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I have a page on myspace and back in Sept. or Oct. I was browsing and came across a few I liked so I sent them friend invites. I was bored In mid Nov. so I was cleaning out my stuff when I came across one that hadn't replied. I don't normally try a second time but this particular one I sent an email asking if he was going to accept. I knew nothing about him including what he looked like.
He replied saying that he didn't get the invite or he would have gladly accepted and did accept at that time.
We immediately attached and talked daily leaving comments and messages. He is an atty. and even sent me emails between hearings to say he missed me etc. The problem is...he will not call me or meet me. He says he is afaid to meet because he will instantly fall in love and he doesnt want to be hurt again and he hates talking on the phone since he does it all day at the office.
I decided to ask the #1 person on his friend list about him and she assured me he is real. He sent me 2 pics of himself and she sent me one. He recently took a job in Georgia and bought a house last weekend. He told me he researched the school there and there is a water park near and a playground for the kids,etc. but never asked if I would want to move there with him so I wasn't exactly sure of his thoughts. He came home after buying the house and told me that he thought it best if we stayed friends because he works too much and can't offer me what I want and also because my family is here. My mom passed away a little more than a year ago so I actually am anxious about the whole thing. My problem is...I want to meet and he was going to but then had to go to Georgia before someone else got this house.
He went back down (without saying anything to me) and on Valentines I waited to hear from him. I am friends with his ex..#1 and she called and his mom(thats where he is staying since he sold his house here) said he was down there. I had just given up when I decided to check on last time and I had a message...he was angry with me(this happens quite a bit) he misunderstands what I am saying. I was upset and went to bed. I didn't hear from him until 3am sunday morning he sent me a email saying he had just gotten bk and so on. Then it said...one more thing. I Love You!! Just like that! I was taken totally and soooo happy.
Well last nite I fell asleep and he had some old emails from me he didnt read while in Georgia and I sent 2 this time telling him not to bother with those. He did...I woke to a letter saying that I need to make up my mind and its up to me if I want him. He is upset and I dont know why. I love the guy just from talking here and want to be with him but I think he is confused.
All I want is to talk on the phone or meet and he is dragging his feet. His ex told me to put my foot down that there is no reason..this helps me believe he is real.
I dont want to lose him but he doesn't seem to understand that he is just misunderstanding what I say.
Please give me any advice you have on this...I am ready to pack and go if only we met face to face.
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If you have kids, this isn't the ideal situation.
Another thing, if you fall in love with him, you're not really falling in love with the true guy. He's able to plan out what he says online....just as you are, which makes the online-dating sort of thing quite difficult. You don't really know a person until you meet them and spend time with them.
I think you should meet him and see what happens. Don't automatically pick up and move...don't get eloped, just kind of date it out as you would normally for a bit.
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I think you should move on. There is just to much drama. If the guy won't even meet with you or talk with you on the phone how could he possibly love you.
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