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I have no idea what to do and no one else to turn to...My problem is that I've been head over heels in love with my best friend for over a year now. I told her about 2-3 months ago exactly how I felt and never really got a definite response. For a while it felt like things were different and that there may have been some seeds of something more then what we just were, we've actually had a little way of saying I love you but not saying it at the same time, I've tried to be patient and hope that things will become what I want them to be one problem...she seems to be in love with another guy. This guy is very far away and also much younger then her but she still seems to want to be with him. I asked her one time if we were going to be more and she told me she didn't know and that she felt something for me she just didn't know what it meant. She also says she konws she has to choose between one of us but doesn't know which one...so to get to my advice needing part, do I hold on and wait because this really could be the thing I've been wanting for so long or should I just cut my losses and move on because this girl is just going to hurt me in the end?
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Ok I think I might be able to help with this. I have a story to write and hope this helps. I have a friend that was in the same position you were in. This is what he did. He told this girl that he loved so much that he would continue being friends with her no matter what. And she went off and dated some other people and what not. She always turned to him for advise and would tell her what she needed to hear. Nexted part gets fuzzy for me so be patient. I am not sure of what exactly happened but something happened in her life and he was there for her whenever she needed him to be. He was always the ear she could talk to whenever she had troubles in anything. Too make a long story short this went on for about I would say 3 or 4 years. mind you he was dating other people as well having good time and what not. Now 10 years later they have 2 children and are the most happy couple I have ever seen two people can be with eachother. I guess what I am trying to tell you is don't make her choose because if you do you might win the battle but you won't win the war. And maybe that war may never come but atleast you have made friends with someone that you can trust and how can you loose out on that. I hope this story helps you. Joe

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