As a young adult I learned that my sister was sexually abused for a long period of time by an uncle. My sister is now 33 (I am 31) and she refuses to confront the issue and has forbidden anyone else from "interfering".
While I respect my sister's wishes, she's old enough to deal with her past in a way that she see's fit, the situation is not that simple, in my eyes. This man has grandchildren. Grandchildren who are watched in his home. What's to keep him from doing this again, and again?
I'm furious with the situation. At the very least this man should be investigated, but without my sister's testimony how can anything even be looked into? Furthermore, if the situation were brough to light...what might that do to her well being?
What I'd really like to do is take care of this man myself. I'm not a violent person by any stretch of the imaginiation, but I have no tolerance for those that prey on others in this way. Is there anything more detestable that you can do to another human being (let alone a child) than to violate them in this way...
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