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i found out that i was pregnant and i was scared outta my mind...the first thing i tought of doing was have an abortion and i did but now i regret it i wish i could hva a second chance but i looked at as if my life was going to end nomore fun and everything in between and i was being selfish or was i not?
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Anonymous Coward says ...
I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...
YES! You sould be resonsable for your actions, and if you are n
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Girl,
I salute you that you did not give in to the pressures to keeping your baby. I don't think you were selfish, I bet you took a good at your life and concluded that you weren't mature enough to have a child. What they show you on TV is that EVERYBODY keeps the baby and is SOOOOOO happy, but what they don't show you on TV, are the countless number of childeren that have very bad lives because their moms are way too young or immature. Ask yourself this question: What's more likely, that single mom families with a mother aged 14-22 years old are overwhelmingly happy, with below average crime rate, above average education, income, or, that these kinda families produce kids that are more than average high-school dropouts, criminal etc etc?
Believe me, it's the latter. Or don't believe me, go to the US census site, and check the figures for crime etc. It will show you that ever since abortion became available for poor, underpriviliged mothers, crime rates were dropping and are dropping still.
So, I don't think, I KNOW you weren't selfish. After all, it ain't rocket science: who can take better care for a baby, a single mom with no education or two people with 2 steady incomes?
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Anonymous Coward says ...
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[quote]YES! You sould be resonsable for your actions, and if you are n ... [/quote]
Oh wow, the anti-abortionist can't even spell! I wouldn't take his advice ...
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Anonymous Coward says ...
I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...
yes u were being selfish...u took a baby's 1 chance at coming into this world away from him/her...the least u could have done was had the baby and given them up for adoption so that a couple who isn't able to have a baby would have a beautiful gift that they long for...instead u just terminated it...no selfless human being would have taken away a life...
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Anonymous Coward says ...
I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...
I dont like the idea of abortions unless there is a present danger to the life of the mother or some other medical condition to inhibit it, but you made the decision there is no sence in brooding about the past, just think next time before u have sex, and if u concive again, think on what that tiny baby in u might do for the world. I am not religious, but i saw a comic about a priest asking GOD why he hadn't sent cures for world hunger AIDs (and alot of other world problems,) and he said "I did, you aborted them." At least let life choose wether to live or die. All luck.
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Anonymous Coward says ...
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I think that instead of killing your own child for your own irresponsible actions, the least you could have done was to put the baby up for adoption. That was something that was selfish and you did not give it enough thought. People lets stop being so self-centered and start thinking about others not just ourselves!!!! I had my little girl when I was just 16, but I got married so that made it easier and I am so happy with my family. My friend had her baby at the age of 17 and she is single and she is doing just fine. Now you will never get to know what would have happened with you and your child. Maybe you would of had some good times. I dont want to make you feel bad, I just want to tell you to think next time and dont make the same mistake again.
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Omg You selfish b***h you were worried about your life! What kind of life will the poor baby have !!!
Having a baby does'nt equal death, there was no reason why the "fun" would stop.
Jeeze how can you live with wha you've done
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OMG, what a bunch of zealous hypocrits here! They prolly think that carrying a baby for 9 months and then GIVING IT up for adoption is easy!!!! Especially if it is to some Creepy Christian rightwing nutter family!!! If my 14 yo daughter would be pregnant I would force her to have an abortion.
Girl, I'm becoming more and more convinced that you did the right thing. It's your body, and no matter what ANYBODY tell you, in the first trimester, it's not life. Keep in mind that 99 percent of these right wing anti-abortion nuts don't mind killing a lot of animals for their pleasure, don't mind polluting the rest of the world, but screaming when someone terminates something which never would be able to live on it's own. Unless they are willing to give you the 400.000 dollars necessary for you to raise YOUR baby YOURSELF they've got nothing to say. If they're not willing to do THAT don't let them guilt you into anything.
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i don't get why these creepy fake christians want to perform such an unchristian act of taking a baby from its mother? It's so unchristian of raising kids when they're not really wanted. These anti-abortionists CAN not be real Christians, they must be Republicans. I heard that joke too, but it was like the priest asked God why he allowed things like hurican Katrina exist and he said, because you didn't perform abortions on Republicans ...
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Anonymous Coward says ...
I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...
hoes if ya dont want to get pregnant , use a condom or dont open your legs , simple as that
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Anonymous Coward says ...
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it's funny how religion and stupidity go well together, only goes stupidity is out there and religion isnt..god didnt say ****, god hasnt done **** so stfu about god..only an idiot would bring up anti christianist on abortion, we all make mistakes, we've all regret mistakes due to stupidity, she was responsible for her ******* mistake because she put the abortion, you know how painful an abortion is? a baby is dead, how many babies die out there in the world? so stfu
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You did the right thing. If you HAVE to ask gods forgiveness, he'll give it to you that is what he does, as long as you ask. You made a mistake and got pregnant, but struggling for the rest of your life trying to raise a baby you should'nt have had is no way for you to live OR your baby. True there is a 1 in several billion chance that the child you terminated could have been some terrific extraordinary human being, but I think if you look at the statistics about children of single mothers chances are you made the right choice (and now YOU have a chance to dedicate yourself to that end). It could not have been an easy decision, but it was right. Don't let anyone that calls them selves a Christian judge you they should know that is NOT their job, and if they have the gall to do so then you should know they are clearly not what they claim. Good luck to you. Think about how your life could be without the decision you made and spend the time you are not changing diapers making the world a better place.
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Anonymous Coward says ...
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don't regret it. an abortion isn't as bad as it seems to you religious ones out there.
a) mistakes happen
b)you are not a bad person
c) this has nothing to do with religion, this is a medical choice you made.
d) there is counceling available for you, this is a common feeling after an abortion, you aren't alone.
This is not a bad thing that you did, you made the right decision. It is your life and you took responsibility for your actions, like any responsible person does.
at least you are smart enough to know you weren't ready for a child, and you saved that child a fucked up, disfunctional , poor life. because thats how it wouldve turned out had you kept it without wanting it.
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rydagirlx says ...
I am a 18 year old Female named angel and I want to say ...
you are a dumb *****. congratulations you murderer.
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Anonymous Coward says ...
I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...
All these people say you should have had the baby and given it up for adoption, well its not that cut and dried in the real world, once a baby is there you would want to keep it and even if you were strong enough to give your baby up these assholes that want to enrich other peoples lives don't consider how the child may feel at being given up for adoption. People are rigourously vetted but there are still perverts out there that adopt,foster etc
I don't tend to agree with abortion i think its better to prevent pregnacy in the first place, but whats done is done and you did the right thing for you , theres no honour in keeping a baby and screwing up your life and potentially your childs. Just learn from this mistake, practise safe sex until you're settled and happy and the time is right.
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SexyPrincess says ...
I am a 25 year old Female named Melissa and I want to say ...
You should never of had sex if you wasn't ready for the responsiblity that goes along with it. Your just a loser by killing your baby.
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