Im sorry that you are struggling with this secret and I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better but the only thing I can tell you is that I know someone that went through the same thing that you are going through but he took it one step further and slept with his sister when he was around 12/13 years old. He has struggled with this his whole life and he has gone through a lot. The only people that know is his mother, father and both his sisters...and his girlfriend, who happens to be me. Now that I know what he went through I can understand why he is the way he is but all I can tell you is that if he can get past this and be somewhat of a normal man than you can gradually get over this feeling you have. We are human we make mistakes we dont understand all the things we feel all the time but make the right decision and find someone you can love in a health sexually relationship, get help from a therapist or someone you can trust with your secret you will be suprised how much talking about it can help. We were together 3 and a half years before he told me and now we have such a better realationship, just try to look past the idea that you have no relationship with her because no matter what she is your sister and you are her brother and you should want the best for her not to hurt her.....i hope you find some kind of answer in my rambling.

with love,
a friend who understands

ID:B15DF3

I just want to say to start off that i am not being judgemental and that i am leaving this comment b/c i care. One thing i learned in church was to guard your thoughts and bounce your eyes. This means that it is not wrong for those thoughts or compulsions to come to mind, but to dwell on them it is. Just say no, haha, don't allow yourself to think that. And bouncing your eyes means you don't allow yourself to look at her that way anymore. Don't look at her for long periods of time, don't stare, don't daydream, seek God's face and he will help you, I have no doubt of that.

Sincerely,
Concerned and caring.

ID:6E0632

wow tahts crazzy

ID:CE980B

I say go for it.

ID:AF244D

Ur ******* crazy i wouldent date my sis

ID:B52DBB

go kill your self

ID:163486

You should seek professional help. This probably isn't your fault. But it is your fault if you let it continue. Buried deep in your psyche their is most likely a reasonable explanation for all this.

ID:A0D8DC

i am sorry for you... i kinda thought my cousin was hott once but i didnt know he was my cousin at the time... i was really grossed out after the family party ended b/c i flirted w/ him real bad i thought he was just some guy sumone in my fam knew... shamingly i found out that he was my second cousin and the whole attraction thing kinda ended there. but that doesnt really compair to being all wanting to **** ur own sister... if my brother wanted to nail me i think i'd nail his head to a piece of wood. go get some help professionally and get some meds and a girlfriend that happens to look like your sis and maybe you'll be ok. :)

ID:515455

That's a tough one, especially because it seems you're a grown adult, I am guessing about 20 something by now. These "weird" sexual fantasies occur in our childhood and they are normal they are part of changes that our bodies and mind are going through, however the fact that you're still feeling this way, well, it does require some type of counseling although I don't know if can be cured. Facts:

You're very attracted to someone.
That someone is your sister.
In the animal world that would not be abnormal, however you're a human being and by our morals and standards that is considered abnormal.

Just like someone loved someone once and got over it and they aren't attracted to anymore, I believe the same can happen to you once you find other girls to date/have sex with. Have you had sex with other girls? Are you even attracted to other girls, maybe girls that resemble your sister?

By all means don't punish yoursef severely for this, it is not "normal" but as long as you can get over it and DON'T do any moves towards her you should be ok. I believe this will eventually pass.

-zx

ID:67C318

I think you should tell your sister that she looks good in whatever she is wearing that day - maybe jeans - then ask her for a girl opinion on the best part of your body. Just say it is because you want to attract girls.

ID:DF39C3

Where can we pics of her? ;-)

ID:DF39C3

If this is a true post, and not one of a pedophile... run to the nearest psychiatrist (damn, i dont know how to spell that), before you ruin both your lives!!!

ID:009279

I think trying to get over it like anything else would be good, if not seek help. I don't look down on you at all. The people that say otherwise are just close-minded assholes. No reason to judge people like that, try to move on… be happy.

ID:2050C1

You need to get out of the house,leave your sister alone and find a g/f. It's not something you could even live with if you did screw your sister. Consequences Dude!!!

ID:7268DA

ok heres what u should do..grab a gun...put a bullet in then put it square in your 4head..then pull the fuckng trigger u sick demented ****

ID:4A3B5F

I know how you fell, I also have thoughts of my sister. I want to eat her out, have her suck my **** and some day I hope to really **** her good, I just got to figure out how to seduce her. Who cares she is a women and you are a man. Men and women have sex, so you may as well have sex with her and that should end your lusting over her. She proboby wants the same thing.

ID:5D00B3

Believe me, I totally understand what you are going through. You are only human, and as a man, it is only natural to desire a hot woman. Unfortunately for us, the incest taboo is entirely a societal construct - it is not a natural aversion. Sexual attraction is instinctual, and there is no "family filter" to make a perfect 10 seem unattractive just because she shares some of your genes. This really only seems to be the case with guys, though. I have never met a woman that has had any sexual attraction for a relative, although I know several guys that do. Women seem to think that it is impossible for someone to want to have sex with a family member. I can practically guarantee you that she is not interested in having sex with you, and thus you might as well try to put it out of your mind. Don't even bother bringing it up with her. Women almost never want incest, and they don't understand any guy that does.

I know that the thing that makes it so difficult to overcome is that this desire existed during your formative years (early teens). My aunt (a definite perfect 10) and my mom (probably like an 8) were very immodest when I was younger. They always left the door open when changing, bathing, etc, and often wore very revealing clothing. I thought that since they weren't modest around me anyway, that sex wouldn't be a big deal to them. I was wrong on both accounts. The story on each is too long to get into, but suffice to say, both my aunt and my mom were shocked to find out that I wanted to have sex with them and could not grasp the concept that attraction goes beyond genes for me, because it did not for them.

ID:5E4E67