I have been seeing a girl on the side who lets just say has a boy friend. We do not have full sex but she is always willing to give me oral sex. I have called her and had her meet me in say a parking lot to talk and of course thats not what I wanted but thats what I say I wanted . She will come meet me most of the time but several times she has said she has to get back before she is missed. I will then ask her if before she goes if she can you no get me off and she almost always goes down right away.I no I have a good thing going here and put virtually little or no effort into it but I guess I just would like opinions on what the hell she gets out of it . I no many of you will say just enjoy it and of course I will but I just cant figure out what she gets out of it. Any Ideals ?
I'm in a couple strange relationships now. I have my BF who is wonderful, he has a job, looks nice in jeans, does stuff around the house for me. He's a man I could have a child with if I was the type to have a child. I don't think I'm worthy of such a man, he's a nice white man with a future. I'm just the black girl cheating on him.
The thing is, I have another man. We never talk. There is no relationship other than I met him at a bar one night when my boyfriend was out with his boys. This guy was creepy picked up my cell got my number and then started texting me stuff all night long. He was a businessman or some sort, and me I don't get many businessmen in my neck o da woods. I thought he was a stuck up white dude looking down on a brickhouse nubian.
After that night he kept texting me. Ridiculous sexual type things. Nasty things. And I was repulsed the first dozen or so times. But then it became a turn on. Sometimes now I put my phone on vibrate and just hearing that vibration makes me wet. No one talks to me like that.
So we set up to meet in person. I knew it was wrong but there was such a turn on from this random ridiculous man who was a complete pervert. Now I see him a couple times a week. I go to his law office after hours. He be the only one in the office working late night. I guess hardly working.
We don't say anything. When he saw me the first time, he walked over, closed the door then put his hands on my lower back and just touched me and I knew I was in for whatever he was planning, boyfriend be damed. I tried to give him oral but he pushed me away. That just made me want it more.
Since then we only have anal sex maybe once or twice a week. I don't even have anal sex with my bf I was saving my butthole for marriage. This man will never be my husband but he took my anal virginity. I feel so bad and I don't even like it. But the fact that he uses no words is such a turn on to me. Its like he's a crazy sexed up robot. There's no BS, no arguing, nothing. I don't even know if he enjoys it. He may be a mute, I don't know. I only have sex with him.
So the other night, I show up at his place. And there is a woman there. Its his wife I'm thinking, I think I have to run. I start to leave, she walks out past me in the parking lot and says, "don't leave honey you haven't got what you want yet." I was surprised and didn't say anything. She said, "what you didn't think I knew, I don't let him **** me in the *** so as a compromise I allow him to **** another woman in the ***, its no big deal. I'm not jealous. He'd never date a black girl."
I was so pissed off that night that I pushed his thing out of my butt and had vaginal sex with him that night just to spite that woman. I can't believe she was ok with her husband having sex with me. She was just openly allowing him to cheat! Then I thought, damn, um, I was cheating to and no openly.
I think I have to stop. But I have no words for this lawyer man. I'm afraid to not show up. He seems crazy. How do I break off my love affair with a man who has no words? I have tried to talk to him, he says nothing. I think thats his thing to get off, no words or whatever. But anytime I see him, he's in no words mode. And worst of all now I'm really only getting off thinking about this crazy man and anal sex. The sex with my BF has gone downhill and he's frustrated with me. I don't know what to do.
hi i am 17 yrs old i will be turning 18 in nov. 13 but i have this little problem with my self!! the way i look or what not you get it i hope but i am always making plans with my friends to go party or something but i never go....i scared that some ppl are going to make fun of me or call me fat or something im really not fat im mean i only way 160 thats not bad is it?? but i feel that when ppl look at me they talk **** i dont even think my own friends like me!! whats wrong with me!! i havent had a boyfriend for like 1 1/2 yrs almost 2 yrs im so depressed and fusterated....i need some good advise what do you think i should do plz if you know what i am going through plz comment me
I am a 23 year old girl.I am married to the love of my life.I am 3 months pregnant with the our first child.Problem is,lately he never wants to have sex.I know he is not cheating on me,we are together all day,and he's just not like that.Because of my hormones I am horny all day.All I think about is sex.So I jump on him because I want it so bad and he tells me he's not in the mood.Or we'll start and he'll go limp.I don't understand.Our sex life has always been great.Now I use my vibrator 3 or more times a day.(Its safe while your pregnant,I already talked to my doctor about it).I feel like a highschool boy.I'm at work sitting at my desk and I think about sex,I think about it while I'm inin the shower,while I'm eating,its always on my mind.He's says he's going to go to the doctor to see whats up but he is embarrassed.
So my mouth has basically been shut lately to the world. I didn't want to admit everything so I thought I could take it online. Well I was dating this asian guy from 9 months. We bickered a lot towards the ending of this relationship and we just didn't seem the same like we used to be. I felt like I lost a part of me but at times I felt like I lost the person that controlled me. It's a relief but yet I still cry myself to sleep. I'm trying to move on but sometimes I lay in my bed thinking of our conversations but now it's all gone. We stopped talking completely and now he assumes that I'm back talking him and he is calling me a slut and ****, which I'm not. Okay well I am going to stop blabbering because it seems so childish this discussion... like highschool drama and I graduated highschool already. Please someone help me.
Well Im inlove with this guy but he is inlove with this girl. This girl Is too stupid to figure out how bad this guy is falling for her. To make it less confusing i'll give fake names Caden I am inlove with Caden is inlove with Catessa. Yatta Yatta you get it. Shes dating this loser ...Hank...and yea But see im inlove with Caden and he still has little feelings for me because we used to have gone out. But every time i try to get close i seem to get hurt more and This girl *im bi* Trip used to be inlove with me soo much but she gave up because i was hurting her like Caden is hurting me. Now my best friend in the whole world well one of them likes me alot like hes totally head over heals for me and hes like the perfect guy hes sweet caring gentalmen but im just not attracted to him hes just not my type hes like this jock kid and im like this Gothic girl well not gothic but i love hot topic! but yea uhh besides the point... Trip got over me and has moved on she still loves me but she knows im inlove with corey and theres no chance for her. Should i be like Tripp and just forget about Caden and try to move on? *even though i tried b4 and failed horribly* HELP!
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