So, to start off, I am a lesbian. Please no comments about how you think you can turn me straight or anything-I like girls. End of story.
So, in March of this year I met a girl online. I didn't think a lot about it, but ended up meeting her in person in early June. She had sent me a comment that said she felt we could have a future together. I had been dating another girl at the time that I knew our relationship just wasn't going anywhere, which was one reason I decided to meet said girl.
We went out and had an amazing time.
The next day, I went to check her profile and it said "In A Relationship"! I had never seen that before and I don't remember her telling me about any girlfriend.
Turns out the girl who was the girlfriend had asked her to be her girlfriend TWO hours before her and I met.
Wait, it gets better. She had never met this girl. She found her on the same site she found me. This girl was living in Chicago at the time (and we both lived in Atlanta) and sometime in the next few months they were both going to meet for the first time AND MOVE IN TOGETHER in Tennessee.
We hung out a few times before she moved to Tennessee. At one point she told me she knew she wouldn't be with that girl her entire life and that at some point in our future we would be together.
Even after I knew she had a girlfriend I wanted to make my feelings for her go away, but they just wouldn't. We ended up sleeping together. I still have incredibly strong feelings for this girl even after all this time. I consider her one of my closest friends and she is literally perfect for me. The girl of my dreams.
About a month ago, the girl she went to live with and be with broke up with her to move back to Chicago to be with her ex. "My" girl (just to be able to distinguish who I am talking about) still has feelings for her ex-girlfriend, but the girl treats her like crap and always has! Two weeks into the relationship the girl kicked her out of the apartment and told her not to come back, but she did anyway, because everyone had told her that it wouldn't work out and she is just so stubborn as to try and make it work.
The girl I care about knows I care about her and I have a feeling she knows I want a chance with her, I honestly think I deserve a chance. I'm not asking for forever (although that would be nice) I just want her to see me the way I see her...is that so much to ask? but I guess I don't know how to break the ice...I apparently suck at telling her in person or on the phone because I literally can not get the words out...
I don't know what to do. Would writing her be ridiculous??
There is this girl that lives with me in a co-ed college dorm in New York. I love her more than anyone I have ever met. Problem is: she has a boyfriend in Texas. I always seem to like the girl with the boyfriend and it totally sucks. And I can't seem to let go of my feelings. So what if anything can i do?
I can stick both my girls big toes in my mouth at once.I can even cram all her toes in my mouth at once. I give her the best foot rubs. And in return she gives me the greatest foot jobs. Are we weird? Before you answer try it out for yourself!
About 3 months ago i finally moved in with my girlfreind. we had been dating for about 7 months before we decided to get a place. When it finally happend, she completely changed! I was the only one working, paying the bills, feeding her, doing the housework and so forth, i did everything basically alone. it was like i was her mother. she claims it was extream depression that made her unmotivated. now im living back home and she is as well, shes asked me for another chance, should i? i love this woman to pieces and i cant imagine myself with out her. im just afraid that she will do it again. im only 18 and shes 25... i dont feel that i should of taken all that responsibility, for gods sakes i just got out of school im still a young girl!
I told this girl I made more money than I really do. Which was a stupid and shallow lie.
We've been talking online, and over the phone for several months. Now she wants to meet me, but she will soon find out I don't have as much as she thinks. I didn't tell her I made an outragous amount or anything. Just told her I was comfortable. The truth is I DON'T have a whole lot, and could be going better.
I know it's always better to just be yourself, but I haven't had the best of luck latly. I'm not a boring or shallow person, so I don't really know why I thought she would be impressed. She is a classy lady, and at first I didn't think I would have a chance with her. As it turns out she is very down to earth, and completly interested in who I am.
She has also been talking more and more about moving closer to me so we could give dating a shot.
I have a few more months until we meet... what can or should I do before then? I'm temped to tell another lie to cover the first one. However, I strongly believe in an open communication. So that may not work. On the other hand I don't know if I could tell her the truth. I never want to give someone a reason to not trust me. I'm usually a very honest person, and what you see is what you get. So what can I do to fix this problem without risking her changing her mind about me?
Ive been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and im thinking of breaking up. For one, things arent going anywhere with her. on the "bases" system, weve only been to second base. also, she isnt the type of girl i look for. she is too innocent, im looking for a punk rock girlfriend. my tastes are just changing. the big problem is that she told me a while ago that she tried to kill herself, and i was the reason she didnt try again. i need some advice fast, i want to make a decision soon.
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