could it possibly be a phase you want to experience while your young? your 19, so who knows how the rest of your life may go. I would start with you bf. why not just tell him that you love him, that you are maturing, and growing into a young woman..a young woman who is finding herself... it could be as easy as saying " this may come as a surprise, but im attracted to women too" or being upfront and saying " I think im Bi". Either way, im sure your bf and your family are going to still love you regardless. Just bcuz ur bi doesn't mean you dont love ur bf (make sure he knows that) -- he will probably feel a little incompetant, but if you love him, and he loves you, i know you two will be able to share this together, he may even be intrigued by it. i dont know what else to say, bcuz admitting something like this is hard, especially to those who know you the best. Just be brave. Listen to your heart, and let ur head b logical.

Dont apologize for who you are. If this is you, ANYONE who says they love you WILL ACCEPT IT! trust yourself, you will be fine. goodluck! =0)

ID:035072

Just be honest let your family support u through this
And really be honest with the father of your child
Because whatever decision u make will affect yo child in someway.
At first he may be shocked just give him time & a little space
If he really loves u he'll support u
And just remember that yo family will always have yo back
Be who u r don't let people don't understand u bring u down
Hold your head up proudly
Good Luck
I hope this message helps u in someway

ID:2D0D0E

First, I don't know if i would say anything to your family yet. How sure are you about this? I had a really good friend that told me she thought she was bi. She later figured out that it was just because she had just started college and wanted to try new things. She is married to a wonderful guy and is quite happy now. You need to figure this out before you go telling everyone because you don't want to upset your family for nothing. That is something that if you change you mind later you family will always be worried about. But I don't know your family. If they are the kind of family that is okay with that sort of thing, talk to the ones that will back you up.
Next step... you said bi...not gay so you didn't even tell us if you still have feelings for the guy who you had a child with. You aren't married so chances are that if you tell your guy that you still are crazy about him but would like to bring a girl home...(When your child isn't there because that wouldn't be right)...every now and then, he will be up for it. I don't know many guys who wouldn't like to hear that. However, if you don't want to be with him at all anymore, you should tell him. How much you tell him is up to you.

ID:2F8C12

ok so you're bi. If you are with your boyfriend what does it matter that you like girls unless you're planning on cheating? just because you fancy both doesn't mean you have to sleep with both at the same time, pick one or the other you can't have your cake and eat it! ;0)

ID:BBC301

Tell your boyfriend and if he cant handle it its his loss.

ID:B06224

Being a BI girl is oh so common now days, u dont need to tell anyone its not important all girls can potentially be attracted to other girls. The important thing is that ur with ur bf now so u couldnt cheat on him with another girl but when/if u brake up with him just go for anyone u want but if u really wanna fuk another girl now suggest a threesome to ur bf.

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