You know, I just wonder about something, i'm a guy and i'm suposed to be hormone driven and things like that, and suposed to be able to go out have one-night stands and be ok with it...well i tried it recentley...and i just felt like crap, so empty. I guess my thing is i'm looking for something more, i don't know if it's just me or does lust without any connection leave anyone else empty?
Ok, first off I'm going to say I am not gay to get that out of our way. When i was 14 i tried wearing some of my moms clothes while everyone was out. I loved wearing them. I sometimes do it still. The more I do it, the more i wish I was a girl myself. I just wish I had breast, beautiful body, long hair, hairless legs, and a vigina. I just wish I could feel what women feel. I want to walk out doors in womens clothing without getting a string look. I just wish I was boon a woman. The thing is im attracted to women, and the thought of being with a guy sick'ns me. I just want to be able to have a hole inplace of my penis. I hate having erections, they get in the way, and its even worse if i have one in public and I have to hide it. I just wish I could become a women overnight.
I am a 24 year old female with the username phunk and I want to say ...
If A Man Wants You
> > If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> > Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> > Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
> > Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
> > what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
> > A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he
> > is stringing you along, then he probably is.
> > Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
> > yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
> > The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> > Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
> > women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
> > Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> > Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
> > you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
> > later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
> > Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even
> > if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
> > quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
> > If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> > A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> > All men are NOT dogs. (Amen to that!!)
> > You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
way street.
> You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
> > about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
> > relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
> > a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
> > complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he
> > doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
> >
> >
> > Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
> > are, and you're always readily available to him ... he takes it for granted
> Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Hallelujah,
thank you JESUS!!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
> > Share this with other ladies ... You'll make someone smile,
> > another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
> > to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them...
> >
See i have this huge problem...my very close guy freind has told me that he has Memory lapses like every year. and sometimes he even forgets who is own mother is when he has one...and that is way we arent going out is becasue he doesnt want me to go throw the pain if he does have one and he doesnt remimber me...and here is what i am thinking, i am already going to have my heart ripped out if me if he doesnt remimber me. i just dont know what i should do or say to him. Please help me..
People care too much about what other people think about them. Why have we grown into a world like this? Why is it so hard to just live your life and not have to worry about what people are going to say or think... WHO CARES ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! Live your own life don't live somebody elses for them!
I am a 17 year old female with the username Crzy_FROG and I want to say ...
.Recently, I was on myspace and i found a quiz on one of my friend's profiles. It lead me to this site...so I registered and starting browsing the site. I came to the confessions page and read several confessions and comments people made about them.It feels like the more confessions i read the more i feel angry about peoples dicisions in life, and surpirisingly it has helped me to be more knowledgable about relationships and getting married.(I'm 15 just thought i would let you all know) I have been in about only three relationships and thankfully still a virgin. anyway thats not the point. My point is DON'T GET MARRIED UNLESS YOU KNOW YOU ABSOULUTLY LOVE THEM AND WILL NEVER CHEAT ON THEM, GT TIRED OF THEM, ETC... I read someones confession about how they are married and they had a child ,but they truely loved someone else who was also married and had two kids. This is just so wrong! It makes me so mad, i mean, if they were to get together or someone found out about their "secret love" it would ruin so many lives. She shouldn't have gotten married if she didnt love him with ALL her heart! This may sound contradictive but, its not all her fault near the end of her life ruining confession. She wrote that she wanted her husband to love her more and want her not just care fo her kids..he should , but the lack of her husbands love does not make it okay that she loves someone else. The whole situation makes me sick and angry but its not my life.. its hers I just never want to get in a situation like that myself. Your probably bored now so i'll just say my bit of advice and stop typing....THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT ETTING MARRIED OR GETTING INTO A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP!!! Make sure you and this person love each other and have NEVER cheated on each other.. and you are also best friends. :)...THE END..lol..
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