfriend and girlfriend ever since. It has been the best 2 1/2 moths I've ever had in a long time. We both have grown deeper feelings for one another, although it wasn't suppose to get that far, it did, and I'm glad. But the problem is that he wants me to leave my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend really have no communication between us, every time we talk about breaking up, its like I want to say go away, but I feel bad because he has no were else to go, he told me he was moving out, I'm praying, money is mostly our problem, he doesn't like to pay bills on time. I told after we get our debts (his debts) situated, we could try to work it out, but I still don't see no hope, I just trying to let leave on a good note, instead of a bad one. The other gut I've been seeing doesn't like the fact when I go home its to my boyfriend but duh, he is still my b/f, I do want to break up, for almost a year. The thing about it, is that the gut I'm seeing, I feel way more closer to him then the gut I'm with but if I dump my b/f now, I would feel wrong because I feel like I have to protect regardless of my feelings.
I met a guy on myspace, only to find out that he lived in my town. I'd thought of breaking up with my current boyfriend way before I met this guy, lets call him "Dude" lol, anyway, I started hanging out with Dude and one day, I decided I liked him ALOT and I kissed him...the next week I broke up with my boyfriend. Its a mess, my family is talking bad about me now and everything else...however, I waited a while, and finally asked Dude out, that didn't go so well. Anyway, thats not the point of the story, the part I don't get is, we always hang out, randomly we kiss. He said he'd think about being my boyfriend. It was never official, then suddenly, I went to visit him...we started pushing each other playfully, and randomly 'hitting' each other. And..he looked at me and said "You're not suppose to hit your boyfriend.." I was never aware we were together!!! Imagine my surprise, and excitement. But...I went home that night happy, and when I left he was happy. That was Tuesday night, so Wednesday he didn't answer his phone at all, nor his texts, and then finally on Thursday my sister called his best friend, aka room mate, and said "Hey, wheres Dude? Hes not answering calls or texts" and his friend just said "I don't know why, hes asleep right now. I'll wake him up and have him call you..." He never did...Do I just accept heartache, or what?
I still love my first boyfriend. I have been with other guys but it still doesnt feel the same. My ex was everything i need. He had a gf but broke up with her last week and when i found out i was so happy. We still talk but its not the same. I miss his kisses and him holding me. He keeps tellin me that he loves me but says we can be friends wit benfits. i need some advice on this
I dont know what to do. I'm confused. I have a boyfriend "tom" that i love. I still have feelings for my "first" love. We talk everyday on the phone. But my feelings for him hasnt changed. He has a girlfriend. I also have a guy friend "john" that is married. He has been married for almost 2 yrs. We use to go out and now he tells me that he loves me and wants to be with me but also still loves his wife. My guy friend "bob" told me that he would break them up. I dont know what to do. I'm not a hoe. Can sum one help me. and i dont want any bs from dumb people. By the way those arent their real names
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