im so confuse about this one guy, i dont know whether he likes me or he just messing with me. he just got off from a seven year relationship, well he's known her for three years and dated her for four years. i met him at my brother's house, his brother is friend's with my older brother. his brother came to hang out with my brother for awhile before they leave back to his home town, which is marshall, it is three hours away from the twin cities. i just came from my friend's house, and i was going to leave my brother's house but until i saw him. man i was so amaze by him, it was like " who is this guy" so i stop and chatted with him. my brother introduce me to him and his older brother so i hung out with them, i never went to my friend's house, she was waiting for me to come so i called her, i told her i couldnt make it so she went to sleep, and it was really late too at that time. but yeah, that was the first time and last time i've seen him. maybe about a month or two month later i saw him at the club, he came and say hi to me so i did too, he wanted to dance with me but i told him i dont know how to dance, i was with my friends, i was really shy, i didnt know how to react at all i just told him i didnt know how to dance and im going to go. he told i was hating on him, i told him no but the whole point was i was shy and my friends were around me so i haded to be cool. then the second time i went to the club, this time i went with one of my cousin, i went i saw my sister's and sister in laws i hung out with them, and then i saw that guy again, i was drunk, he came up to me wanted to dance so i was dancing with him then he ask for my number and i think i grab his number too but oh well. every since then i've called him every single day, there's never a day i didnt call him at all. he never calls me i always called him but he always pick up when i call and when ever there's a miss call from me, he calls me back all the time and he always call me when he comes in town. we talked for like a week straight, then i got mad because he never called me so i decided to not call him for a week so i was at a friend's house, on my way to pick up my cousin, i was drinking at that time so i picked her up the he called on my cousin cell, i was so mad, i almost cried but i didnt because my cousin was there, i didnt want her to think anything, he wanted me to come see him and we were only a block away from him, he kept begging but i didnt go because i was just so mad at him so i went home but at the same time i was also happy too when he called but i was still mad so left home he told me how come i dont call him anymore and he wanted to see me i told him i was tire so i went home. and then i started to call him, we been talking for like about four months now i think, and he havent told me his feelings to me so i havent told him too. the only time he tells me his feelings is when he is drunk and i do that too. im a really shy person, i keep things to myself all the time, well not all the time just certain things. well anyways, he'll give me signs like he likes me so the same back at him too. but what i dont understand is does he like me or he just playing around with me and im really confuse about him. i think about him every single, i always think about him. i think about him when i go to sleep, when i listen to love songs, when im with my friends, when im at work, let just say i think about him every minute, every second. i dont know whats wrong with me, i just think im weird. well about a week ago he told me he wanted to be friends because i been wanting an anwser from him so he finally told me i never ask him about wanting an anwser, i only say it to others so he heard. he told me he wanted to be friends, he still want to see other people and still want to go out and experience things he miss most of his life. he say he was still heart broken from his ex girlfriend. he say he's looking for friends, people who can make him laugh, and have fun. so i told him, i understand what your going through, i respect that, i know i've never been in a long term relationship, i dont know how it feels but i do understand though, if you want to be friends you should've of told me from the start but im fine with it but that doesnt stop me from calling you everyday, im still going to call you. every since then, i call sometimes now, i dont really call him like i use to call him, it happen like just a week ago so i barely call him but the weird part is a couple days later he called me, me and him we talked for awhile, he didnt talked to me like a friend we were suppose to be friends he says he miss me alot, he thinks about me. i was happy but i told him i thought we were friends, he told me we are friends, well i lie thats what he says. he said so does that mean i cant hold, hug you, and kiss you. i told him no, because were friends and friends dont do that. so he say okay i guess then. then he asked me to come down to marshall and hang out with him and his friends because they're doing a new year's eve party. i told him i want to come but i cant, i have to watch my brother's house. he sounded it sad, he said too bad we cant be together on new years, so i say. i know huh, too bad, well theres always next year, i mean if theres even a you and me. i told him im going to call him on new years eve and say happy new year if he doesnt pick up then im going to leave him a message. he says okay. this time he was not drunk and i was surprise.
well im sorry its so long but the whole point is i dont know how he really feels about me and im really lost and confuse. my feelings towards him is should i like or do i like him or i just think i like him. i dont know whats going on with me, i wish someone can just tell me what am i feeling about this guy and does he even like me gosh!!! im so confues by him he tells me were friends but he doesnt talk to me like a friend. i need some advice, not advice but tell me what the hell is going on.
i met him five years ago. we started to have children. after i had the first child, he messed around on me with a younger girl. a few months later i wanted to hurt him back. you know hurt him like he hurt me. well i did. i had sex with another guy. but i felt even more bad then when he hurt me. so i never told him and he doesn't know to this day. now he messes around with alot of girl,well so i hear. i have never seen it for myself. i love him but at the same time i have never hated anyone like the way i hate him. he says he loves me and he has never cheated on me since our older son was born. i don't know if it is just girls who want himor guys who want me? is it lies? i don't know?
Ok idk if im like boy crazy or what but i have like this three way tear between the guy that i like. im 14, one just turned 17, one is 16, and one is 15. the 17 year old guy i've known practically my whole life since i was like 5 because our parents were friends and hes finally treating me like a person, and not like hes forced to hang out with me. the 16 year old guy sits at my lunch table and hes cool and fun but since i moved at the begining of the year to this school i dont really know him much but my other friends say he's really great.the 15 year old is in 3 of my classes and he broke up with his gf 4 weeks ago and i know a lot about him, but hes the kind of all-around flirt and im not very outgoing at all... so im like, which one should i like? is it wrong to like more than one person? should i care since i doubt nne of them like me anyway?????
I'm 14 years old and i think i might be bisexual. It started when we were playing spin the bottle at my friends 13 birthday party and i ended up kissing another girl, and i liked it. Latly i've been looking at both females and males in a sexual way. I dont really know who to talk to because my mom is a complete homophobe and thinks all gays+ bisexuals should go to hell. I need advice on what to do.
Can you still have everything you want and still want more?
I have everything I could ever want. I get my way with my mom and I have good grades in school,I'm 18 about to graduate and the coolest friends anyone could ever have. A kick *** car and everything. But theres one thing I dont have and thats love. I want it, so much. I'm hott as hell and no one wants to be with me. I am a really sweet person and nice to everybody. But no one knows how lonely I am. I've been single for 5 1/5 months and I dont want to be single anymore. I think I still have feeling for my X, but I have no clue. I just HATE being alone. I know it sounds really stupid and selfish but everybody needs love.
okay me and this dude was talkin tha whole summer okay im a freshman okay so when we get to school everything is cool okay so one day we jus start kissin we get all into it so im thinkin okay dis is goin great....so then that night he calls me sayin we need to be friends because we were moving too fast so i was like okay u kno??? i had no problem with that....so then he started talkin to mii good friend so i got mad at him and stopped talkin to him for like a week and a half so then he asked me back out and i said yea....everything was goin better than before......then one day i was sittin with him on break n he was actin like he aint wanna say nuthin to me n then he didnt walk me to class...i could tell sumthin was wrong so i texted him on my phone i asked wat was wrong he said nuthin n then like 5 minutes later he texted me a urgent message sayin he was goin through too much and he wasnt ready for a relationship and he couldnt do it no more. that friday i went to a football game and i knew his niece we were like best friends and i showed her the text message when he broke up with me and she told me he was cheatin on me with two other girls. im tryin to be mad at him but for some reason i jus cant be mad and i dont know why....whats wrong with me?!?!?!?!