well, if someone is your "soul mate" then for goodness sake stay with them. But otherwise, keep them both and see how long you can juggle them. <^>

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If you are willing to juggle both of them, then you have to be willing to lose both of them. And thats the truth plain in simple. History is riddled with people who tried to juggle both relationships and failed miserably and ended up alone. That doesn't stop anyone though, we all assume we are different, that we are somehow more able.

My only experience was when I was dating two different girls in college and both of those girls had the "serious" talk with me on the exact same day. So for a single day I had two serious GFs and by the second day, they found out about each other and things feel apart right quick.

And if there's two, one of them isn't your soul mate. To use a common sports analogy, Its kind of like QBs, if you have two QBs who you play you actually have no QBs.

And I will say this, its interesting the double standard we see in society when men juggle two women v. women juggling two men. Obviously one is more acceptable than the other.

I wish you luck. Don't hedge your bets. Love doesn't happen for people who hedge their bets. If there is anything worth taking a chance on and having faith in this life of ours, its love. Pick one and love him. If it doesn't work, pick another.

ID:56E156

i am confuse i dated a girl 4r about 3 or 4 years and we have been on and off but then i think she cheated on me or lie cz once a while she breaks up with me and i dont kw the reason i try to ask but she says i dont love u anymore when i kw she does cz for exzmple she was with me a week ago then next week she i hated u i dont love u anymore and all the bullshit so now i am datting these girl but i am still inloved with my ex i try to forget her but is useless cz these new girl is different of wat i am use to thes egirl is to immature compare to my ex and she was a virgin she lost it with me but i dont love her i just like her as a friend wat to do?????????????????????

ID:981298

Why can you not have both of them. What law prohibits you from having both. I have been into swinging for most of my life and enjoy it above regular dating. Some times I go to bed with two girls I am dating at the same time. Sometimes I hook up with another guy and his wife. I am not bi but do enjoy pleasing a women for her total satisfaction. Sometime it take two men to completely please one women. Most guys are to insecure for this type of adventure. There are club around the world that cater to people like us. Relationship is not ownership.

ID:C5A3E5

Remember, what goes around comes around. Your confused and it would be selfish on your part to juggle both. Take a break from them both, spend sometyme by yourself to figure yourself out. Figure out what you want in life and which one of these guys can give you that. Don't settle for the one you can live with, but the one you can't live without. Weigh the pros and cons of both guyz. After careful consideration of both guys, decide. If your still undecided then, let both go and move on, becuz when you are IN love not Lust with somebody you love them ova all.

ID:46E6B7

Listen if you love those men even a bit your'll stop juggling them and just pick one. If your boyfriend is your soulmate then get rid of the other guy so he can find his. If you don't it will come back and bite you in the *** hard.

ID:2B830A

gurl u cannot be with both of them guys if you love him so much you would be faithful to him and let him know what is going on.

ID:C9D8D4

Well, if you keep it up, one will eventually find out about the other. Take a hard look at who is more important to you, and just go with that one. Easier said than done I know, but it needs to be done. Or you will lose both and have niether. You wouldn't want one of them to do the same to you, so be respectful and do the right thing.

ID:FF9D3B

girl...i'm in the same boat...i feel for ya and if you find a solution let me know!!!

ID:55F941

Look... If he was truly your "soul mate"...there would be not question who you would be with.

ID:B3253F

AA might be an great option for you.

ID:C5A3E5

u say u love youre ex but u want to stay with this other guy.....are you listening to yourself when you say this stuff you have to have a heart to love one person and keep by it and you dont.youre definition of love is so farfetched you dont even realize it but sooner or later you will because its one thing to cheat once on youre ex,and mend things, but to sit there and say u f***ing love with all youre heart and dont want to lose him or the other man!??....listen and listen with an extreme amount of attentive behavior......save yourself and ask yourself when youre 60-something pushing 70 whos gonna love you the same and be there for you..the guy who loves you enough to ask for a second chance or the guy who was there just because you were availible at the time...think about it

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