okay this particular guy and I met about a month ago and immediatly had a good time together-our personalities clicked and we just flirted and got along. We hung out with groups of people a few times and flirted and talked and had a good time...ended up staying at a friends house together with people and hooking up. Then that weekend we spent the day with friends at the beach and went and hung out together for the rest of the day...spent time talking, goofing off and hooking up...we ended up having sex...later that night we went to his buddies house and then he came over and spent the night. We had a really good time together and we have talked a few times over the phone since but I haven't seen him-I'm just wondering whats going on-I don't want anything serious and I know he doesn't but I do enjoy hanging out and we seem to have a really good time together. Is he just wanting to make sure i don't get the wrong idea or was it just fun for then?? we have a lot of the same friends and we both have great personalities so tell me whats the deal??
Ive been interested in this guy now.. for a little bit over a week. He called my best friends boyfriend and told him that he wanted to meet me. So "frank" (the guy) and I talk for a couple days and meet eachother with our friends to go hang out... it all goes really really really well, and we see eachother the next day also and that goes really really really well again.. the last time i saw him was on a tuesday. All of a sudden after that tuesday he barely was talking to me. I started to get suspicious. I asked him if there was someone else that he was interested in and he said no. I thought he didnt like me anymore until he canceled all of his plans on saturday to come and spend time with me but he was totally distant. To make a long story shorter... he lost interest in me when i asked him if he liked someone else... how can i get him to be interested in me again...???
I am in love with a guy who is an addict. I don't know how to stop caring. From the moment we started dating everyone kept telling me he wasn't a good person. I have this problem believing that people are good, and that people can change. The way he made me feel was unlike anything I had ever experienced. It wasn't long until he moved in with me and things couldn't have been better, or so I thought. I am very nieve when it comes to drugs, but I knew his history. He was honest and upfront about everything. I spent 2 weeks helping him through withdrawls and when that was over we never left eachothers side for 2 years. When he asked me to marry him, I couldn't have been happier! Everything I wanted was happening and I was convinced that I was enough for him. All of the sudden an old "friend" of his started coming around and things went straight to hell. I watched the man that I loved more than anything turn into a monster. He started staying out all night and lying. There's nothing in this world that I hate more than being lied to. He finally told me that he didn't love me and I knew he was using. He moved out but we still stayed together. I wanted him to get help but instead he surounded himself with that life and I had to stand-by and watch him destroy the man I fell in love with. I said goodbye and walked away knowing that I had to. A few months went by and I got a phone call. It was him and he wanted to talk to me. I agreed and we met. He was in tears and told me how sorry he was. I had been waiting for those words for what seemed like an eternity. All I wanted was our lives back. We decided to take it slow this time and I was beginning to believe in him again. Just yesterday he left with his sister on a short trip and I called his phone and on the other end was a girl I know is user. I asked her to come over because I wanted answers. She came and I asked why she had his phone. She said he asked her to hold onto it while he was gone. I asked what their relationship was and she said they were friends. I looked at her and had to say So you're not f$#^*&%^ him. She said I didn't say that. I asked for how long she replied with since her and her boyfriend broke up. There was a knot in my stomach the size of a watermelon. I had just found out that he had been with her and me at the same time. He is not back from his trip until tommorrow. I don't know what I'm going to do. I spent the entire night crying and puking I can't beleive this is happening. I'm scared that my worst fears are coming true and my life is about to fall apart all over again. Do people really change or am I just a fool?
this is a repost i forgot to track it soo..ok this is the deal....i am 17 year old guy who is alittle confused. about my my sexuality and some other stuff too. well lets me start off by saying through out my life i have only dated 3 girls but one of them was kind of a dare. the first girl our relationship was in 6th grade and only lasted 4 days. I was pretty upset when we broke up. the second girl was dared to go out with me that was in 9th grade. then another time in 9th grade i got asked out by a girl and she was knid of fat. so i broke up with her the same day. so now i am a senior in highschool and i am feeling myself a little atracted to guys and no longer atracted to girls. i find myself in the locker room staring but i cant help it. and i have exsperimented with gay porn. i just cant picture myself dating a guy i am just attracted to them. am i gay? please help!!!!!!!
ok this is the dael....i am 17 year old guy who is alittle confused. about my my sexuality and some other stuff too. well lets me start off by saying through out my life i have only dated 3 girls but one of them was kind of a dare. the first girl our relationship was in 6th grade and only lasted 4 days. I was pretty upset when we broke up. the second girl was dared to go out with me that was in 9th grade. then another time in 9th grade i got asked out by a girl and she was knid of fat. so i broke up with her the same day. so now i am a senior in highschool and i am feeling myself a little atracted to guys and no longer atracted to girls. i find myself iin the locker room staring but i cant help it. and i have exsperimented with gay porn. i just cant picture myself dating a guy i am just attracted to them. am i gay? please help!!!!!!!
Okay, so i'm fourteen years old and i love this boy. So he told me he has 3 girlfriends. me and two other girls. i know about them but they don't know about me. he said he told me about them because he didn't want to lie to me because he really likes me but he didn't want to break-up with the 2 other girls. I'm always with him and when I'm not I am on the phone with him. We have had sex and he says he has had sex once with his other girlfriend a month ago. i think he really likes me cuz he telling me the truth and being really honest. Soo, what do I do..cuz my heart is telling me to trust him but not get to attached.