**** his *** to death and show him how much of a lady you are. and if he stays around, you know that little bastard wants your ***; bad!! Dollar Bill

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All through college I had friends with benefit relationships and I think that they are the very best.

I like the fact that both people go out and do fun things like movies or coffee or camping or whatever.

Sometimes, for no particular reason, we would just look at each other or our arms would touch and then the action would start.

There were no emotional feelings. As soon as somebody says, "I love u." then the whole situation changes.

I love GIVING massages so she'd sit on the floor in front of the sofa while I was on the sofa. Just leaned forward and rubbed her shoulders for an hour or so. Sometimes we'd just watch tv like that for a LONG time.

THEREFORE, I think that you should call him back and let him know that you'd like the friends with benefits thing. Remember though, friends with benefits doesn't mean that you are automatically his only 'special friend' and he is not your only 'special friend'.

Go ahead. Have the time of your life.

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If he hasn't called yet, it sounds like he might just be a voyager. He just likes the idea of doing things where he can get caught. It sends a thrill down his spine. This is why the happenings are always at work. Now that he no longer works there, I bet he doesn't want anything to do with you. Friends with benefits are lots of fun, but it doesn't sound like he wants this either. Just a **** coworker buddy. Move on.

ID:E43DC6

Trying to recreate something in your life that you liked or loved is an obsession that ruins a lot of lives. Consider it a good memory, or bad memory, and leave it at that. If you are in love with him, then you have a real mess, and I have no advice for you. <^>

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Anyway, did you call him?

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