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I hate being alone. I feel like I am alone, even though I live where there are tons of people around all the time, every day. And I have a great boyfriend. Great family. I feel alone, and scared.
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Anonymous Coward says ...
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Everyone feels that way some times. You should focus not your loneiness, but instead on the positive side of your live. be happy that you have such a wonderful family and a great b/f (which you said yourself). It isnt healthy to always see things half empty. if youre feeling this way, look into changing it, you can change your life through your own actions. Do what makes you feel happy rather it be helping your mom cook or even working on the car (or other project). You arent alone. you may just feel that way b/c you dont think you "connect" with others. And if you act like you dont wanna "connect" with others, that tends to distance you further from others. smile and be happy. thats the grestest gift you can give anyone worried about you.

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i hope that helps

-knite

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verty says ...
I am a 30 year old Male named Bob and I want to say ...

What are you scared of? The way to beat fear is with knowledge. Discover what you are scared of and then learn something about it.

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im not sure of your spiritual relationship with God or if you've ever been to church before. but without being religious, we can through life with everything..a great job, great significant other, and we think were doing something wrong or somethings missing...most of the time that something is Jesus: John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that who ever believes in him will have everlasting life. I hope you think about that. But be encouraged and i hope that you will see how much you have:)

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Anonymous Coward says ...
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*Hugs and affection across the universe to you*

I know exactly what you are going through. I've just come out of it. i know this might sound crazy, but a friend of mine did my birth chart. A lot of what we go through stems from the influences of other planets on us. if you think about it, we are microcosms of our universe. we are made of the same elements inside that exist way beyond us and all around. So it's no surprise to me that things like the movement of planets would influence us. That's one thing. If it is difficult for you to talk to anyone, it's okay to spend time alone and figure things out. Get to the root of why you feel this way. Maybe your chakras are off. Yoga helps. I'm serious. it so helped me because i was active and in a state of meditation and I leaned to look at my problems objectively and find ways to make the appropriate changes.

Also visualization. it's difficult at first. I'm still trying it out. But visualize your ideal state, what you would like to have happen, what you'd like to see change. Focus on it. We have a lot more power over or situations than we think.

Good luck and be well.

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Anonymous Coward says ...
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Also a book "Letters to a Young Poet" by Rainer Maria Rilke definitely helped me out of my loneliness. it's a small book. you could finish it in a day. but it definitely talks about what you're going through. and it will teach you how to rise above it.

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I agree with one of the previous comments. If you haven't accepted Jesus in your life, that's probably the loneliness that you're feeling. I believe that everyone carries an "emptiness" until Jesus is a part of their lives.

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i didn't read all the other comments... but all i am saying is maybe you need to find somebody to confide in, the most trustworthy and loyal person you know... tell them everything that is on ur mind.... tell them about this feeling and anything else... as soon as you have nothing to hide from that person, you will have nothing to feel alone about.... tell that person u feel alone and that you seriously need somebody who will be by ur side no matter what and whenever you need them.... make that person ur best friend and get close to that person... don't lie or anything else to ruin the relationship.... find somebody who get along with really well and that will still be ur bestfriend after knowing everything about you.... someone that you can relate to!!

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Anonymous Coward says ...
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Sounds like you are Bipolar, or depressed go see a therapist it will help you a lot

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Anonymous Coward says ...
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Hava ya ever heard the saying " could be surrounded by heaps of people and still feel alone" Usually when i feel like that i usually think bout all past memories and then concentrate on fixing where im heading. it may not seem like such good advice but. but thats how i worked it out. trust me x

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