I say good for you!What ever works best for you do it!Boy's come and go anyway,just wait and I'm sure the lord will put someone in your life when it's the right time.And like they say, theirs plenty of fish in the sea!And good things come to those who wait... :)

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Wow. This is the perfect example of why faith-based organisations should not be couselling anyone at all. Their 'counsellors' are merely recruiters, preying on the weak. So they told you the devil was trying to mess you up, that you were seeking attention because your Dad had left the church? These are complete and total lies. You were a bit lost, you just needed some support. You looked to your boyfriend for support, but he let you down, and you thought it was your fault. You were blaming yourself for something that was not your fault at all. Cutting yourself made you feel better because you were angry that you couldn't make him love you in the right way. Here's the thing, we don't control what other people do. If your boyfriend was cheating on you, it means he is not a good boyfriend. Everyone has bad relationships, it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, it just means that that person is not the right person. The church wants you to think that the devil is trying to mess you up and you need God/Jesus to help you get through that, but they are only reinforcing your self-doubt for their own benefit, so the church grows. That's how the church works. I see that you are looking for support and are looking to Jesus for that support at the moment, but I hope you will learn to look to yourself for support, to say "I am doing what I think is right, to the best of my knowledge, and if people don't see that or if people don't treat me how they should, they have a problem." The church wants to tell you there is something wrong with you, that you need Jesus to fix you. I am telling you, these things that have happened are not your fault, your boyfriend was a bad boyfriend and you deserve better treatment.

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god doesnt exist, it is merely a trick for the few to control the many, its a nice theory look it up on the web. as for ur situation ur a 14 yr old immature girl, who knows nothing. u think in ur head like hes the one, yet all this trouble he puts u through u still lie to urself about how he is the one, but what ur really afraid of is that you wont find anyone else in ur life, good to know ur totally over him, so move on, n next time u see him punch his gay *** in the face. PS why cut urself? loser.

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god is in the eyes of the beholder...believe or not believe it's your choice but there wasn't a work of the devil in this instance...you are young..you will experience a lot of heart ache...he may have been flirting with you at first and you may have liked the attention but when he found out you liked him then he stopped...guys like to play cat and mouse..they love the chase..when they don't have to chase anymore, then it's not fun to them anymore..hence, the reason he didn't show affection towards you anymore......and as for the church, yes, they tell you that you need to be fixed by jesus so that you'll join their religion..it's a big cult...your dad is not at fault here..the devil is not at fault here...you are not at fault here...the guy is not at fault here...your brother should've minded his own business and kept his mouth shut...but it's life...someone will flirt with you and you will take it to mean something more serious then what is intended and then your heart will get broken...that's how you learn and move on and not make the same mistake twice....live and learn

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excuse me but i beleive ur wrong about god he does exist in ur ******* heart and i should now im cathlic. Even tho ur young u can make ur own decisions but i always look to our father. I think the best way is to go to a father in a church and tell him about it and he will give u the right answer.

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Hey gurl.. Let me tell you God is the only one who wil understand you no matter what others may say, think or do. I been through hell and back but I always trusted in Jesus to bring me through. The times that I have fallen has been because I have taken my eyes off of him.I've been Christian since i was 14 and now I'm 21. I had heart aches, bad breakups, bad relationship with my parents,gotten drunk and made many mistakes but I feel good because Jesus forgives and comforts all my hurt, pain and the sins I committed. I go to a Christian College and I'm trying to live for him to the best of my knowledge. And let me tell you there will always be ups and downs. I've been a leader and I have made many mistakes but I learn from them and that's what makes me stronger. Romans 8:28. God Bless

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Wow girl you nailed it on the head! You are seeking a males attention because your dad did not give it to you. What you should do is this tell your dad what he has done to you. Let him know your ordeal and if you cant build up the words write him a letter and hand it to him. you have aknowledged your source now you need to comfront it. Pray for the courage and I agree with that other girl this isnt the work of the Devil you explained the root yourself.

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you ave found god my child !! lol
there is no such thing as god u r making urself believe so that u consentrate on that instead of the boy!!!

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I liked the story. Thanks for posting it.

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What a great testimony .. don't let the harsh comments of other people on here bring you down. Keep on putting your faith in Jesus, and He will guide you to where you need to be.

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i envy your conviction.

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