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O.k I know other have really issues they need to address.. maybe I'm just crazy.. but there are somthings I need to get off my chest, and I need maybe a little 3rd party advice. Where to start.Well am I 26 yr old single women no children I have been a productive member of society all my life ( worked since I was 14yrs old. I have been on my own since I was 18yrs old. Due to alot of drama in my family I will not really get inot at intro.
Recently ( year ago) I left a bad relationship the guy was abusive .. on the day he was to move out of our home he had two of his friends come and attack me as he called me out of my house to obtain the keys to the home. Needless to say I had no family in area and I live in a big town and took public transportaion and with all of that ..and his threats my parents came from anothor town and informed me they thought it best i move away.. because of the danger i was really in. Long story short i listen to them. They dropped me off in a town with some realtives i barely knew and i had to start my life over. And try I did, I enrolled in school obtained a job actual finshed school too. By they way had already finshed high school some collage and was making already about 3o a yr at job I left. Things just didn't go well there it was a small town not alot of chance for advancement at hospital were I worked and pay was horriably my aunt i as staying with had gotten a boyfriend and no longer wanted me to stay with her. So i packed up again and moved back to town where i had came from but far on other side.. with my parent who had moved back to that area as well.Since the move i have applied honestly to over 160 jobs with no job offers. Before I left I worked for a great company had worked my way to the top ..and now i can't even get a job. i can't go back to my old job becuse they consider what i did Walk off from the job even though i have the police reports proving the abuse.Since i moved in with my parent .. I can't even lie. it been hell they read my mail go into my email answer phone calls pretending to be me..and i know this sounds crazy..but sad part is i'm really not lieing. Of course they have there excuse oh i didn't see you name on mail. oh ?I thought that call was about a job so i just wanted to set up appt if necc. oh i just wanted to check your email to make sure know one had contacted u. of course I have started to become a little upset because they treat me as if i am a child and don't seem to understand what a violation there actions are. When i address them I am told i am over reacting and they are only doing what they do out of concern. To be honest guys ..I just stopped fighting them on it.THEN TODAY HAPPENED. someone broke my computer the only thing i have left when I left the abusive realtionship. My mother looked me dead in the eye and was like it's not a big deal.. it is really broken! I am like yes it is and she just dismmissed me as if i wasn't there. I know u must respect ur parents and all of that stuff but they are really making me feel like i was better of getting my *** kicked by guy I was with. At least i could hollar and scream back and least i had bruise on my body that said -hey he is doing something wrong. And most of all at least I had a job were i could at least know i had a paycheck every week. i am in tears now as i write this because i truely feel like they are my family so why are they doing this and how can they disregard my feelings as if am not a person. With that guy i had a home and a job and i atleast looked normal even if there was hell inside my home. Now someone else sorta takes care of me and now I don't have even respect ..is that wrong i want to know to have someone respect u even if they are your parents. P.s we all know who broke the computer.. and know one won't even offer to pay to get it fixed and honestly that was they ONLY thing i had left during this whole mess. And again its not the fact that soemone broke it.. they won't even acknowledge the fact that yea that was wrong and I'll get it fixed. I know being with who I was with was wrong i should never let someone beat me..but it like you have hell on one side water on other and damn i can't swim.. trying to be independent find a job..but no job.. what do i do other than pray which I do everyday..but no answer.
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Tell what job skills and experience you have. Heck you might get lucky and somebody here could get you a job!!
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