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"My boyfriend of almost 5 years admitted that he had sex with a prostitute when we had went on a break. I keep picturing him with her and it kills me. He's been throwing girls he's cheated on me with before in my face when we argue. It hurts to know that he feels like those girls were better than me. I dont know what to do we have a a child together and I feel so used and abused.
He manipulates me and confuses me because after he tells me how disgusting my body is and how loose my ***** is, he hugs me and tells me he loves me. '
He tells me I need counseling and Im crazy. Then he shushes me and hugs me and won't let me talk. I feel like I was normal and now I don't know who I am anymore. I do love him. I don't trust him though and I feel like he is trying to back me into a corner.
He even told me the other day that he knows how I am and just to pull the trigger. He would raise our daughter better if I wasnt around.
I think he wants me to kill myself and he is trying to convince me to do so.
I am so lost and confused and if the only person I have ever loved wants me dead maybe I should start to contemplate it.
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I was in the same relationship as you. My son is 2 1/2 and his father was the same way. I eventually left him but I was with him off and on for 6 years. I wish I could have that time back and that I didn't let him ruin my life. He became abusive emotionally and sometimes physically. please get out before you get hurt
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I was in the same situation as you other than the prostitute and a child. The guy I was living with was the same exact way. One day I was too fat and the next day I was sickly skinny. Same as you, he THOUGHT I had the problem. Very physically, emotionally and verbally abusive. You need to leave. Plain and I know, not so simple. It would be better for your child too. If you stay there and your child witnesses more of that abuse he/she will have a model of how a relationship is. Either they will become the victim in the corner or the abuser when they should be neither. When my ex left I thought everything was over, the world etc. It's 3 years later and I couldn't be happier.
Please get out for you and your child's sake. Don't become the statistic of women who live this way forever.
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omg! leave him! go stay with your family or ANYTHING! he is def. trying to back u into a corner~ they say those things so YOU will feel bad about yourself and YOU wont think anyone wants u! then you will never leave him because you feel like you would be alone! honey, your beautiful! your p***y is not loose, and if u wanna be sure its not, do kegels! u stand up strait,with your shoulders back, bc that shows your confident! nothing is sexier than a confidant woman!! its him, not you. he is so insecure that he has to make u feel bad to make himself feel better! he does not love you, but he does not want anyone else to have u. he is not a good man and u know what? mr. right is out there! he will love and cherish the very ground u walk on! he will buy u flowers and when he says "i love u" u will know it deep in your heart! be strong girl and remember: u have a little girl, u have to show her how to be strong so she doesnt find someone like him.
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First and foremost, you are a mother. Your number one priority should be raising your daughter in a safe,secure and stable environment. You are teaching and molding your daughter into becoming the woman she will be, would you want her to think it's okay to be treated this way? or to treat someone else like that? How can she grow to be strong and independent if you are not that kind of example? Think about your little girl, and what you want for her in her life, and get out while you still can. If you can't look in the mirror and find the strength, look into her eyes and you will find it. You both deserve better, and only you can take the step to living a healthier and happier life, for the both of you. Don't allow any man to determine your own self worth. You have created life in having your daughter, now live it to the fullest for/with her, and WITHOUT someone so abusive/negative to impact it. Be strong and do what's right for the both of you.
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