Please someone tell me what I should do, whwen I've liked this guy for so long, but he keeps giving me mixed signals.He's moved away from my hometown and I can't really get a feel of whether he likes me or not..
Ok, so I am not as grown up as I thought I was. I have been in love with my best friend for 9 years. We have both been in relationships I've been married. He is seriously dating someone. But i can't get him out of my head. We hang out together all the time, i love him so much it hurts. I have told him and he says that he loves me to but only when he is horney and wants a bj or something. what should i do?
Here's my story:
There's this guy that goes to my school that I really like. I used to catch him checking me out and I used to check him out too. One day he was in the class across my class and I decided I didn't feel like going to Math anyway and a little break wouldn't kill. So I went in there and at first it seemed like he didn't like me, but then he and I started talking and he told me he liked me. I found him on myspace and I sent him a message saying hi and he sent me a message and he gave me his number and we started talking on the phone. Well he and I would hang out after school and one day he kissed me... like really kissed me and he told me to call him when I got home, but I fell asleep and I didn't call him. The next day he was mad at me cause I didn't call I tried to explain but he wouldn't listen. He and I stopped talking and I still really like him. sometime I see him looking at me and I look at him, but I don't know how to tell him I still have feeling for him because he might no like me back and I don't wanna embarass myself, what do I do?...Should I call him. talk to him.HELP!
Everyone, relax. Yes, the world is going to hell, and yes, we are all going with it. But we're all in this together. Chill. If you have to smoke a joint to be happy, if you have to drink, if you have to go bang a different goddamn girl every night because some chick fucked you over, if the love of your life dies tomorrow- relax. Unwind. We're in a burning house, but goddamn if that isn't the most beautiful sunset I've ever seen.
I am a 24 year old female with the username phunk and I want to say ...
If A Man Wants You
> > If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> > Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> > Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
> > Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
> > what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
> > A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he
> > is stringing you along, then he probably is.
> > Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
> > yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
> > The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> > Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
> > women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
> > Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> > Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
> > you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
> > later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
> > Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even
> > if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
> > quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
> > If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> > A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> > All men are NOT dogs. (Amen to that!!)
> > You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
way street.
> You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
> > about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
> > relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
> > a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
> > complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he
> > doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
> >
> >
> > Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
> > are, and you're always readily available to him ... he takes it for granted
> Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Hallelujah,
thank you JESUS!!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
> > Share this with other ladies ... You'll make someone smile,
> > another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
> > to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them...
> >
Sometimes I can be such a tramp. I love to have sex. While on vacation with my boyfriend, we had sex in our hotel room all afternoon. He fell asleep and I went to the bar to get some ice. I met a guy there and we started talking. I went to his room and let him do me twice, once anally. My bf never knew.
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