Ok I met this guy online and we talk for almost two months on the phone and online. Most of our talks are sexual which he instigates. I keep saying I can't just have sex with someone I don't know. He kept telling me I want a relationship I don't do one night stands but yet he wouldn't ever take me on a date. So we agree to meet and whatever happens happens. I was thinking we would be at his house but after we meet he drives out to a certain woods and takes me way out there. He expects to have sex well several years ago I was raped by a friend and it all came back and I felt cornered and I was afraid to say no. I didn't really know him he could have raped me or killed me or both. So I went along with it and we had sex. I regretted it right afterwards I know he didn't rape me but I have similiar feelings toward it and when I think about having sex with a guy it scares me. So now I explained to him the situation and I said if he wanted to start over that was fine but I wasn't jumping in bed with him and he said sex is really important. So basically he won't wait on me. If we get togather we need to have sex shortly. What the hell? Some girls can just have sex with someone they don't know that well......not me. I need some feedback
I have liked this guy for awhile and he likes me alot too, but he has a girlfriend and he does want to start anything with until he ends things with her. however, he has a open case and is on probation so if he pisser her off she can get him into alot of trouble, and everything he owns is in her name so he wants to stay on her good side till everything is over. i was cool with waiting for him but in the mean time he had his best friend watching out for me, and i got kinda comfortable. so i needed a place to stay one night and his friend offered and we were alone so many times before i said ok and didn't think much of it. anyway i ended up sleeping with his best friend that night, i didn't want to and i did say no, but he didn't listen to me. i needed to get this off my chest. everything is all weird now when i see them and i don't know if my guy knows about it or not. why is life so hard.
I am head over heels for this guy and I have been since last year. The thing is I told me friend, and she is now dating him. The thing is that she didnt even know who he was until I told her I liked him, she seems to like every guy I do and its hard to not like him. I feel like I should get over him but I would love to ruin the realtionship, cause he likes me more than he likes her. But I feel and obligatiuon to my friend even though she stabbed me in the back.
He always seems to hold my hand and he flirts with me a lot. He has tried to kiss me a couple times too. I really see myself with him but what to do with her. HELP!
I've been wih my boyfriend for a little over a year now and i know i love him, but sex seems to be the problem. I love to have sex and he doesn't. When we have sex it only lasts for like 5 mins then it's over and i'm left wanting more. I've found my self starting to stray. I've already cheated on him four times. Ive been a bad girl.
I have been with this guy for 5 years. When I first got with him he was on drugs really bad. Pretty much I knew he was a better person than that and I wanted to save him. He was into meth really bad. But I am happy to say that he has been clean for at least 3 years now. The thing is that even though we used to be so good together it seems it has faded away. When we first got together we would have the greatest sex ever. Now I NEVER get off when we have sex. It seems like he only put effort into sex when he was high on something. And this really drives me crazy about him, he will not let me lick on him anywhere (except his d*** or course). He just wants to give him oral or have quick sex. And when i say quick..its less than 5 min every time. I need more attention then what he gives me. I find myself staying with him just out of convience for myself. He is a good man, but I dont think I could marry him. I have been seeing another man for over a year.
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