Good advice man. I'll start using it. I'm that nice guy that gets nothing. **** that.<^>

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It is human nature. Women say one thing to be politically correct. But women desire something else. You know, bad guys want bad easy girls, Good guys want nice girls, but bad girls and Nice girls BOTH want bad guys. So the gitls, regardless of their condition , go after the bad guys, while the bad guys are into easy girls, they can not believe their luck when all this nice girls come after tham. They are bad idiots, so they can not act nice, but nice girls as well as bad girls stick to them.
Later in life, when the best years of their lives are gone, this women start looking for the nice guys, but then it is time for revenge, because the nice guys go after younger girls, so, in the end, the girls get screwed. It takes time tough. IN prime time, from 18 to 35, women go after the idiots.

women, if you ask, will say it is not true, but, actions speak louder than words. I also endorsed the ******* theory. I read a couple books, and it is true. Act conceited, give her no importance, treat her like a whore, do not call her.....because if you call her, she gets "annoyed", so, no calling.....presents???? no...zero...nada...and you will have them after you....beggin for a present, beggin for a call....callin you.......
perhaps that is the genetic role....man being inconsiderate...and females being left behind and used when needed.

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Well I would like to say that I have dated the *******(I was married to him for 4 1/2 yrs), He started out as the Nice Guy and and ended up as the *******. Also I have dated the pevert, which I couldnt stand nothing drives me away more. I am looking for that Nice Guy. But what girl wants is man that can stand on his own two feet, doesnt get walked all over and doesnt need to be with his girl 24/7. So if you can find a happy medium between nice guy and ******* you have found the perfect man! All I kept finding are the assholes, or they are too nice! Cant a gilr just find a great guy???????

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i hear this, and think this more often than i would like. the irony of it though is this: if "assholes" werent successful (i.e. got dates, laid, etc.) there wouldnt be very many of them. unfortunately for the "nice guys" out there, who are in reality great guys simply mistaken for "nice guys" 90% of the time, we are SOL. i think the reason for this, is that, typically, a lot of the "nice guys" lack somewhat in the "interesting" area, what i mean is, they arent as interesting (otherwise known as dangerous) as the "assholes" and "perverts" seem to be. but, in response to the previous comment, believe me, there are enough great guys out there looking for great girls, and they are just as frustrated and turned off by this whole situation as you are, but since there are so damn many assholes out there, most of the time, the great guys settle. and as for the few of us single ones who arent willing to settle... well, were out here

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It's about dysfunction ... Healthy people do not engage in unhealthy relationships .. A healthy person recognizes 'abuse' as something unacceptable and doesn't stick around to see how bad it will get. You are attracted to what you are - or what your perception of yourself is. If you don't believe that you deserve to be treated well, you will feel uncomfortable in a relationship with someone who does treat you well. It's a catch-22, really. No one WANTS to be mistreated. However, depending upon the history, the person may not know how to function in any other type of environment. I personally believe people are clueless as to what they need most of the time. Being able to communicate what your NEEDS are (not desires) is the key. Perhaps we could all spend some time alone and get acquainted with ourSELVES before we start looking to another person. Our partners should compliment us ... not suppplement.

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This works both ways.....women can be assholes and men want us more, men can be assholes and women want them more.... explain this to me?????? Why does it seem to work out like this? I am really just looking for that good guy.

ID:BB2E7D

Basically people in gerenal need to be treated like **** so that they can appreciate the few good people left in this world. You all know the saying you dont know how good you had it to you lose it and end up with a real jerk.

ID:504257

This whole concept kind of makes me "Sick" I mean its retarded!
Maybe you should just be yourself...or if we have to talk about the stereiotypical crap most girls probably want a guy that is nice around other people...doesnt treat her bad.but..
Doesn't spoil her rotten,so it seems their love is nothing,but sometimes gives gifts, and hangs around with her sometimes,but not all the time.
Doesn't make fun of her, but is honest.
Doesn't just want her for sex, but is a freak in bed.
Someone who isn't an ******* or a nice guy because nice guys are too sensitive and act like girls, they want someone masculine but not an *******.
I know that sounds hard but its not, some people are typically like this. Just have some common SENSE!!! jeez...

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To the Above: That guy does not exsist!!! Grow up and then make a comment.

i honestly dont think they are.. only becuz ive been wit my boyfriend for 2 years and i dont think hes a *** hole at all.. yes ive been wit *** holes before but i know now that def werent the ones.. but now that im wit my boyfriend i know hes the one and thats why hes not a *** hole if u find the right one.. he isnt a *******.. just got to find the one whos right for you..

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it is a strong debated theory, however, the women that like "The *******" arent worth it.. not at all

its kinda sad to think about it huh ?

people are just stupid or sadists

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It is true, a woman wants a mant to be somewhat in control by nature. That doesn't mean she wants an *******. Women are just clouded by all the assholes out there that think they have to be an ******* to get the girl. They are so used to the assholes, that when they finally find the nice guy, even if it feels right, they run, because they are beating you to the punch.(So they think) With a genuinely nice guy that is good looking, smart, ambitious etc.. the girls is waiting for the other shoe to drop. The waiting and worrying causes such anxiety that she feels like she has to get out before she gets hurt. She feels like all guys are assholes anyway, but with the nice guy she is slowly getting more and more emotionally attatched and is more likely to be hurt when he shows his true colors. With the *******, its almost as if its safe, you know he's an ******* from the start so you don't get as emotionally attatched and you know what to expect. Have you ever been in a situation where the girl picks a fight with you when things seem to be going really well? That is her way of sabatoging the relationship before it sabatoges her! The bright side to that is that the good girls generally figure that out before they end up forever in the arms or under the foot of the *******. So there is still hope! Try being the nice guy again. The ******* will never find the RIGHT girl, only the RIGHT NOW girl!

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bs all of it me as a woman, men aren't like they used to be, you hear about these sweet guys that stick up for you when one of there friends says something about you, the guys that opens the door, and pulls out the chair for their girl. we don't want *** holes we want men that care. We want REAL men, not a boy that tries to show off for his friends. or sleeps with as many women as he can...

ID:D83D21

Sometimes women just want to feel needed and when they date a guy with a problem such as being an ******* they feel needed with a good guy whats there to help with....nothing.

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