i have to give u major propas that you strong enough to say that. you know how you feel, and you dont ignore that. i wish more of us could have your strength...

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Leave him and get him for child support. You honestly dont him.

ID:A4C052

sounds like your mind is already made up. you don't even live with this guy.. you might as well be divorced. let go now while your baby is young and you can just move on

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i think you should divorce him. i mean wheres the big loss wheres the big adjustment? its already just you and your little girl since he lives far away. your already alone in your marriage because you rarely talk to each other and when you do talk he disrespects you by verbally abusing you. think about your daughter if you stick this out and she gets older is this the kind of relationship you want her to see you in? is this the kind of life you want to expose her too? she may end up thinking that this is love and that she deserves to be verbally abused or worst yet physically. no matter how much weight youve gained or what youve done wrong you dont deserve that kind of treatment. i think the sooner you get out of this life the better itll be for both you and your daughter.

ID:3BBDF8

I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say...
I agree that it sounds like you know what you want, so go for it. It is a VERY VERY hard dision to make, and an even harder step to take, but you don't need to be in that kind of demeaning and detrimental situation. Your daughter doesn't need to be around it either. And you deffinately doen't need your daughter to be around that sort of atmisphere. The world is a hard place as it is, she, and you both need a good place to be, and that place would be with each other, and those who truely love and respect you. Keep up your chin, keep a smile, love your daughter, and grab for the stars. Good luck to you both.

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I believe I know why he seemed so disinterested in me while I was away. Im with him right now and living in his house. He looked at porn on the internet. I guess because he was horny. I admit, it was a big hit when I found out and im still upset although I try not to think about it and I would rather have him do that while im away, then cheat on me physically with another person while im not here but then again, I dont know if he has. I've also noticed how he treats our little princess. Not to well. He hits her, not too hard, when she's doing something wrong and I've told him not to do that to her. I've told his mom that he does that too and she said that its not right. He also tried to hit me once and missed and instead got my little girl, she cried a lot even though she was asleep when it happened. I don't know what to think of this. I feel like he treats me better when im with him and he does. He's good to our little girl too. I feel that if I leave him now I'll make a big mistake but also do something good for myself. He's also made a comment about my weight again. I really dont know. I think im in love with him. Im positive about that. We're celebrating our one year anniversary this weekend. Im really happy about that. I feel like a huge hypocrite now. I think I am......I just don't know.

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