first off let me say that when i was in 4th grade my best friend asked me to play boyfriend and girlfriend,she said she would be the guy so i said ok. we went in the bathroom and she kissed me,i had never kissed anyone before and i liked the feeling. i new i was suppose to be kissing boys, but i liked kissing her. it went on for about a year,making out,dry humping,but nothing more.then i moved and i always had dreams about doing more with her or any other woman,but then i moved back 2 years later and we met up, we started making out and she asked if i wanted to do more. but i said no. i dont know why, i was kinda scared.i moved again and i regret not doing anything else because i was so comfortable with her, i mean i cant just go up to some girl and start making out with her. since then i have kissed one other girl,but because it was a dare. i really think i am bi because i enjoy making out with girls and i want to do more. the only thing is my mom is so against lesbians and bisexuals. everytime she hears something about lesbians she says thats so disgusting and this and that and how she HATES lesbians. and how she cant understand how people do it. well im scared that when i do more stuff with a girl and i like it, how do i tell my mom? i think she would disown me,shes said so many things about how she hates people like that,and i dont know if i would ever be able to be myself and let her know wha is going on.
please help me, i need advice i dont know what to do!
I'm not sure of my feelings for a fellow co-worker. I don't know wether its love or lust. Whats worse is I'm her Supervisor and the standard rule of "No dating underlings" is enforced at my job. I feel like a teenager around her. I joke with her and about her.(to her face of course) She's 18 and I'm 26 which messes with what morals I have. She makes me laugh alot and she is realy fun to be around. I feel compelled to protect her. I want it to be more than it is, I realy do. But like most I worry about what someone like me could do to her emotionaly. I consider myself a danger to innocents. I have corrupted many people with my presence over the years. She has lived a VERY sheltered life! She knows little or nothing of porn, relationships, men, sracasim, or life in general. She can be very shy or naive sometimes. Best way to describe her would be, she's like a beautiful flower in the country side and I would be the weed that steals the water that she needs to grow. She's joining the Army in June and I'm not sure if I should bring up my feelings or not. Any advice ladies???
I am 16 now but I never had a girlfriend because when I was up until begiing of freshman year i was a bit chunky. Now I am a sophmore and i am skinnier and have alot more muscle from football and tack weightliftin that i attend daily. Though I stil cant seem to approach girls outside or inside of school and i dont wana have my whole highschool time wasted being girlfriendless having friends is good but id like girls. any ideas.
I asked this girl out to prom but she told me she had to go to a tourney that weekend and can't go. We don't go together and I don't know or think she likes me. Do you think she really has a tourney to go to or is she blowin me off?
Well here goes. In my childhood and through my soph year of HS i was overweight and considered obese at one point. I virtually had no confidence when it came to girls and only went out with 2 girls all in all. The first time i made out with a girl was the beg of my senior year which i am finishing. I have fought my way out of the ashes from 188 lbs 5'8" to 160 lbs 6' yet i still have a lil weight to lose. I find that whenever i escape my school's 'community', 'society' w/e, i have much better reactions when talking/flirting with girls than i would dream of back in school. I find that i have alot more confidence now but none of it seems to have any effect in school. I recently went to six flags on a class trip and was flirting with this gorgeous (sp?) girl i never would have thot liked me. It felt like i knew her from somewhere and i knew she liked me because she followed me around for a while. I never got a screen name (*dumass*) but it boosted my confidence through the roof, thinking i had a chance with a girl i thought was perfect. two days later i have a similar 'flirting experience' with another amazing girl but the situation had me assume she had a bf (who was there) and i failed to get a screen name again. All in all, what could attribute to me having such 'success' out of my school's society? I simply cannot wait for college yet i do not want to mess up this pattern. Could it be once people know me they see i am unattractive? I consider myself a nice guy and treat the ladies like royalty if they are not complete snobs.
hi i am seeking advice if a guy is shy and overweight and not able to talk to women he likes is weight a big issue with women every girl i know loves my personality but i have no idea if they would date me or just want to be friends im scared to ask because if i do they might not want to be my friend and i have very few now as it is please help
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