You are no horrible person, just acted naive. Men are like dogs, but, if he loves you, it is ok to make up....but...you have to make sure...that is why you got to go out.....w no sex.... to verify if he likes you or else is he after a quick sex.
You were naive, he was smart (in a bad way) and his wife was very stupid, marrying a guy that was cheating on her ever since.

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just posting...yah, so, you are probably smart / but dont worry cause it wasnt your fault

ID:DE0038

Don't feel bad about something someone else put's you in. YOU DIDN"T KNOW but HE DID. You can't help who your heart goes out to. Just be glad you didn't marry him and have to deal with his doggish ways. Be HAPPY!!!!

ID:A16005

i think maybe you should tell her. she deserves to know what shes married to she deserves to know what kind of ******* shes giving her heart too...you should feel bad for her and if you do decide to tell her and she doesnt believe you then thats not your fault its hers...but you shouldnt feel guitly because you didnt do anything wrong he fucked up not you. but if i was you id tell her...i know if my husband did that to me id want to know about it

ID:3BBDF8

Look, you said you feel like a horrible person, for what? you didnt hurt anyone, it wasnt you that lied and you that had a g/f or b/f to lie to. Your hands are clean here. Guys do this stuff all the time.. i know im one of them. Unless you find a guy that has a conscience, then you'll keep getting used until you stand up for yourself. Start by sending that "wife" of his a message about what happened and just let her know you are only doing it cuz you found out, got mad and dont want her to end up being cheated on again now that they are married. then move on and stand up for yourself and take charge of what happens to you.

ID:925D41

It's not your fault. I wouldn't worry about it. It's just a cheating guy that wasn't thinking and who doesn't care about his girlfriend that he was supposed to be in love with...don't worry about it.

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