whats head?! i know that sounds stupid but i go to a privite high school and my parents are VERY protective of me

i just wanna know why you are with you current g/f still?

Hey I did the same thing... I guess it makes since the way you said it. It doesn't make it right but at least you know someone else has done it too.

If she's your girlfriend and you fooled around with someone else behind her back, you cheated on her. And why are you her boyfriend if you don't really love her? Are you just using her?

You say "once a cheater always a cheater isnt true", and I must agree. You sound like you are being honest with yourself, now be honest with your girlfriend. Honesty is good, I see no shame in what you have done, own up to it. You got head from a girl before she moved away, it's not like you cared about her.

ID:44FC0A

You have to be honest with ur current GF as soon as possible cuz trust me I have been hurt by the same thing but all I can say is u need to remember Karma wat u did is really wrong and it will come back to u.Sorry to tell ya but its true.

ID:DBB85A

try stop being a dickless piece of **** *****!!!

ID:10C3F6

Then why are you still with this chick.Ditch her so you can stop the lies and get your swerve on with her without sneaking around. It's too much to keep up with

ID:C4A38B

And how would you feel if this girl the one you "really love" was in a committed relationship with you and then messed around with someone else and told you it really didn't matter because she "really loved" the other guy and not you. Its BS. Whether or not you are in love with your current girlfriend, you owe her at least the respect to be faithful and honest or end it. Its not about if you love her or not, but that she is a PERSON with feelings and a heart that can be broken. No person deserves to be treated that way, and you are showing a mighty big lack in character. Stand up, take responsibility for your actions, and inaction. If you can't give yourself to your current gf, leave. Don't just stay for financial reasons or because you're too insecure to be alone. You wouldn't want someone to do that to you. If you are in a committed relationship with someone and you do something with someone else, that's cheating. End of story. You are just trying to rationalize it to yourself, because somewhere in you, you know what you did, and you know that it was wrong.

ID:F77A65

If you don't love her then you shouldn't have even dated her

ID:34249A

that is messed up. how can u even act like u are not wrong? i hope she finds out cuts ur dick off. i know i would

ID:3500AF

I have been married for over 10 years and have cheated on my spouse for almost all of those years..I love him he is a wonderful father and provider. I rushed into marriage at a very young age, i was molested growing up as a child and he was the first man to make me feel safe, and the only other man i had had sex with, besides my 1 boyfriend i had in high school..In school i was never thought of as pretty i was to devoloped for my age so i wasent like the scrawnny little girls i grew up around, as i grew older the men around me liked my womaness, they seemed more intrested than my husband, so i always gave in..Plus my husband and i have nothing in commen. I dont know how we have lasted this long, I love him very much but i think that we have just gotten in a rut..we have now 3 kids 2 of them his 1 by a mistake but hes a angel in anyrite as my other 2 i never told my husband never even thought of it tell he was born and i saw his face then i realized whoa i know that face. I want my husband and i to always be togther but i want him to notice me, love me, not just provide, i want to feel wanted by him that all the other men show me.....I hate going other places...It kills me deep down becasue he is the last person i would ever want to hurt. I have been faithful since christmas time and hope and pray everyday that i stay that way...

ID:F2ABC1

yeaaaa its weird, i love my gf, but she will not give me head, when i cheat on her (3 girls, steady rotation) i dont even feel guilty, and rarely think about it

ID:F6761A

i say if you want to have a primary partner with multiple sex partners find a gf or bf that's okay with that as well.

ID:193550

I think that you are just using your g/f to get some ***, and then you still want to roam the rest of the world, why dont you get back up with your ex g/f then since you care so much for this girl. If I was your g/f I would NOT give you head either especially if I know your cheated on me, and didnt seem to have/ show love. You need to be honest.

ID:138BE2

well... he DOES say "i dont love my g/f and am only with her for necessity sake." so yeah, he's using her.

ID:1B440E

You sound just like me, about 20 years ago.Now, I am alone and old, no woman wants me because I am a cheating, lying, old, *******. I say keep it up [haha] and try to be like me. It's lonely as hell, we can kvetch about that. And I will have a buddy! Good luck, bigshot. P.S. I am not anonymous, my name is Edward Morze. I want you to know who I am. Regards

ID:D39B77

LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE, WHY ARE YOU WITH YOUR CURRENT G/F? YOU DON'T LOVE HER, AND YOUR WITH HER FOR "NECCESITY SAKE". WHAT THE **** IS THAT? YOU OBVIOUSLY LEFT YOUR LAST G/F FOR A REASON AND YOU NEED TO KEEP IT THAT WAY. YOU OWE IT TO YOUR CURRENT G/F TO BE RESPECTFUL AND FAITHFUL, BECAUSE LITTLE DO YOU KNOW, YOUR ACTIONS ARE A REFLECTION OF HER, WHETHER SHE KNOWS OR NOT. SO YOU NEED TO MAKE A DECISION ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND, AND IF ITS NOT TO ONLY, AND I MEAN ONLY, LOVE HER, THEN YOU NEED TO LET HER FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL RESPECT THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO SUCK THEIR DICK, AND FIND A "REAL" MAN THAT WILL LOVE HER. LIKE SHE IS SUPPOSED TO BE GETTING FROM YOU. STOP THINKING WITH YOUR DICK AND THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN. THATS WHAT GOD GAVE IT TO YOU FOR. AND HELL YEAH, KARMA IS A MUTHAFUCKA, CUZ BEST BELIEVE THAT **** IS GONNA COME BACK ON YOU!! DICKHEAD!!!!

ID:D17CC3

Myabe she doesnt give head because of something that happened to her. I am 20 and dont give head. and heres why. When i was 13 yearls old i was attacked bu 2 guys. while one was having his way with me the other would pout himself in my mouth so hard i couldnt bite down or scream. maybe she has a reason you self centered prick. so let her go if u dont lvioe her cuz she obviously deserves WAY the hell better than a sleeze ball like you

ID:B0CD1F

Your an *** I cant believe you would say that omg if you dont love your girlfriend please leave her and let her do better than you im 100% sure she can

♥ Celeste

ID:A90492

these is some stupid people bye bitches

ID:F722AC

Dude, I agree with the whole once a cheater always a cheater thing is not true, but for ur sake, I gotta tell u, bitches are crazy!! HAHA! I am one!! HAHA! When I found out my boyfriend was out behind my bak gettin sum, O man, I was heated and still am!! U shouldnt stay with her if u really dont love her...I mean, even if she's not sumone u can grow to love....if she aint givin u what u need leave her...so then that way, she never has to know u cheated on her and u wont have to deal with her bitchin and complainin all the time! Cuz I kno I wont let my ex live down what he did to me!! It hurt, it did, but Im not gonna be like these other ppl and call u a ***** and ****...Im gonna give u sumthin from my perspective as a crazy *** ***** who got cheated on!! HAHA! But yeh...well good luck with all that! AND LEAVE HER!! HAHA!

ID:1B625F

Dump her so it doesn't go any further and her feelings are hurt worse then they are now.

ID:99053E

total twat learn your *** some dam respect if you was doing that to my hood rats then there would be trouble
and another thing players usually aint sad pussys that surf the internet especially looking for a geek girlfriend on the internet
chat room sad mon

ID:2BCE42

Never cheated physically but did emotionally which is just as bad, but realized if I put as much effort into my marriage as I was putting into the guy I was thinking about all the time, and IMing and calling and emailing; going out of my way to communicate and be with my husband like I was going out of my way to be with this guy, IMing and emailing my husband and having IM sex with him it would really spice up my marriage. So I'm doing that insteaad. Cause ya know, even though the "relationship" is over, it's still hard to put him out of my head. We talked sex and what we wanted from each other in detail, and touched and looked at each other a few times, and that just makes it hard when I'm with my husband because I think of the other guy and what he looks like (bigger) and how it felt when he touched me and I touched him.

ID:EC680C

head = sucking dick

ID:B303B6

getting your dick suck = awesome. you did nothing wrong. I applaud you. go do it again

ID:B303B6

...you are a ******* prick. How the **** can you stay with someone who you don't love. You say it's out of necessities sake. Well you seemed to do fine with some random person from myspace. So why don't you go find some other whore who you don't care for and don't care what happens to her. Just go **** away and stick your dick in a bunch of random people. That's the way to live life buddy. I agree with whoever said that you deserve to have your dick cut off. Anyone who does what you are doing is a sad person and deserves the worst that can happen to them. I hope your girlfriend finds out. Although mabye it would be better if she didn't. If she loves you as much as you love your ex than I KNOW it would break her heart. You really need to rethink your life pal...

ID:74FDD6

I agree with u but it still sucks to be cheatred on. My current bf has cheated on me 3 times and me on him 1time but we are still 2gether, not cuz we love eachother but cuz we depend on eachother.

ID:A8F86E

Hey... I don't give my bf head...does that mean he cheats on me too? Damn is every guy like this?

ID:4CC8D5

my boyfriend cheated on me while i was really sick. he went and he fucked some other girl i was totally hurt! i loved that guy sooo much! 2 months later he calls me cryin tellin me he still loves me n all kinds of stuff tellin me to give him a second chance cuz he wanted to b with me soo bad. i didnt u no why?one a cheater always a cheater. u better watch out with the future girl u are with

ID:485010

You have to be the lamest excuse for a human being. If you cheat you shouldn't be with that person period you waste of oxygen.

ID:7373D2

if your g/f wont do it...get every other ***** u can to suck you off....thats what girls are for....word.

ID:FAB4A9

DUDE I DONT THINK YOU DID ANYTHING WRONG. IF YOU GIRL WONT GIVE YOU HEAD THEN YOU GOT TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL. FOR ALL YOU BITCHES OUT THERE HATIN ON THIS GUY STOP! IF YOU DONT PLEASE YOUR MAN SOMEONE ELSE WILL SO ITS NOT URE FAUL SWEETIE ITS HERS. AND IM A GIRL SAYIN THIS. BUT IF IT WAS ME ID B PISSED AND I WOULD CUT MY BF DICK OFF. SO BE HAPPY IM NOT URE GIRL HOMMIE!!!!

ID:F2EBD1

Ok just because your girlfriend does give you head you have to cheat on her. Coming from a girl that doesn't give head and I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now! Just because she doesn't give you head doesn't mean **** if you really love the girl than head wouldn't matter! See guys are such assholes why must you always just think of yourself. Think of your girlfriend what if she went off and cheated on you? you would be pissed right? Well just because your girlfreind doesn't know about it doesn't make it right and doesn't make you more of a man! Maybe you should grow some balls and tell her the truth or just end things so you can go be the slut you r!!

ID:850FAF

I have been thinking about cheating lately. Do you think I should?

ID:ED3DC2

Well i want to say .. would u have like it if you gurlfriend went and got her ***** ate bye someone else if u wasnt givein it to her?? what makes u think its ok for you to do it?

ID:702805

I am Heather.
I cheated on my boyfriend a couple of times but I never told so that is soo the way to go. Maybe we can hook up sometime;)

ID:4A575F

I really don't get it. Why have a GF/BF if you're going to cheat on them. My boyfriend cheated on me he didnt say a word but I found out anyway. When I asked why he couldnt give me a str8 answer. More than likely because he thought he could get away it. The truth always comes out no matter what. So save yourself the drama and 'fess up. I have cheated in previous relationships but I broke it off as a result.

ID:70DDEC

whoa you're a major jerk not the fact that you cheated on you're girlfriend but the fact youre only with her for necistiy needs? its guys like you that make me want to give up on the male race all together.

stop bitching and kill youre self *******

ID:1D21A4

Wouldnt you just break up before you cheated?
Idiot

ID:C1601D

I also cheated on my husband with our neighbor. I can't justify what I did cuz it was wrong. I can only say this, I love my husband very much. We have been through a lot. Married for 8 years and together for 13. I regret a lot about the way we came into this. We were both each others one and only's if you know what I mean. He had resentment towards me and I had resentment towards him. You see we ended up filing bankruptcy because of a business partnership. It went downhill from there. We ended up fighting a lot and he's hit me a couple of times. Once when I was pregnant so I just wanted to get back at him for hurting me so much. He knows I cheated and he has no trust for me at all, although, I swore it will never happen again and I meant that. My advice is you need to let the girl go. Find someone you truly care about and be faithful. I hate that I lost his trust but I felt like he was able to get away with hitting me and I couldn't handle that.

ID:79B468

Karma is a motherfucker...and so are you.

ID:60680A

I have no opinion on the "once a cheater always a cheater saying." But my last bf cheated on me, Im 18 and hes 23, and he said he did it because he thought I was cheating on him because I said I wasnt ready to get married and have kids with him quite yet. He claimed that I was with another guy and thats why i wasnt ready but thats not true. I was with him and him only. Now that he realized that he wants me back and I told him he has to earn his respect back because I love him and he huirt me very badly.

ID:7F1ACF

ive cheated b4... n ive been cheated on... it sucks.. its never rite.. but i mean i understand... if ya girl snt givein u wat u need... then u gota find someone who will... n yea imma chick.. i mean u should juss break up qit the current gf n get wit the chick u loveee... but i dunno.. i juss thought id say wat i was thinkin... <3

ID:EC5B97

Cheating is lame. There is NO excuse for it. It's not all about the sex, if you did that just because she wouldn't cave in & give you head you're lower than scum. It's her right. Just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean she's obliged to do stuff like that with you. If she doesn't want to, she shouldn't have to. You should respect that. & in my opinion, she can do much better if she's still with you... she should dump your sorry ***.

ID:15E2F7

WELL NEEDLESS TO SAY YOUR VIEWS ARE QUITE TWISTED, I CANT REMEMBER HOW OLD YOU ARE, BUT I AM SURE IS IS YOUNG. YOUR LETTING YOUR FIRST GIRL RUN YOUR LIFE IF SHE IS SOOO SPECIAL WHY ARENT YOU WITH HER? LET IT GO. LET THE OTHER GIRL GO ALSO SO YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE TO SUCK YOUR ANXIOUS DICK, AND SHE CAN FIND A REAL MAN...
GROW UP.

ID:CAB857

everyone of u are writing and tearin this guy a new *******, but not once did I read anything about STD's, maybe u all should think bout that

ID:B2A5D7

Your G/F deserves better than you! You are such a loser!

ID:76DEFF

I dont think its such a bad thing that u cheated on your girlfriend with your ex. But u shouldnt cheat on her because she wont give u something, cause if thats the problem u should dump her and find someone else who will instead of cheating on her for that reason. But since u dont love your current girlfriend it makes sence that u would cheat on her and why u didnt cheat on your ex girlfiend, i think thats a true concept. U cheated oh well, i never have, but alot of people do. theres nothing u can do about it once its done just get over it and move on, good luck with that!

ID:E19477

why are you with her if you dont wanna be you can get a piece of *** anywhere without having to be in a relationship

ID:892CC7

Have you had sex with ur current gf?

ID:C85E8E

Yeah, I think your a sack of ****. . .You should let her go so she can be happy becuase your an *******.

ID:9ECC56

Why be with the girl for necessity sake? What you don't have your own place? You better man up, and get your **** together. Do the current a favor, leave her and keep on sniffing after your first.

ID:51E7B9

This is for all you dumb shits who say you are with someone you love but because they won't give you head you cheated...Get a life i mean comeon Thank god she doesn't give you head lord knows what she could caught with ur rotten used up dicks. You need to grow up and let the poor girls loose and learn what love is cuz i think you have it mixed up with being comfortable..

ID:A5D94C

Your an ******* thats all I have to say.

ID:FBF5AC

you guys are fuckin gay. FUCKIN PLAYER !!

ID:D696A9

You guys souond like you are entitled to "head". Get over it; some girls don't like it, some are willing, and some get off on it. it's not something u cn demand. The dick was made to go somewhere else, anyway.
ur screwed up, way so big time! Using a girl like that is so immature, mean, selfish. You are a narsasitic SOB. You shitshead who think like he does are pure scum! You think with your dicks!

ID:A25D6A

I am a girl and I can say that if you don't love your current girl friend then you need to let her go now before you hurt her more she need to move on and quite wasting her time on you. I have been cheated on and it does not feel good and so how would you like it if you were in her shoes and she was doing the same **** to you. I also feel that before you start getting all proud of yourself for telling her you should have taken the time to think about what you were about to do before you did it. When you are doing something like that and you are in a relationship you are not the only one with feelings that need to be considered. So I really hope that I don't know you and I highly doubt that I do but if I did I would be so highly disappointed in you and the fact that you think what you are doing is alright. However I know that you would feel differently if you were in the other persons shoes. Perhaps you should take the time to think about it.

ID:3F60A1

look. in some people's nature they just need to cheat. it's not right or anything but some people simpley CANNOT be with just one single person no matter how much they love them. i've been dating this guy for 8 months and i've been very provacative with four or five guys. i text them sexy pictures and talk about meeting up with them to have sex and things like that, just because it's good to feel wanted and i'm a flirt. however, i've never met up with any of these guys and i don't know if i wouold ever actually go through with it. if you cheated on your girlfriend because you don't love her, fine, but she needs to know that you cheated on her, that you don't love her, and you don't plan on it. because you cant get into a serious relationship with this girl while keeping those secrets. it will eventally come out whether you want it to or not.

ID:70D8C3

I was just wondering of anyone can explain to me why you would be with someone if your going to cheat on them? The relationship obviously isnt working, so break up. BEFORE you cheat. No matter what excuses you make its not ok and you know that. So why do it? You dont HAVE to be with anyone. Your just too much of a coward to break up with her. What? Does she have money and doenst make you work? Did your dumbass knock her up? Are you just so completly self absorbed that you dont care about hurting someone else? You think its funny? I really just dont get it. Please explain it to me!

ID:7A8FC1

It amazes me how twisted some of this thinking is. 1st off why would you tell her that you cheated? To hurt her? Why does she need to know? Why not just break up with her, you obviously dont care. And if it is in your nature to cheat as someone said, then why get into a commited relationship at all? You have no concept of love. your not mature enough for a comited relationship yet and thats fine. Just date, dont make someone think they are your one and only. Thats being intentionally mean. Not cool.

ID:7A8FC1

my name is amber, i think i can relate ... i have a simaler relation ship when i meet my husband we were hot an couldnt keep our hands off each other. now we barely have sex an whin we do its allways about him he gets off an leves me hanging. hes only into getting oral sex he dosent return the favor... but ive never cheted on him i cant say that i dont want to at times, i can understand u saying your not in love its just not that easy to leve exspecialy when u have kids togather. all i can say is if your not happy... at some point u have to make a choice an move on, or atleast talk to her about why your unhappy. i feel for u i realy do!!!

ID:189DB6

yeah man. no **** what you did was wrong. NOBODY (man or woman) should cheat. People should be better then that.We are animals, but should try not to be. She SHOULD suck your dick BECAUSE she knows you like it, and she should want to do things for you, and you for her. IF you KNEW from the START that she didn't give oral sex, and you liked it, then you shouldn't have started a relationship.IF she did in the beginning,to win you over, then stopped, and refuses to do it anymore, then get out of that. Sorry PEOPLE. SEX is a BIG part of a relationship. Since people have Mind AND Body, emotion and sex should be in equal balance.Oh, and a BAD sex life is complained by MANY wives, so they often cheat if a man gets impotent.A few of these women are dumb as **** on here. They think you are an *******, and that is true, for cheating, but some on here said if you loved her, then sex should have nothing to do with it. WRONG! a healthy relationship is a MIX of LOVE and LUST. Some women don't understand. Just because you love them doesn't mean they should not want to please you.As if women don't like sex. There is such a thing called stress, and oral sex works wonders for relieving it. Grow up women, quit refusing to please a man, suck his dick if he likes it.If not, find a man that doesn't like it, or could go without it. i have met a FEW men that didn't enjoy oral sex for one reason or another
Some of my added commentary below of just one passage that caught my eye------------------------------------------------------------------
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"Cheating is lame. (not lame, deceitful which is wrong) There is NO excuse for it.(i agree) It's not all about the sex,(not ALL about, but a BIG part) if you did that just because she wouldn't cave in & give you head you're lower than scum.(a man hater obviously or isn't comfortable with her sexuality. Give it a few more years babe) It's her right.(yeah it is, but she should help him with his needs, especially if you help her with emotional needs) Just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean she's obliged to do stuff like that with you. If she doesn't want to, she shouldn't have to.(NO, doesn't HAVE to, but should WANT to. Learn that sometimes a person should do things they don't want to do. like work) You should respect that.(It's hard to respect a woman that doesn't want to consider (respect)her man's needs) & in my opinion, she can do much better if she's still with you... she should dump your sorry ***"
CONVINCE HER TO SATISFY YOUR PHYSICAL NEEDS, OR FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL.

ID:981565

Hey I am an 21 yr old female who got married to an boy named marcus pledgure he ended up going to the army last year then this year he got kicked out he started cheating on me with this hoe named quena now he has no job no place to stay except with his mama and he has no money plus ia m divorceing his worthless *** what an loser plus I get health benefits until the end of 2010 and 2 thousand every month so who really came how laughing you tell me what you think...

ID:7F018D

Marcus Pledgure also has an std which I will not put on here plus he is not an real piru blood he got fucked into an gay gang so why does he lie about it marcus james pledgure being gay is not an crime......he is having sex with allof these women in hawaii and ohio and south carolinia and giving them an std plus he is not in the army anymore he is an liar call and ask schofield barracks hawaii for him they will tell you he got kicked out with an dishonorable discharge what an loser

ID:7F018D

hey lady loser, with the ex loser guy who got booted from the army. yeah, he may very well be a loser, but so are you. free healthcare and free money spells L-O-S-E-R. and you don't even have to give that man sex anymore to get your bum-self taken care of.

ID:981565

the duality of man,commitment or lack thereof. ive cheated and been cheated on and you know what all my years on earth have taught me?
humans are animals with animal instincts and you cant stop 65,000 years of evolution no matter what. guys who are married and monogomus
will always look, sometimes cheat. women are the same, but with extreme emotional highs and lows adding to the mix of sexual frustration. i say screw inhibitions of love and marriage (gods version of s & M)that our unhappy parents adhered to. we arent meant to feel wrong about sex! if its not fun whats the point?

-shadowOfArmageddon
my space

ID:656427

I cheated on my ex boyfriend back in college. I felt neglected because he was always too busy to spend time with me.I engaged in a heavy makeout session with a hot guy I met at a party. I ended up breaking up with my ex boyfriend a week later and never told him I cheated. The funny thing is that I don't feel bad about doing it. If he had treated me right in the first place I may not have done it.

ID:F4C4D0

you are totally out of line...cheating on your girlfriend because she wouldn't give you "head" you are a ******* *******....once a cheater always a cheater is true...this made me very upset because I am a girl and I know how it feels to be lied to..you are a dickhead and need to learn how to grow up...obiously you screwed it up with your ex girlfriend and are digging yourself one big god damn grave. i mean how do you think you are going to even attempt to get back with her when you are cheating on the one girfriend you already have.

ID:2F6401

oh man! aint that some ****. i went out with a married man lost my V to him think thats bad ? I got knocked up!!! I say its true if you love someone you wont cheat... even if its just head. i dont think people realize how easy is to say " i wanna see other people" just like that because in the long run think about how many people can get hurt in my case there is plenty and im sure yours is similar. At least tell her and give her the option, maybe she wont be mad or maybe she will either way i think she has the right to know.

ID:061CC2

ya okay?ajnjffsdfddffffffffffffff

ID:7EAF77

i think it's still wrong even though u don't love your current girlfriend. if you don't love her then break up with her, don't cheat on her.

ID:9607AE

i have two boyfrenz and itz driving me nutz i like them both the first one i dont wanna hurt but the second one he so nice i just dont kno wat to do but ur cheatin on ur gurlfren waz just wrong

ID:CE5500

to get head is to get a blowjob...
to give head is to give a blowjob
but sometimes to give head to to get a blowjob, and
sometimes to get head is to give a blowjob.

ID:A99545

Hi there well you shouldn't have cheate you should have told her what she was doing wrong, but because you don't love her you shuld let her go neccessity or not you must care if she hurts right? My husband cheated before we were married I cheated once after we were married but we were always honest and thats only a thing for people in true love/. I belive you can work out things and make them better but by your statement thats an obvious one that you don't love her get your **** together and move on.I wouldn't tell her just tell her your not ready and it's not her don't hurt her any more than you have.Be with someone you love or be single and mingle.Plus stds girls are hoes trust I work with girls all the time that have sold themselves by the age of 14 think about it do you want your dick to turn green know the girl at least.Don't be so random

ID:66BE94

hmmm...i dont agree with cheating and i know i never will het on my man of 11 years (i'm 26). I do try to put myself in the other person's situation and analyze things from your view...I uhderstand you dont love your current gf, buut how are you sure she isn't with you? I hear you when you say you are still deeply in love with your ex gf....then you need to obviousy deal with that situation first before you make other girls think they're in a secure relationship. There's right and wrong....some people say there's gray areas....but to me it's just RIGHT or WRONG (no matter wat reasons are behind the wrong...it's still wrong) You sound like an educated person and i'm pretty sure you now what you did was wrong no matter how much you try to justify it......let this girl go if you know you cant give her your whole heart. Whats the point of loving if you're just going to limist yourself? Stand alone and figure out what you want and who you are....this way you wont damage other people who may be just as lost as you are..some even more.

ID:7F9080

i know exatley what your going through im in that tight spot righ now if you want to talk my yahoo inst. mess. is andreadohring

ID:FBDDE0

hey, 2 da gurl under me, head is wen a gurl sucks a "guys thing" do u hav a myspace? we can tlk on there

ID:EE15ED

I hate that you have to ab anonymous for this. Not sure how long ago this was posted but just came across this. My myspace is Christan Wallace if you want to look me up after I've said my piece.

My boyfriend told me sex wasn't that important to him when we first got together 2 years ago. He said he didn't HAVE to have it but he liked it. We had a very thriving sexual life for about the first year and then due to some physical problems it deflated. He felt that I should compensate for the lack of continual sex daily by giving him "head" and I felt like he was assigning me a second job. Need-less-to-say, he has never cheated on me in the 2 years we have been together. He treats me great and our love has helped us out of some nasty ****. So using "head" as an excuse is just that. Excuses are like assholes...everyone has one. I mean come on. You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. You could talk until you were blue in the face but that doesnt change the fact that what you did was morally, and in some beliefs, ethically wrong. Misery loves company but you need to let her go. You don't even have to face the music. You could walk away scott-free. And as crappy as that sounds I would do that. No point in hurting her anymore. A woman can't help who she loves. Even if it is a pig-headed male chovanistic idiot. Live, Learn and Grow the Fu*k Up

ID:466753

that girl has a lot of analogies..
i think u like having someone that does not know what is going on, so you feel like you are getting away w/ something, your using ure guilt at her expense!

ID:F9CC1E

im the same one above me^, but, how old is this thing!? lol its prolly fake haha
*tasha

ID:F9CC1E

Are you black? Because then it would be understandable. Would you do that to someone you love? hmm...I think thats why a lot of girls become lesbians. For one, 'most' guys are assholes, and two...guys suck at sex! I dont know any girl that has even gotten off by another man. So hmm...I vote Lesbian. hehehehe

ID:2990FC

this is gay,,,,this is gay,,,,this is gay
why do peopel do this ****

ID:834154

a this **** calls you a anonymous coward but it doesn't let you pic anything else bujt anonymous so **** it

ID:834154

That are you black question was idoitic, men cheat from any race, you probably didn't complete high school, because then you would've known the statistics for who cheats the most and surprisingly it isn't black men, *******.

ID:2E3781

1. You're a dumbass for saying that going out with her was a 'necessity' 2. You're a dumbass for going out with her when you don't care about her at all 3. You're a dumbass for thinking that cheating is okay even in this case 4. You're a dumbass for posting it on a website 5. You're a dumbass for thinking with the head in your pants rather than the one on your head.

5 good reasons you're a dumbass, Now, go shoot yourself.

ID:089ECB

Oh and as for the wife cheating on her husband, I bet your kids would LOOOOVE to find that their mommy is a liar and a cheater. Good job mom. Grrreeeeat role model. If you're not happy, get out of it, if he doesn't have enough time to "love you" get out of it. If you're being a selfish ***** and you cant change your ways, get out of it. You're pathetic, and I really cant buy the whole "well i love him, I really do, he just never pays attention to me" bullshit, because it's as easy to snap your fingers today as it is to get a divorce. No, now YOUR kids, have to go through the fact that their mom is a cheater, cheated on their dad all the years they were married, and screwed up their whole ******* life.

People that justify cheating may as well be justifying ******* a goat.

DUMBASS.

ID:089ECB

if you dont love her then why waste time with her? jeez just let her go so u wont hurt her nomore

ID:F25A7E

If you wouldn't cheat on someone you love, why are you with your current gf and not your ex. IF you love your ex, according to you, you are cheating on her. Retard.

ID:71F0A7

HWen you cheat always come out and say you did it if your really sorry. If your not and keep doing it. Don't make him/her suffer. One lie after another only makes things harder in the end. Honestly may hurt, and be painfull. and even kick you in the ***. But if you don't suck up your punishment then you were never sorry in the first place. I know someone that was cheated on by her husband. The hurt I saw and felt, b/c she's my bestfriend. But i saw her love it was strong for her husband. ANd she won the war in the end. Her war of love. She and her husband are know seeking help to work on everything. He will say himself it was hell when he first told her. He will let the world know that he still is earning his trust. But his love is growing and the past is all a lesson. so I ask that if all of you are unhappy then don't keep doing it. Move on and save the hurt from growing. If you are sorry forgive yourself and tell the truth. Even if it hurts. But no matter what forgivness needs to come from yourself first. Or it's all gonna end with more anger hurt and lies. Most of all the pain will only be the hate you have with yourself b/c of the guilt. Plaease I ask you think about it. things work out with the truth all out on the tabble.

ID:E53011

ok. to me it sounds like u r using your g/f as a pice of *** wich is wrong man, just cuz she wont give u head. i think its time for u to grow up and be a man. dont be using girls as objects but as an equal. i bet the only reason u never cheated on your ex/gf was becouse u got whatever u wanted from her. thats not love that is lust. think to yourself. if u r in any relationship ask yourself if this girl stops giving me sex will i still love her. if no than its not love your in now. if u can honestly answer that question yes than that is true love.

ID:46765C

i got a question my gurl dosent like to give head but we have had sex before shes says its nasty how do i get her to give me head

ID:23DAD2

First off, the fact that you came out to get others' responses is respectable. A true cheater (doesn't give a ****, only likes a chick for her *****) wouldn't admit to it being wrong, but still giving explanation.

I understand how relationships can become necessities, especially as the "love"/infatuation fades. As long as you save your current girlfriend from too much pain, you seem to have some sense of how "wrong" can actually be "right".

P.S. I don't especially like giving head (would YOU like doing it?), but relationships are give-and-take. I do it for special guys (close lovers and boyfriends) and as a sexual trade. For example, if she gives you head, you'll go down on her. Ya know?

Good luck.

ID:7BB3E9

you ***** **** stop being a ***** a girl is a peice of meat **** em all

ID:43B383

all these sad motherfuckers on here who wants to say girls ain't nothing but a piece of meat... and all they are good for is giving head.... how ******* retarded are you..... no brain cells left..... you all are going to grow up to be ******* men... cuz no girl is going to want your stupid ***...... men wouldn't know how to pull their socks up wit out girls....... and cheating on anyone is bad even if you don't have feelings for them..... being wit someone to jus get *** is absolutly fucked up..... its all going to come down you in the end.... jus be real... or is that to hard for a prick to do......

ID:2F152C

STUPID PLAIN OLD FUCKIN STUPID!!!!! First of u gotta be the craziest person in the world to continue messing wit a ***** u dont love (do yall got kids together?) If not y waste ur time if u cheated an u did then there is no reason for u to be with her u dont love her so that makes it twice as easy for u to cheat an not feel bad about it. Life is too short move on if its head u want then go find someone who will give it to u but be careful cause if u meet someone who gives good head u better be eatin the poonanny right or else u may end up the one to be cheated on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ID:3709AE

u are a rotton bastard and anyone is that does this, u r using her for your own gain obviosly, my thoughts about sex is that if it is not with the one u love, then its dsgusting, u dont know where tha hell its been, n its prolly been everywhere, its fukin gross, ive had my heart broken and it sux more than anything in the world, if she loves u then uve allready broken her heart, u shouldnt have let it go on this far, u r a shitty rotton person, u have to think b4 u do ****, i hope u walk in on your future wife gettin banged or givin some stranger head...

ID:8AFC88

wow there are some fucked up people on here talking about cheating. what dumb asses! okay for you i would cut ur dick on and shove it down ur throat. if you want to have ur cake and eat it too then okay find a girl that likes you going around with others, haha good luck on that you stupid **** sucker. okay and i wouldnt even dare suck your ******* dick knowing all the sluts you have stuck it in. i went thru the same thing and so i was sucking on his dick and i bit it then got up and left!

ID:0D8565

Hey i think giving head is great... i love to do it.. There should be more girls out there like me. I have a bf and he still hangs out with his female friends and i hang out with my guy friends. we just know that we are only ******* each other not anybody else..

ID:5DD929

Lot of girls out here stating that they don't give head and that they've been with their boyfriend for X amount of months or years. Don't be naive in thinking that your boyfriend hasn't cheated or isn't thinking about cheating. As long as you are denying him a pleasure that another girl will not, you risk losing him.
Usually girls who don't give head consider girls who do to be whores. Unfortunately for you (non-givers), that is not true at all. The women who give have gotten past their child-like mentality of sex. They will be fantastic partners while you will continue to be bad. You cannot offer up only one orifice and then claim that you are good in bed.

ID:CD5B46

whats the point on cheating on your girlfriend? if you really love her you wouldnt even think about another girl!! if you loved the way she made love to you why would you risk losing i and her??? a little advice to a generous girl to all the guys that cheat on the girls they love.....dont do it have you ever heard of the old saying never lose the one you love because if you lose the one you love she will always love you but not want you back!!!!

ID:B2D9DC

UUUMM SOMEONE NEEDS TO CUT UR DICK OFF

ID:5DEDE5

"DUDE I DONT THINK YOU DID ANYTHING WRONG. IF YOU GIRL WONT GIVE YOU HEAD THEN YOU GOT TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL. FOR ALL YOU BITCHES OUT THERE HATIN ON THIS GUY STOP! IF YOU DONT PLEASE YOUR MAN SOMEONE ELSE WILL SO ITS NOT URE FAUL SWEETIE ITS HERS. AND IM A GIRL SAYIN THIS. BUT IF IT WAS ME ID B PISSED AND I WOULD CUT MY BF DICK OFF. SO BE HAPPY IM NOT URE GIRL HOMMIE!!!!"

You're a dumb nigger. OOhhhh Dumb Nigger says what?

ID:5A7865

what it do tha names amber...aka lil'smoke...uhm the one a playa always a playa aint tru... been there done that....yea ive cheated on niggaz but they done me the same way what can i say "U CAN'T PLAY THA PLAYA".....u get treated how u treat otha mu fukkaz ya feel me?
lil'smoke *****-z

ID:D9DC69

i think ur full of shyt if u dont love her tell her if u dont wanna be with her dont if ur gonna cheat break the fuk up u r the dumbest fukin person i have ever heard of n if u think ur rite shyt think again cuz ***** u aint n my name is destiney so go suck sum wood o but wait thats cheating

ID:05A6A4

i am a 26 yr old women who has been married for 3 yrs to my with my husband for a total of ten yes together. He has recently cheated on my and that **** hurts. He won't admit it, but there has defiantly been evidence and he has indirectly said he has. and i can't stand him for it. i have had many opportunites to cheat but i am considerate of his feelings. but now i feel like what the hell he did it to meand i have to get over it and move one, let's see how he would deal with it if the shoes were on the other foot.. Anyway. i am just angry and bitter, plus because he keeps lying about it.

ID:D20164

You shouldnt have her as a g/f then....most girls when they are concidered your g/f... they would hope you would never cheat on them because you care enough to be there guy. . . woman dont take that lightly. If you dont love her...and dont think you ever will... break it off...dont lead her on... tell her your dating her but your not TOGETHER... otherwise she will get her hopes up. Make it known you might be seeing other people.......honesty's big in any relationship/friendship whatever, just be open... If you tell her your just **** buddies, she'll think of you in a diff. way and she'll do the same...its not fair to her if you make her think you should be her only guy while you can go be w/as many girls as you please k?..... is that good advice?! i think so.

ID:0C1937

I'm a 23yr old female, I'm biassed about whether you're an asswhole or not. On one hand, I understand the whole cheating thing. She didn't give you what you needed. I believe that when a man or woman cheats on their partner its because the partner is doing something wrong. In your case, she didn't please you the way you needed to be pleased. On the other hand, I think you're an asswhole for not letting your g/f move on. Its sellfish of you to stay with her and to mislead her by having a serious relationship with her when you don't love her. If she loves you, then you need to let her go because the faster you let her go, the faster she can move on. You don't even need to tell her that you cheated, just let her go. For all the people that think you're an asswhole and all those nasty things...you all probably hate your sex lives and I think it makes you cringe to know that your partner may be out there finding his/herself better ***. Sex is not everything in a relationship, but its very important. Even in the year 2006 we still have so many close minded jerks who are still scared of sex and still think that sex is a sin or something and don't realize that sex is what put you here in the first place. Procreation people...but it shouln't be a job to procreate, it should always be pleasurable for both partners. Get lives!!! Good luck with your situation and just try to mend what you've done by breaking up with your g/f and letting her move on.

ID:18E71B

ur a ***** u dont like her brake up with her dontcheat on her

ID:15E870

I don't understand why guys and girls do this, if you dont want to be with the person your with theres a little thing called breaking up its what you do when you lost your liking for some one before some stupid **** happenes and your in deeper **** then you already r in most likely. I've been cheated on before, but thats my fault since i was stupid and thought that a hood rat could change and treat a girl from the "rich" comunity right. Broke my heart to when he broke up with me and then i found out all that ****, now hes trying to crawl back to me say oh baby i love you i miss you your the best girl friend ive ever had. If you think the once a cheater always a cheater isnt true, ive been cheated on 3 or 4 times cuz all the guys that cheated on me thought they where pimps...-haha untill i showed them the power of MY pimp hand- ya every time they try crawling back to me i ***** slap the mother **** cuz i hate their *** and they could rot in hell for all i care, damn they didnt even get any thing from me, afew make outs and afew hand jobs but that was about it, they all tried to cheat on their gfs with me, -hens the comment about once a cheater always a cheater thing and why i bith slaped their ***-now theyr afraid to cheat and i laugh at them for being stupid mother fuckers!

ID:382EE5

omg who cares....you probably have a small *** dick and thats why she wont suck it...and your ex has to be an ex for a reason right...well its yur small *** dick.....theres your problem

ID:309E49

When i first started reading this, I thought you where a dumb @$$. Now that I read it all the way through, I realize you are a confused dumb @$$. How's this sound "once a cheater always a cheater isnt true" "i cheated on my g/f twice" More then likely it was all in the same week. and no offence but how about "i got in a little trouble with my g/f for sneaking out while she was sleeping but she never found out" That makes as much scence as cutting off your dick as a method of birth control!! My advice is dump the fat ugly blind chick your dateing for leiser, and waste some energy chaseing your slutty ex, that more then likely hates you anyway. Besides maybee that last person who commented is right you have a small dick don't you.

ID:96A7F6

So i was going to comment on the dumb **** try'n to justify cheating, with lack of emotional attachment with his (god knows why) girlfriend. But now i realize close to eighty percent of the commenters on this page or (more then likely) more screwed up then you are, so i guess your doing ok purcentage wise. I know this comment won't help anyone realize their problem. Cause if your as dumb as i think you are, you don't realize you have a problem. And if by some small chance you are smart enouph to understand what im saying, You would never take advice form a Anonymous Coward.
P.S. I hope you come home to your girlfriend sleeping with three men and a pitbull, so you finaly have a reason to dump her, and get busy dieing alone.

ID:96A7F6

you're one trashy son of a *****. i hope you get aids.

to the person who says the commenters are screwed up, maybe true, but learn how to spell before you judge- it makes you look ignorant. hard to believe someone so awful with gradeschool english can live up to high moral standards. ;) you didn't even care enough about yourself to learn how to spell percentage.

ID:801BB0

I had almost forgotten morality and spelling walked hand and hand. I think i would trust a person with bad spelling over an overexaggerated idiot. Not to offend you are anything.

ID:96A7F6

If you don't love her stop playing her and let her move on. She will punish you someday by cheating on you. If your going to stay with her never cheat again cause as the saying goes comes around goes around! It sounds as if shes not the one for you. If you really are in love it will be hard to find another as great as she is. Shes smart for not going down on you. Thats sick. Could you imagine when she cheats on you and you will be tasting that other MF's dick.

ID:D77D06

Ok look, Im not goin to tell u that u were wrong or right, but what I will tell u is that u dont want to see things for what they really are. For example, u say u r wit your girl for other reasons for the "sake" of it..but if u didnt care for her in some way u wouldn't even be worried bout this or even feel the need to bring it up. Maybe you do care about your girl in some way or your just not ready to be in a relationship just yet. Take some time out and figuire out what u really want cuz its only fair to who u wit now.Honestly I dont think you have any feelings for either of them and u just need to move on...but since u did mention it, it seems like it is worth u takin some time out and figuiring out what is u want. Hope u do and I wish u luck on that.

ID:99CD8A

YOU KNOW WHAT! YOU ARE JUST A STUPID..STUPID MAN OR BOY YOU KNOW WHY BECAUSE YOUR GOING TO CHEAT ON A YOUR GIRL CUZ SHE DID NOT GIVE YOU HEAD COME ON ARE YOU FOR REAL WOW POOR BABY S.O.S GIVE THE MAN HEAD OR HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU WOW SAVE IT BUDDY GROW UP JUST REMEMBER WHAT GOSE AROUND COMES AROUND YUKKKKKK YOU MAKE US WOMEN SICK!!!

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