ok well i'm 23 yrs old n i'm in this situation where I have 3 children n i've been with their father for 5 yrs but, we both know that we've only hung in there for the children. We can't be in the same room without arguing and u know that look someone gives u when they can't stand u n u just wanna duff them out, well we've been giving eachother that look for almost 3 years now and i'm sick of it. So now my ex from highschool who left to the military came home and finds out i have children and he's "happy" for me but the more we hang out and "Catch up", I feel me startin to have feelings for him n I KNOW he's been had feelings for me, like serious relationship feelings...he sends me flowers, we laugh a lot together and he's always been beautiful peoples but I can't help but think about my children (whom he adores) and whats really best for them. If i should just stick my happiness up my *** I'm telling my ex now who's ONLY a friend(we've done absolutly nothing sexual)to just go his way, It will hurt so much but I'll have to do that.(I don't live with my childrens father and I have my own apartment)
I'm an 18 yr old senior in high school and i think ive got a pretty good head on my shoulders!!!! Lately it seems like all my little sister and i do is fight!!! seems normal i know! but i get really depressed afterwards...i just start crying and think about cutting, and sometimes even suicide!! I dont think i would do it so i dont even know why i even think about it...i dont have enough balls i guess you could say and i want so much in life!!! I think maybe cutting would be a good solution...i would alwayz talk about ppl who did that like 'why would they do that to their body' and now im thinking about doing it...its just something i think i could turn to for comfort! now im thinking maybe i should try anti-depressants ((i think thats what they're called dont make fun if its not)) but it would be hard for me to talk to my mom about it...i just dont wanna let her down!! and i cant talk to my friends about it because i dont want them to think bad of me!! i just dont know who or what to turn to when im so down...so then i think about all this...im a pretty good student and i'll be going to college pretty soon but as long as im here in the same house as my sister im still going to be considering cutting and the other things!! its not just the fights we get into that makes me upset its the things that are said...she just makes me feel like im ****....im some horrible person who doesnt deserve to live!!! sooo...i guess the advice i want from you guyz is what you think i should do...what should i turn to for comfort?!?! i know cutting isnt the solution...so i dont want ppl to tell me to cut i guess i wanna know if you think i should try anti-depressants and tell my mom what ive been thinking about...or even if you think i'm that depressed to even consider anti-depressants!!!
Okay....let's begin. I am 18 and I have a 15 year old sister. She is thinner than I am and blonde. I am 5'9 with dark brown hair. People tell me I'm pretty but I just don't feeel as pretty as her. It makes me feel so damn depressed like everyone wants to talk to her and just get away from me. Like I don't know how to compete with her it just seems like she's better at the social scene. I'm very artistic and sometimes reclusive due to past experiences. So how do I put myself back into the game and show everyone that I'm just as good as she is but still love her too. I love her dearly, but I just want people to love me the same as her.
p.s. thanks for ANY advice and I'm truly not as selfish as this may sound.
My mom is like 48, she goes after TEEN guys. In PUBLIC. Around ME, [18 year old girl]. I've even caught her coming on to my friends, IN OUR HOUSE! This started when I was 14... Someone please tell me something...
my mom and my brothers keep telling me i'm fat. im 5'5 130lbs and during dinner, the conversation would always lead to how they estimate my weight to be about 150. this makes me so insecure about myself and i always end up eating at work. i never eat at home. my friends tell me that they are just giving me a hard time and my mom tells me my friends, as well as most white, black, hispanic, indian people are fat also. she says shes telling me this because she loves me and she wants me to meet a decent guy and that the perfect weight for me to be would be around my cousins weight. my cousin is the same height and age as me and shes 85 pounds. i dont know what to do.
Here is my situation. I'm an African-Canadian, my mom is black and my dad is white. My Mom's dad hates the fact that my mom dated my dad and had me because he says he's a stupid white boy and that race should stick with their own race. He hates white people and thinks they should burn in hell. My dad's dad is the complete opposite and loves me for me. However, my mom's dad hates the fact that I'm also gay and currently dating a white women. He can't except me for me unlike my other grandfather who loves me no matter what and excepts my sexuality. I really want a good relationship with my mom's dad but he hates gays and hates that I'm bi-racial. I need help.
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