Hey Everyone
My name is not impt.I'm 15 yrs old..I just moved from california to Texas and I gained 2 step brothers.Who drive me nuts..Everything here drives me nuts.. I miss my friends/family so much..But,I really have two problems..One is how to cope with moving and the other is how to keep in touch with my friends in california but still move on with my life.Also by not driving them crazy by giving them thousands of phone calls.I lived in california my entire life and at this point it seems so impossible to simply live.Living seems so difficult.I hate living here period.California was somewhere I never expected to live away from.Not to mention the drama happening other than moving.Its so stressful.How can I cope with all of this and not hit rock bottom?
I went to school for a while and I met these friends of mine there. I am 23 so I'm not a high schooler. Anyway....I had it bad for her boyfriend. From day one when he walked into the door on orentation I felt like maybe he was a lil bit attracted to me.
He and I talked off and on when his girl wasn't in the room and I kinda got to know him a little bit. But it was difficult when his woman was attached to his hip. Well before I dropped out of the class his gilrfriend sold Avon. And well, I only bought Avon from her in hopes to get closer to him. She and I are somewhat friends now. And even though I have dropped out of the class I still regret every day not telling him how I felt.
I do have her cell phone number and her email. Because I would email her the order's and then text message her cell phone to let her know the order was avaliable in the email. I had orginally purchased Avon in the first place to become friends with her and then try to get closer to him.
I dont know what I'm doing. Should I just forget it all? I want to desperatly tell him even if I end up looking like an idiot. But how do I do that without starting drama in the class and with only talking to him?
OK where do i start. Well here we go.
My best friend and I are so much alike, we have the mind set of men.
We don't do relationships, We are only out for a good time, Its all about the chase.
Only diffrence is that she get around... like gets around.
I keep mine safe, as in no one gets a home run if you get what I mean.
I've learned thats what makes a man really want you as a g/f, but I haven't wanted to be anyones so I move on when they get "emotional".
Anyways, you know how you have that one guy thats been like your number 1. The one you can't have but your great friends with. Maybe even the one you did have but its not like that anymore.
I call them the "untouchables" the guy that none of your g/f can have. Cause even if he isn't yours he will always be "yours".
Well I'm visiting my g/f in her town, meeting all her boys that are touchables... none that keep my attention for more then a couple days, then I met him. The one who wasn't the cuttiest, but we just hit it of. We flirted all night, then talked the rest of the time, and man did we have the same mind set on life.
I go home that night w/ my girl and say that hes a great guy. Then she hits me w/ it. "thats the one I was telling you about thats my top guy" OOOOOHHHHH YA!!!
I've heard a hell of a lot about him, but never had a face.
Well he starts coming around a hell of a lot more, and we talk and talk.
I learn that he has nothing for her, because of the way she is (easy) and I start to fall for him.
Now its been a couple of weeks of us seeing eachother a heck of a lot and behind her back.
What sucks is I can't remember the last time I liked a guy.
Even worse is that Im doing it all wrong....
What should i do?????
I have a friend with who I been freinds for over two years. We went through alot together. At some point our boyfriends were like best friends and stuff. POint is were are tight. THis is the issue. She has not been single since ever i know her and she always made her bf's her first priority. But she always found time to hang out with her friends. Bf's came bf's went but she was still, you know, available and never ditched her friends. I now have a bf of 2 yrs and I dont choose him over her. If i make plans with her i make sure I dont make plans with him that same day. She on the other hand makes plans with me and her bf on the same time. Its like we hang out and then she is like "ok my bf is comming you can hang along if you want!" but if i do she always is touching him and making out and always all over him and since i hardly see my bf i feel like a third wheel. So i hate hanging out with the two of them. This is the thing, everytime she makes plans with me to chill, we chill and then in the middle of it its like the phone rings and it her bf comming. ALLL THE TIME!!! And then I dont know what to do? Stay with them or leave. Like today we were hanging out and all was cool and then he called and he was like where u at hun and she told him and he was like ok. I was like is he comming and she was like no. Then as we hanging out he pulls up and like "suprise". And she is off with him. I told her that i like him and i like her but i would like to hang out with my friend, not her and her bf. I mean yeah cool he comes, but you dont see my bf trailing along at all. And yea just cuz im nice to her bf doesnt mean i want him there....at all!!!! I mean do i have the right to get mad? And i did tell her but she just keep doing the same thing all the time. Im sick and tired of it. What should i do? I am happy for her to be with her bf, but dont make plans with me and then ditch me for him. What should i do?
My roomate is one of my close friends and i have a sex problem. We started having sex in January and we shared the same room, and he wanted to start dating in the future when i was ready. The problem was (and i never told him this) that i'm not attracted to him in that way the only reason im doing it with him is because im addicted to sex and its easy access with him. well im a territorial person and without realizing it that because i was sharing a room with him i accidently became territorial of him. well he promised that since we're doing things together we both shouldn't have sex with n'e one else ok i was fine with that. but last weekend a friend of ours was laying her head in his lap and he wouldn't move and then the next day they were really close to each other on the couch with the covers drapped over them then when i went to bed they stayed out in the living room and when i came in they we're sleeping on the couch holding each other. then when she left he left with her. he told me that he's not attracted to her and that they haven't done anything and also that its not like we're dating so i have no right to get territorial. ok ouch yes thats true but im really hurting cause i feel he lied to me and even though we weren't dating should i have the right to be mad or not? I don't like him in that way even now so y am i hurting and y do i feel jealous and angry?? keep in mind i'm 20 yr female. and no im not crazy or a psyhco promise, just need help
ok, so my cousin and i hang out alot, she is sposed to be one of my good friends, but she is sleeping with a guy ive been seeing on and off since i was 15, and she did it to me last summer, she dosent understand y im upset, should i just let it go or do i have the right to be mad at her? hook it up with some imput...
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