Well....I don't think I am a slut...but when a guy comes around and talks sweet and nice to me...and if he wants to have sex...boyfriend or no boyfriend I'd sleep with them. I have very low self asteem...am I a slut???
To start of i am 15 years old and i know im gay. I feel trapped because i want to come out of the closet , but i am terrified of my parents reaction and family, plus freinds. In school some people suspect that im gay , but i have never told anyone yet. My best freind is totally streight and he says he dislikes gay people. My freinds at school probably think im gay, but my parents and family probably dont. I feel like i want to be gay and act like myself , but i am so scarred of what my family and freinds would do. Is no easy just to come out of the closet. I dont feel ready, but I want to be ready. So can someone help me "come out" please give me your advise.
Hi, I'm 18, I'm a girl. I am asking for advice because I am in the most crap situation I could think of. The short of it is, my mum was sleeping with my boyfriend. As f*ed up as that sounds, it's worse. He was a decent friend of mine for years and about 6 months ago, I realised I quite fancied him. I invited him round to mine quite a few times, and somehow he and my mum started their affair. After 6 or 7 weeks of trying to get him to ask me out and nothing happening, I gave up. Then he asked me out, while he was STILL FU*ING MY MUM.
About a month ago me and my dad found out, and of course I split up with my boyfriend, and my dad is divorcing my mum. Only problem is, I don't know how I feel about my mum. My parents marriage had issues, and yes I am angry at my mum for cheating on my dad, but I want to eventually be able to forgive her.
My mum's side of the story is that she started sleeping with my boyfriend, when me and him were just friends. Then he asked me out, and she had no idea we were a couple, as I did take a couple of weeks to tell my parents. When she found out, she said she was going to break up with him, but if she did that he was going to tell me what happened and essentially blackmailed her.
My exboyfriends side of the story is, that he was at first interested in me, then he started seeing my mum. When I was losing interest in him and started asking him around less, my mum was worried about my dad getting suspicious and he says he was coerced into asking me out, so that he'd have an excuse to see my mum more.
I don't really know what to believe, it all sounds so unbelievable and I'm not sure what to do. What's worse is my brother I think blames me somewhat for the situation. Aside from my immediate family and my ex-boyfriend, no one else knows about all this, because I think it's too messed up to tell anyone. please, if you have any advice. thanks.
From dating a pothead
to a romantic turned total liar fakeass jerk
to dating my current b/f, i keep getting better and better in my choices... so now my standards are at a high new record level... and my luck is that my b/f is leaving for college. Its a drive of about 10 hours... we're just teens... so we agree its not going to b easy so we plan to break up when he leaves and b friends.
Deep down i wish there was a way to stay together... but its not fair to either of us... and one of us will only get hurt or we'll both b stressed and i dont want to end up fighting.
I'm just bummed cuz honestly i nvr could see us arguing to the pt of hating each other... and he actually respects me and asks me upfront if he senses im uncomfortable... and he's a gentleman [who knew they still existed?!?]... and not to mention he's nice on the eyes haha...
I remember the reason why i decided to date him...
at prom his school played a lot of country and i like it but idk that much so he'd ask me if i knew certain songs and the first time he ended up singing one of the songs to me in my ear as we slow danced... and then i knew that i was won over. it was perfect to me [he's a decent singer too].
i just need advice on how to get over it when we end up apart w/o growing too far apart...cuz i really really would like to date him again someday as long as we can still b on the same page and what not.
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To start of i am 15 years old and i know im gay. I feel trapped because i want to come out of the closet , but i am terrified of my parents reaction and family, plus freinds. In school some people suspect that im gay , but i have never told anyone yet. My best freind is totally streight and he says he dislikes gay people. My freinds at school probably think im gay, but my parents and family probably dont. I feel like i want to be gay and act like myself , but i am so scarred of what my family and freinds would do. Is no easy just to come out of the closet. I dont feel ready, but I want to be ready. So can someone help me "come out" please give me your advise.
My best friend who is a guy is wanting to come visit me this week! We havent seen each other in over a month! I want him to come but then again i don't because im affraid he might hit on me! He has told me he wants to be with me more than once! I don't see him in that way but can't tell him that...i have told him i loved him too just because at the moment i kinda felt that way but idk...i dont believe in love, i just believe that you can feel anyway if in the right moment...i dont know what i should do...should i just ignore him and not talk to him anymore? tell him how i really feel? Dont think i could do that...he would never talk to me and be so mad! Let him come spend the weekend with me and just play it off and come up with excusses on why we cant do this or that...what should i do
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