ok so my ex bf and i havent talked for like 3 mo. We were best friends he knows me sooo well, that wen things ended along w/ our friendship i felt like someone literally died and its just been really really hard for me...
Anyways i started dating this other guy and things have been going good... except the fact that he graduated and is going far away for school at the end of summer...so its really going to b difficult when the time comes for us to talk about wat to do... but i dont even want to think about that now.
Anyways our seniors, my ex included do this thing at school and its for the students to basically farewell to the seniors and allow the others to move up. During it i cried of course, but when he went i turned to see a picture of us and our group from homecoming... and i completely balled my eyes out...my best friend looked at me in shock and it made me laugh cuz i didnt think i would get that upset... so i kept thinking we were such good friends, regardless of all the hurt i had, the person that i am cannot leave it at that... and if there was one more thing i would say if this is the last time ill see him it would be nice. so later i was talking to my other friend when he came over and she started talking to him and i stood there. he wouldnt make eye contact and when she walked away i was left there and i did wat i said i would nvr do... i stepped up to him and said congratulations. he thanked me and we hugged. it was like one of those things where it felt like a really long time but it was only like 2 seconds...but everything like lifted from me... so that i could actually make eye contact with him w/o wanting to run away. i was so overwhelmed i quickly got away and teared up a bit.
Later he txts me saying that he doesnt know wat its worth nemore but he missed me a lot and how we were friends and regardless of wat happened and will happen i will always be important to him and good luck.
I called him and i got his vmail...he txtd back later but i was going out with my bf...so we havent gotten to talk its been like 3 days since.
I want to but like i think i should at least tell my bf wat happened i dont want to hide things from him...but i just dont know..
i plan to tell my bf and then talk to my ex.
i strictly only want to talk to my ex to try to suffice some of our friendship... that is all... and i want my bf to know that but im just worried something might go wrong...
My wife and I have been together for ten years. We get along great and we have a lot fun. About four years ago we started having less and less sexual activity and we have not had any sexual activty for over three years. I have talked about it with her, offered to go to therapy or counseling, but she says she is just not interested in sex anymore. I asked if it was me or of it was she was not interested. She says it is not me and there is no real reason.
I recently met this woman who wants to have casual sex once or twice a week and I have considered it. I have tried everything I could think about to solve this issue with my wife. I need sex in my life and I know this is no excuse, but what would you do. Would you cheat or just stay true with no sex and hope for the best.
I am a 21 year old female with the username maryciara12 and I want to say ...
Well me and my boyfriend have been talking for four years and i just had a baby in march. but after the baby came i started to have feeling for someone else and i told that person that i liked him and that we should go out and see how it would be, before we make a big step like getting together. what should i tell my baby father? thats the hard thing!!!
My boyfriend is a US Army soldier currently serving in Iraq. I met him a couple years ago and felt an instant attraction to him. He was incredibly different from anyone I had ever met before... sweet, charming, intuitive and intelligent. We had a fantastic time together.
And then he was deployed again.
Since he's been in Iraq this time, he's started to act differently. He has become reserved and apathetic. He seems incredibly depressed at times and he says things via email that would sound like serious warning signs of impending self-harm. I'm afraid or him. And he has become massively critical of what I say and do. He has sent me some letters that have made me cry because they're so acerbic.
I'm aware that I will never know what it's like to go to war and I want to be sensitive to what he's having to go through in order to make it through his deployment, but he's turning into an entirely different person and I really don't know how to cope with it. He's demanding and angry, yet constantly claiming that I'm the only thing that's keeping him "going" and the only thing that he lives for. It's starting to make me feel kind of trapped.
I love him. I don't want to break up with him. I don't want to hurt him. But I can't stand this anymore. I could wait forever for him to return, but I can't seem to find any traces of the man that I fell in love with and it's breaking my heart.
So thanks for reading my ramble. I would really appreciate any advice on how to cope with this or what to do.
yesterday, an old flame contacted me. We havent spoke in about 3years, and altho we were just an on and off 8mnth fling we went our seperate ways on good terms. He even contact me a year later telling me he wanted to see me since he was leaving for school, but since i was in a serious relationship by then i never responded.
My bf of 2yrs and i have bn having our relationship troubles, and the old flames timing is confusing, bcuz on one hand, i'm sorta ready for a break with my bf, but then again this old flame is just a fling & i would never want to hurt my bf. i'm only 21 & my hormones are blazing for this old flame-- but then again i havent seen or heard frm him in years.
anyways he says we've got "catchin up to do" but from experience ikno the chemistry between us... i just want a One Night Only kinda thing and yet i Hate that i have this Guilt about cheatin on my bf. UGHHHHH! im jus confused-- cuz me & my bf havent had the easiest relationship & i always told myself if this old flame came back id Have to see him. BTW i knew my old flame b4 my bf....but,
I am a 18 year old female named Leasha and I want to say ...
This is gonna sound completely pathetic but it's something i really need help with. i need help to "quarantine" myself from my boyfriend of 3+ years. He's almost too independent where i am WAY too dependent. It just doesn't even out. i can't stand not talking to him, and i always find myself waiting by the phone for his call. i'm used to talking to him around 4 (when he gets out of school/work)every day & i always find myself the one to make plans with him. He says he doesn't make plans with me cuz he knows i'll already ask first. i also have a hard time not texting/calling him when he's with his friends, especially his ex girlfriends/girls who want his nuts (not exaggerating), i just can't stand the thought of someone else making him happy and smile and laugh the way i do. It probably sounds like i'm controlling but i'm honestly not, he's the one who controls the relationship and i want help being my own person. i don't wanna care when he's out with other people, i don't wanna have the urge to call and text him every chance we get, i don't wanna be the one waiting all the time. i've tried everything to occupy myself to keep my mind off of him so i don't feel the need to talk to him but nothing works. i've tried video games, reading, playing with my dogs & rats, talking to/hanging out with friends, and music. None of that works. i'd like to learn how to distance myself from him without the help of other people, because i want to be independent like i used to be, therefore i can't have others physically help me. What can i do to stay occupied? im not allowed to have a job (i'm 17), school is mon-fri and i never have homework, and i'm pretty much at home all the time. i need help with this, especially at times when my boyfriend hangs out with his exes, it drives me insane, and i really need something to occupy myself. i'm usually easily amused but not when my boyfriend isn't around. Please help with some useful suggestions. Thanks.
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