I don't get it, every guy I sleep with tells me they can't get hard. Am I doing something wrong? I enjoy sex too much I can't but feel unsatisfied, Someone help me. What is it I'm doing wrong? How come every guy I sleep with seems to have a problem getting hard? Help!
I recently was at a friends house who is married with 3 kids. He is 35 years old and has a wife who i think highly of but the bottom line is that he has been my friend since 2nd grade. When we were younger he was the kind of guy who would have sex with many girls and was not very particular. I remember him having sex with underage girls numerous times but when you are 18-19 you do not put a lot of thought into it and all of these girls wanted it and was seemed older then there ages. The ones that pop into my head were around 13 when he was 17 and 15 when he was 18 but although a big age difference these girls were actually his girl friends and he expressed love for them. Fast forward to the present and he is 35 and I was at his place and asked to use his computer in his office in his house. He gave me a key to get in and on the screen I notice he has forget to sign out of his instant messager page. I being nosy did something bad and started reading through it and noticed some very steamy pages. In the pages there was much sexual discusion and at first thought it was someone he may not even no but came to realize it was a girl named lauren who baby sits for them. I went so far as to confirm this on the instant messanger by pretending I was him then telling her I had to go quickly. The part I discovered was very bothering to me. The sexual discusion was between him and lauren and she is 14 years old. After a few days of stewing on this I confronted him and he he is graphic detail not only admits it but laughs about it and tells me in graphic detail what they been doing. His reasoning being that when he was a teen that he had sex with girls that age so as long as she is into it then whats the big deal all the while reminding me that when i was 16 i was having sex with my 14 yr old girl friend. Anyway, this girl is very attractive for her age and comes across as a very sweet young lady and was shocked when my friend since 2nd grade described her sexual appitite and her love of not only straigh but oral and anal sex. I eventually told him I did not believe him and told him he should be saying such crap or he could get in a lot of trouble, however, the thought of getting in trouble apparently did not bother him as he was more interested in convincing me it was true to which I replied oh right your so full of crap why would a 35 yr old guy wanna convince me that it was true and he replied that hey your my best friend if I cannot trust you who can I trust. I was like ok whatever and dcided to not believe it but the messanger transcripts I read bothered me. Well it did not take long for that to be topped as I went to his office to drink a beer as he locked the door and we was gonna BS as usuall and watch a dirty movie but after a few minuted I guess my eyes popped out and he began to laugh when I realized I was watchin lauren on her knees performing oral sex on him while he gave her direction. I couldnt believe it. Now I am in a pretty touchy situation. Obviously , this girl was enjoying what she was doing as she was talkin dirty back to him and laughing and smiling and without getting to graphic she was beggin for him to do her after she finished him off. I no the bottom line is what he is doing is illegal but he is my best friend since we was8 years old.If I new what was going on and he did not no I would just not say a word but I am worried I could somehow get in trouble also for just knowing and not saying anything.Best friends for 27 years . The girl likes it I mean how can I tell on him. I dont no what to do about this its driving me crazy I cant sleep and I cant get it off my mind. Any Ideals ??
Hi, Im a 26 yr old male from Ireland & I believe that I am addicted to pornography. I have probably been looking at porn for about 5-6 years, but quite infrequently. Basically when we got the internet at home my curiousity for porn began. I now live away from home, and have a wireless broadband connection, which I believe has/and is making my situation worse. I only look at porn when Im totally alone, which can sometimes be up to twice a week, or even as little as twice a month. I am fighting it lately though... I do try to limit my internet use, and this does help (by keeping myself occupied with something else), but I am in college part time, so my laptop & the net are very important for that. I guess the reason I am posting this is because my addiction has moved on to looking at shemale/transexuals regularly in the last 2 years. I do not believe myself to be gay, & the 1st piece of shemale porn I saw did digust me, but I think it has to do with a desensitization effect that all the porn has had on me, & maybe the fact that the fear of getting caught is greater because of the reaction my parents/friends would have. Regular male/female porn doesnt arouse me as much as it once did, but when I see a beautiful girls in my city, I am sexually attracted to them. The bottom line is that, because its shemale porn that I look at, I havent talked to anybody about it, and when it was straight porn I used to look at, I honestly didnt think I had a problem. All my friends did it so it was normal to me. I believe that its also affecting my personal life, & the possibility of a relationship someday. I have had girlfriends, & when I apply myself I can actually interact & meet nice women. But my respect for women has definately lessened since looking at so much porn. Dont get me wrong, I do respect/ and have respected women in the past & present, but its the 1 night stands that brings the lack of respect. I suppose that means that I dont respect myself either... Deep down, I do long for the happy life with a wife & 1 day hopefully children. Im sorry about such a long post but it has been bottled up for quite some time. Any opinions or advice would be greatly appreciated. Regards, Irishman on a downward slide...
I guess this is more of a curious thing for me then actually asking for advise.When i was 15 i become very serious with a 19 yr old guy. I am a girl by the way. Anyway, because I was afraid to get pregnant and did not trust a condom or the pill I went from performing oral sex on my boy friend to allowing him to have anal sex with me. At first this type of sex was not comfortable and I only did it for him but after awhile I learned to relax and really enjoy it. I am very vocal during sex and will instruct my partner on what to do and how I like it. Yes I no anal may not be healthy and I should take precautions bla bla bla I am not looking for that type of advise I just want to her an answer to a question that will help my curiousity. Do other girls actually like anal sex. I like it better that straight sex and although I am 20 now and no longer a virgin I prefer anal sex . I cannot do it like this every day because I get sore but I cum harder and like it better. Are there any girls out there who feel this way or do U guys have girls who really enjoy it this way . Just let me no I am thinking I am a bit of a freak haha. Seriously I am very curious. Thanks, AMY S.
Im a 17 year old in high school and i have yet to have a girlfriend because i am shy and very nervous to ask the girl i like out.
One of the things i would like to know is do girls really think that size matters or not.
If so, i have got about a 6 inch erection, is that the norm or smaller.
Please comment : i am desperate for help
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and the half. well, we went out for a couple of months and broke up because we argued too much. He and I got back together because we still loved each other. Three days ago we had sex with each other for the first time in our lives. We both felt we were ready. When he and I had sex he didn't go off inside me, and I could only feel him in me when we had sex really fast, which I liked. He said he could barely feel anything either, but only when we went slowly. What does that mean? Some one told me that we couldn't feel anything because my vagina is either to big or his penis is too small. I haven't seen many penises so I don't know what a small penis looks like, but I'm sure his isn't small. I'm scared my vagina is too big, but how can that when my first time ever having sex was with him. I don't understand. Can some one help me? why can't he feel much when we have sex? And how come he didn't go off at all? When a guy doesn't go off when he has sex for the first time, does it mean he's still a virgin? sooooo many questions. HELP!
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