ok i love my boyfriend but i dont enjoy haveing sex while im pregant, because it makes me scared of loseing my baby or harming it. Should i tell him or should i keep having sex and if i do tell him he might get board of me and leave me.
My boyfriend and I were together for a few months then we broke up because we constantly argued about dumb things and I guess I couldn't handle it anymore so I cut things off. He was very upset with me so he wanted nothing to do with me. A few days later I started to miss him and I would try to talk to him, but he wasn't hearing it because he was really hurt. I gave up trying and I moved on...and so did he. He got a new girlfriend, well not a girlfriend, just a girl he was talking to that he really liked, well according to him "Loved". He called me one day and we were talking and he told me that he still loved me and that just hearing my voice brought back all the feelings he ever had for me, I think he was even crying too. He and I started talking again, but he was also talking to that other girl also. Things didn't work out between them because she still had feelings for her ex and she didn't think she and my ex would work out. He was really hurt by that and I felt really jealous because it meant he really did love her and I wanted him to love only me and me only. He and I started talking more and before we knew it we were hanging out more, kissing and telling each other "I love you". My birthday came up and he said he had a gift for me. He gave it to me and told me that he made an error with spelling my name and that was why something was crossed out and my name was written next to it. I think to much about it, I waited till I got home to open the gift. When I got home I looked really closely and saw that the name that was crossed out started with the letter "R" and had only four letter and my name starts with the letter "S" and has six letters. Things weren't adding up. How could he have known me for a whole year and not know how to spell my name? I called him and confronted him about it and he became very defensives and said he was hurt that I thought he would do something like that to him, so he said he was gonna talk to me later. I felt guilty because I thought he was being honest and I almost I apologized, but I couldn't bring myself to do it because I knew I was right. I confronted him about it again and he finally confessed. I couldn't believe it..I was hurt. Turned out he bought the gift (the necklace) for the girl and re-gifted it my giving it to me. I cried..I know it was dumb, but I couldn't help it, I could just imagine him taking his time to buy her the perfect necklace and I couldn't take it. Eventually I forgave him because I love him and because I know he truly loves me too. Was I being really stupid, should I have dumbed his *** for doing something so stupid?
Well i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months. It's been pretty good so far, had a few small stupid arguments but nothing that major. We get along, we rely on each other. We want to be together forever...we're in high school.
I am very unexperienced sexually and i prefer to maintain that for awhile, preferably til marriage but i have a feeling if our relationship continues i may give in eventually a little bit, i wouldnt go all the way i dont think i could handle that or be ok with that at all. He's probably gone all the way before. Anyways he tells me he thinks we should take things to the nxt level, and be honest with wat i think. He is running out of ways to show me his love towards me. So, of course i was honest i said i dont want things to grow physically im not for that. He acted a bit annoyed... and later txts me and i tell him i didnt want him to take wat i said wrong but its just that i do want our relationship to grow but not in a physical way. He then replied saying that he got that, and then he said that he proposes we cut back on making out and stick to kissing. i said if thats wat u want. (he's a lil touchy feely, but we havent done anything) So, then he quickly said thats all there is to it.
...And now i feel like he's disappointed, which is understandable but come on i was honest with you? i mean in time i will probably not be able to control myself and maybe do something more but it being my first long term relationship i dont want to mess things up. its going to take me more time to feel comfortable with myself before i want to do anything more. I am very comfortable with him, if i had to choose who i would do everything with id choose no one but him, but im not ready. i dont want to have regrets with him i want to be as ready as he is. I dont base my love for someone on the physical things. is that such a big deal?
I love my boyfriend very much. We have been together almost a year and a half now, and I see a future with him. The problem is he left me for his job and for months we have been doing the long distance thing. I started hanging out with this guy and we became fast friends. This friend then made a move on me one night and I let it happen. We ended up sleeping together. As a matter of fact we slept together a few times over the course of the month that followed.
Now I am realizing just how much of a mistake I have made and how much I love my boyfriend. Is it possible that this was a fluke and I needed it to really be sure? Or is it a sign that me and my boyfriend are a mistake? Please help because I don't feel like this man I love is a mistake, I really don't. And yes I am sure there will be judgement because I cheated but try not to think of that and more about the question at hand...
I have been married for four years .My husband is a very practical and an intelligent man and he knows what he's capable of.He loves me and he provides for everything I need and more.I have complete freedom and a lot of space in this relationship.He's a great partner in bed too.In short, he's a perfect guy one can ask for, but I have a problem.
I am unable to express my feelings to him.He is a no nonsense guy and not at all into emotional or sentimental stuff. I have tried to talk to him sometimes but i feel he's not receptive to my problems or simply that he isn't capable of understanding what i need. In four years of marriage, we have not once discussed our fantasies, children,etc. I want to open up and talk everything but i feel he's not very appreciative of it and so i fail to communicate every time. I have been in this situation for four years and I simply can't go on like this anymore.
I have never denied sex to him although hes almost always does that.We have never spoken about it either.It leaves me hurt and dissatisfied every time. I fail to understand why he does that.We are both equally committed to this relationship and I trust him completely to be faithful to me.
I just can't stop thinking about what's wrong in our relationship and how I could make things right.What should i do ? Please help me people...
I am in college. I started talking to this girl at school over the internet during the past summer. I had been interested in this girl for awhile. In the beginning, I was the one who was initiating the conversations. Eventually, she started texting me and talking to me a lot more with her being the one to start the conversations most of the time. So I asked her to go to dinner and a couple other things with me a few times. She went a couple times, but even when she wouldn't go with me she would continue to text and instant message me. Some of these conversations would go for hours too. She would always tell me about things that were bothering her (that I knew nothing about)and some other stuff. Like I already said, I was very interested in this girl and by the amount of times she kept texting me and instant messaging me I really thought she was interested in me. Well she eventually told me she just wanted to be good friends and nothing more. For about the past two months we've spoken to eachother very few times, maybe like two sentences total. Now I am back at school and I have seen her a couple times but really didn't say that much to her. I am not really sure what I should do. I mean, I really liked her and would just like to forget about her and move on. But at the same time if she really wanted to be friends, I mean hang out with eachother with other people and stuff like that and not just being the guy she calls or texts or whatever to tell about the problems she is having, that would be fine. I think I could handle that, but I really don't want to be that guy who is the shoulder for a girl, who has no interest in being his girlfriend, to cry on. I've been that too many times and it sucks when you start to have feelings for someone who has interest in being anything more than friends with you. It's like getting the bad end of a deal. So I am asking, what should I do? How do I handle this situation?
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